By: Jen Shoop

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On Wednesday morning of this week, my husband left for Union Station for a quick work trip to New York City, and afterward, I found myself an impatient blur as I expedited my children through the same circuit we travel each morning. The one in which I prompt them to eat their breakfasts, brush their teeth, put on their shoes, get out the door — and they respond in chelonian, distractible, or crabwise fashions. I know they know what they are meant to do, and yet I find myself calling out instructions. Sisyphus, seen.

This particular morning, I was short of temper. Mr. Magpie and I had just talked the afternoon before about how we both felt frayed and irritable, and diagnosed our Moods (capitalized M) as the standard late-July malaise we experience each year. Everyone is tired; camp fatigue has settled in; the kids have spent too much time with one another; nothing about summer feels as fresh and promising as it did in June; we’ve outdone ourselves as parents; the backyard toys sit in disuse, cobwebs, and puddles of last night’s rain; even the final vacations of the summer feel like a push. On top of this, Mr. Magpie was heading out of town, which always feels like an unwanted interruption to our lives. I rediscover, when he is away, the depth of his contributions to our household. He does all the cooking and a lot of the grocery shopping. He prompts the conversation about what we’ll have for lunch well before noon is nigh. He often picks up the children. And, of course, I’m hopelessly attached to his company.

So, there I stood, half-staffed. I was about to expedite my daughter, who was scribbling furiously at the kitchen counter while I stood with the door open and keys in my hand, a mother duck holding her wing out, waiting for the final duckling to cross through, when a quiet came over me that I can only describe as grace. I closed the door; I bit my tongue. I waited. It turned out she was drawing a paper medal with Katie Ledecky’s name on it for Olympic spirit day at her summer camp.

I was reminded of Anne Lamott:

“I do not understand the mystery of grace — only that it meets us where we are and does not leave us where it found us.”

Perhaps this will sound woo-woo to you, but I have this feeling sometimes that mothers around the world are sending each other good energy when it is most needed. I try to contribute to this circumvolution, especially when I see a young mom struggling to quiet her newborn, or fussing with the damned nursing cover. I want to tell her, “You’re doing great,” or “It’s all going to be OK,” but I also know there is nothing more annoying than a more tenured mom with no baby on her hip weighing in without invitation. And so I just beam a little good energy her way instead, visualizing tiny ripples of calm radiating toward her. And sometimes when I am talking to my sister, who had her second baby earlier this summer, and I can tell she is tired and sitting in those specific weeds of caring for a newborn, I imagine myself sending a little good energy to her, all the way up in Brooklyn, and also envision some of those good vibes emanating out to any other mom who needs it. As I write this, I recognize its Disney absurdity, but I also believe it to be true. Those waves meet us where we are and do not leave us where they found us. They nudge us ever so gently into a calmer place.

Grateful if you were one of those moms who sent grace out into the world on Wednesday of this week. I needed it.

Also this week…

+Landon made an outrageously delicious recipe from Via Corota’s cookbook — we are huge fans of Rita Sodi. (My favorite restaurant in NYC when I lived there was I Sodi, but I understand they’ve since moved it to a bigger spot, and that it’s lost a bit of its charm! It used to be a postage stamp white tablecloth spot — just the best.) This dish had raw marinated tuna on top of white beans and was perfect for a hot summer night.

+When the sun ray wants to be in your frame, you say yes. And you think of Mary Oliver: “Around me the trees stir in their leaves and call out, “Stay awhile.” The light flows from their branches. And they call again, “It’s simple,” they say, “and you too have come into the world to do this, to go easy, to be filled with light, and to shine.”” (Also, wearing my Frank and Eileen Rory dress — I believe code ESCAPE still gets you $50 off, and maybe also try SUMMER50. I found these in good old fashioned mailers in my mailbox! All of that day’s outfit details here. Whenever I wear this dress, I feel like Ina Garten — you know how denim shirts are her uniform? I love the utilitariness of it!)

This is 40. My birding books.

A Farmer’s Market trip!

New pajamas from Lunya for the first night of the Olympics. (Washable silk!)

Beck (!!) with the National Symphony Orchestra at Wolf Trap. He was incredible — so talented, and such a dynamic performer. The orchestral accompaniment made you realize what a gifted musician he is. I was wearing this dress, which felt perfect for an al fresco music experience — it was HOT. Our frosted cups are Match South!

Gorgeous new shoes from Larroude (currently 50% off!), which I plan to wear with this spectacular Alix of Bohemia dress for my 14 year wedding anniversary (how?!) in August. Also available in a gorgeous red pattern, and you know how I feel about red right now.

Onward, friends!

*****

A little shopping poetry for you today, too, if you’re in a shopping mood:

BARN COAT // CARAMEL CAKE // TRENDING MYSTERY BOOK // ALIX OF BOHEMIA DRESS // ANABLUE HAIR TREATMENT SERUM // LUNYA PAJAMAS // THIERRY COLSON SHORTS

Barn coats are definitely in for fall – while I daydream of wearing Loewe’s modified barn coat in denim, I am now contemplating this Everlane (under $200 and selling fast). Love the contrasting collar. // Picked up this elegant navy dress when it was marked down to 40% off. I shared all my top sale picks here and here. // Love a top layer like this to wear over tank / sports bra before or after my Heather Robertson videos. // I was sad these white shorts were sold out in my size — eyeing these instead. I know it’s late in the season for a white short purchase, but I can’t unsee Nicole Cassidy wearing white eyelet shorts with this cashmere cardigan. // Am I the only one not reading this mystery right now?! Just downloaded to read at Deep Creek Lake. FOMO! // Also packed these cubes as a surprise for my kids while we’re there — good for restaurants, back porch hangs, etc. A Mackenzie rec! // Gen Z approved socks. // A splurgey thank you gift / hostess gift / anniversary surprise. // My favorite hair treatment — just started reusing after a hiatus and can see a big difference.

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+WHERE DO YOU LIKE TO READ? On the heels of my post on repeating books, I was thinking about where and how I prefer to read. I’m most happy when I’m semi-reclined while reading, preferably on a sofa or a pool chaise lounge. (I actually prefer not to read in bed but it’s sadly the most common site for me, as I usually read right before going to sleep!) I love this Instagram account with dreamy settings for reading (preview below!). What are your favorite spots and times of day to read?

+NANO-TREND FOR FALL: I’ve been noticing rugby shirts on several of the chic peas I follow on Instagram (c.f. Alice Pilate, left, and Cassandra Lanrick, right). This feels delightfully 90s prep to me (my terra cognita) — but it’s challenging me to think about how I’d style as it’s boxier and more boyish than I typically go these days. What do you think? A few options to contemplate in the ambient oversized fit: KOTN, J. Crew Mens, Left on Friday, Maje. For something a bit more tailored: Kule.

+”CHARM” BY CLAIRO: My sixteen-year-old neighbor introduced me to Clairo’s new balladic-pop-synth album. I’m in love! A great morning-while-cleaning or coffee work session soundtrack.

+ON GROWING UP AS A READER: I loved this clip from a recent SJP interview. In it, she comments that her mother, an educator, insisted her children never leave the house without something to read, and that – to this day – SJP and all seven of her siblings will have a book on their person whenever they’re out in the world. How charming?! It reminded me of my parents, who modeled the same. I remember being embarrassed by my father carrying his war tomes into the Christmas pageant at school, and the sound of a library book’s crinkling plastic jacket is deeply engrained in my aural memory of my mother. (She was never in the carpool line without one!). Now I see myself as an extension of their gesture.

+FRANK & EILEEN 15TH ANNIVERSARY SALE: This weekend only, F&E is offering 25% off a selection of their iconic pieces (discount appears in cart). Sadly, it can’t be stacked with the $50 off promo (code: ESCAPE), but it is such a great time to pick up one of their luxe sweat sets, which are incredible for travel, and obviously can be worn separately, too. I love the almond color! So chic!

+INTERIORS INSPO: Holy cow, my friend Christina’s apartment in NYC is a dream! I want to sleep there. I’m hoping we’ll tackle the design of our primary bedroom in 2025, and I’m majorly inspired by her bed.

+EYEING + BUYING: I’m straddling the seasons right now! I am already thinking about fall wardrobe and travel, but still very much living a hot DC summer, as you can tell below. La MareGold generously sent me the eyelet set (top, skirt) below and I hope it arrives in time for my Lake trip — will be perfect for barefoot hanging on the deck. I also ordered this skirt thinking it would be a good transition piece — I’ve been eyeing for a few weeks now. My biggest excitement, though, is ordering a Dyson AirWrap after months of debating!

AMAZON BAG // DYSON AIR WRAP // DOEN SEBASTIANE SKIRT // TOTEME BAG // LAMAREGOLD TOP AND SKIRT // FREDA SALVADOR LOAFERS (15% OFF WITH MAGPIE15)

+INTERESTING INSIGHT INTO RELATIONSHIPS: I found this quote arresting. Have you ever felt that you can’t quite “break through” in a relationship, or get to the real stuff of life with someone? That you find yourself bobbing at the surface? Alternately, that you don’t feel you’re fully seen or understood with someone? This could be a piece of the puzzle.

+BESTSELLERS: So many of us bought the trendy (and sure to sell out / already sold out in select colors) La Ligne Colby pants this week (10% off with MAGPIE10). I ordered a pair too! You can get the look for less with these. This J. Crew sweater was also wildly popular — the two would go great together!

01. LA LIGNE COLBY PANTS // 02. J. CREW SWEATER // 03. UNTUCKIT DRESS // 04. OLD NAVY DRESS // 05. TUCKERNUCK DRESS // 06. MADEWELL SHORTS // 07. SOAP PUMP // 08. RIBBED POLO // 09. MADEWELL JEANS // 10. SOLDOUT TEE (15% OFF WITH JEN15) // 11. BETTER THAN BADER FACE CREAM (UNDER $50) // 12. HAIR CLIP

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TUCKERNUCK BLOUSE // PISTOLA DENIM SKIRT // STAUD FLATS

JULIA AMORY DRESS (ON SALE!) // DANS LA MAIN TOTE // CELINE SUNGLASSES // ANCIENT GREEK SANDALS

G LABEL CARDIGAN* // SEZANE TANK // AGOLDE PARKER SHORTS // ALTUZARRA WATERMILL TOTE // DORSEY CLEMENCE // DORSEY KATE RIVIERE

*Comes with a chic belt — see me styling it in motion here. A similar look for under $50 here.

SEZANE BUTTON DOWN // RECREATIONAL HABITS SHORTS // HERMES ORAN SANDALS (LOOK FOR LESS) // BOGG BAG POOL TOTE // DANS LA MAIN TOTE

J. CREW DRESS* // SEZANE CROSSBODY // HERMES WATCH // HAIR CLAW // K. JACQUES X DOEN SANDALS // JANESSA LEONE HAT // MIGNONNE GAVIGAN NECKLACE

*Important field note: the top is unlined (!) I wore with a nude bra and it worked perfectly. Bottom half has a half slip!

EMERSON FRY DRESS (IN MOTION HERE) // DORSEY CLEMENCE // MIGNONNE GAVIGAN NECKLACE

DOLCE VITA SANDALS // AMAZON SHORTS // FRANK & EILEEN WHITE BUTTON DOWN (PART OF SET) // ALTUZARRA WATERMILL TOTE

HILL HOUSE SWIMSUIT* // ANCIENT GREEK JELLY SANDALS // MINNOW POUCH // SUNSHINE TIENDA PAREO (PATTERN SOLD OUT, SIMILAR HERE) //

*A really good full-coverage, flattering suit in such a sweet print — there are ladybugs and seashells hidden in the motif! Runs TTS.

LULULEMON BIKE SHORTS // YEAR OF OURS SPORTS BRA // RHONE SOCKS

By: Jen Shoop

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I admitted on Instagram earlier this week that I listen to the soundtrack to “Pride and Prejudice” (2005) at least three times a week. I prefer to write in pin-drop silence (made possible by my noise canceling headphones), but I discovered last year that I can also draft to evocative orchestral music, especially pieces spotlighting the piano, my erstwhile instrument. Familiar backcloth, perhaps: the echo of a former practice. I’ve been slowly assembling a playlist of this and other similar-sounding movie scores, including tracks from “Out of Africa” and “The Duchess.” I find the opening notes a Pavlovian call to creativity. “Dawn” breaks: it is time to write.

I don’t think you can coax Calliope onto a page, but —

there is something to creative ritual, some way it relaxes the words right out of me.

There is also the peculiar joy of writing something roundly, and feeling a synchronous swell of music. (There have been instances, however, where Mark Northam’s “Up” solo piano theme has mistakenly led me to think I’ve written something masterful when it is, in truth, bland as hard tack. So there is a risk of undergilding the lily. Caveat emptor.)

I was delighted and surprised, however, by how many of you wrote to reply “Same!!!” and then added some of your own favorite tracks (one Magpie recommended the soundtrack to Holly Hunter’s “The Piano,” and I instantly added all of the tracks to the mix), all while pressing a finger to the lips: “Don’t tell anyone I listen to this, either.”

So, I’m here to share our favorite secret work playlist (Apple) and also on Spotify, and perhaps invite some of the uninitiated into our circle.

What music do you work to?

Post-Scripts.

+More on designing spaces for creativity.

+Do you consider yourself creative?

+What’s your house music?

+Another playlist I love: for chores at home. (By the way, how do you stay on top of chores in your household?)

Shopping Break.

+J. Crew’s new arrivals are fab — consider this pointelle dress and this Doen-esque smocked drop waist style.

+Speaking of Doen — they just launched an incredible pre-fall collection yesterday and generously invited me to pick a piece. I had to have that Marielle gingham! I already tried her on — see here. I size down in Doen, but this one runs a tad slimmer than most — still works a size down but maybe take your true size if you’re at all worried. She’s perfect.

+You might also check out their cult favorite, bestselling jacket — the Pascual. This is the shape / style for fall and I love the contrast corduroy collar! They do such a chic job merchandising with more feminine base layers (love the contrast of feminine / masculine). I predict this will sell out by the time you want one in October. Great look for less ($60) here.

+Just updated my Amazon shop with some favorite new discoveries for August. A few fabulous fashion finds: these quiet luxury sandals, this Jenni-Kayne-esque cardigan (compare with their popular Cooper!), this $35 crossbody, and these ribbed socks to pair with loafers for an on-trend fall look.

+I did order a pair of the La Ligne Colby silk pants for fall. These have sold through several times. I will likely need to have them hemmed but I absolutely LOVE the idea of pairing with a chunky, slouchy striped knit or tailored blazer. You can get the look for less with this pair from J. Crew, styled with this $50 sweater or this $128 lady blazer.

+So many of you bought this under-$100 navy dress last week. Do I need her too? I do feel like she’d be such a great wardrobe workhorse / base layer. I already have their classic hydrangea-blue eyelet-hem shirt dress, which is just a timeless piece; I love the oxford-esque blue! — you can see me in it here here. Untuckit offered us 20% off with code JEN20.

+All my promo codes here!

+Leset released my favorite pointelle tee in navy! I need her. I lived in the white one all last winter.

+You might consider snagging this perfect striped sweater, now $104 (originally almost $350). It’s a J. Crew price for a superior quality product. Also love this knit blazer (also on super sale).

+Another great new entrant into my new designer bag quandary: Toteme’s tote. Still pricey but not as expensive as some of the others I’m considering.

+Rails released their popular eyelet pants in black. Chic chic!

+Have been using these resurfacing pads for the past week or two and love them. I use every few days after cleansing in the evening when I feel like I’m due for a good scrub / cleanse / reset / refresh.

+A few luxe finds from Net-A-Porter: these wool Manolos (!), this belted Ulla coat elevates everything, any of the cashmere knits from Lisa Yang, these scalloped shorts, these slingback Aquazzuras.

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Q: Paris in September!
A: Heavy on my mind, too, as I am preparing for a trip to Europe (Italy) this fall. It should be in the 60s in Paris at that time. I’d go for layers and flat, closed toe shoes. My mom has always advised to pick a color story — usually navy or brown for her — but of course black is timeless, too. Below, a brown-focused wardrobe that you could mix and match countless ways — e.g., the jeans with a simple striped tee beneath the cardigan; the jacket with a brown dress or the cardigan; etc. I feel like the cardigan is core to this — other chic options here, here, here. I also like a slip dress like this or this that you can layer beneath a cardigan / jacket for evening. Bonus: slip dresses take up next to no space in a suitcase.

G LABEL CARDIGAN // CZ STUDS // LOEWE SUNGLASSES // CARA CARA JACKET // STRIPED BUTTON DOWN (LOOK FOR LESS WITH THIS) // AMAZON CROSSBODY // FRAME JEANS // METIER TOTE // CHANEL FLATS (LOOK FOR LESS WITH THESE)

Q: Fall jeans and shoes to wear with them.

A: I have a whole post on denim I’m liking going live early next week but the TL;DR is that I think that the two styles to shop are a) barrel/gaucho style jeans (trendy last season) and b) wide legs. I think these chocolate brown beauties (seen above) are gooooood. Also love these, these, these. For shoes, try a loafer (15% off with MAGPIE15)!

Q: Dreamy soft pjs for kids.

A: We love the ones from Lake. Two other smaller, spendier brands I’ve loved in years past are Nella Pima and Petidoux. And Kyte makes beautiful, stretchy options in solid colors. One of my girlfriends had a little one in a hip cast for awhile and asked me for the softest, stretchiest, most high quality cotton basics because she just wanted her little one to be comfy — I recommended Kyte for that. Really easy on-off and beautifully soft.

A: Sneaks with a pop of color.

A: Splurge: Chloe Namas or Loewe Flows, both of which still feel relevant and fresh even multiple years since their introduction. More moderately priced: any of the pairs from under the radar brand Flower Mountain. Under $100: Sambas in a fun color, or Onitsuka Tigers.

Q: Black statement belt for fall.

A: I love the ones from Andersons. Look luxury, and lots of different tasteful but interesting styles. I know you said black, but how good is this one in navy or brown?! This Madewell is on-trend with the dramatic, glossy gold hardware, and would look great layered over a slip dress. Finally, I’ve actually been seeing a lot of the Prada logo belts — a bit flashy, maybe? but can look uber chic. Imagine layered beneath a smart blazer.

Q: Pool cover up that looks good with a 1-shoulder and high twist front suit. Friendly cotton / linen.

A: You might try a button-down, worn open, or nearly all open, to spotlight the neckline? Like this or this? Or pair with a pareo or beach shorts like this or this.

Q: Clothes that look pre-fall but still work in 100 degree weather in Austin. Mainly work tops.

A: Have you tried this one? She’s silky and loose cut but has that fall crispness. This linen gilet could be good, too. Julia Amory also has a bunch of very polished tops to consider — this shell is gorgeous.

Q: Something I can wear with bb that can be washed if stained. But that makes me feel good.

A: I love an easy, 100% cotton patterned dress for this circumstance. Something like this or this. The patterns don’t show stains/marks easily; the colors spark joy; the silhouettes are easy to move in; and with a 100% cotton fabric, you can wash and dry. Or you could try a tee dress like this — everything from this brand is specifically made to be laundered at home, which I love. I also really like the uniform of a circle skirt like this paired with a basic tee (possibly navy or gray – white does feel high-risk) and some trendy sneakers, ballet flats, jellies, or sandals. Finally, this is a perfect season for trying the less expensive Amazon versions of trends — $15 boxer shorts with an old button down, for example.

Q: Hiding the early bump work outfits!

A: Congratulations! So exciting. This dress was MADE FOR YOU. I like the idea of throwing a striped sweater around your shoulders with it. Not sure of dress code, but these JA shirtdresses are also very loose and body-skimming, and shirtdresses in general look polished and can be worn with the belt cinched a tad higher than usual (consider this one in a great red color, under $100).

Q: Anniversary gift for husband?

A: Loro Piana loafers. This is what I want to get Mr. Magpie!

Q: Late summer fancy cocktail party.

A: I’ve been drooling over this Bernadette, which is now 40% off. SO GOOD. Cute but chic but sexy but classic but modern. She’s everything. Also love this LaMareGold, this Wiggy Kit, this Coco Shop, this Julia Amory, this Alix of Bohemia, this Cara Cara, this Anthro, this CBK-inspired white mini.

Q: Kids back to school tennis shoes.

A: My kids are obsessed with their Sambas! In years past, my son has also loved this exact style of New Balance (he’s had three pairs in different colors — easy velcro on/off) and Van’s. And my daughter has been really into “Nikes in cool colors” for the past year or two.

Q: Western inspired boots for a concert — want some I’ll wear again so not cowboy.

A: Isabel Marant (hunt around for a pair on sale, like these or these!) — they have a Western vibe but read more urban/modern/not-costume. Look for less option: Freda Salvador’s Loretta boot.

Q: Birthday gift for 13 YO niece. has everything and into all things trendy.

A: My 15 year old next door neighbor freaked out when I gave her some Sol de Janeiro body products that had been gifted to me! Big hit. This tracks with something a mom at my daughter’s school said about her 12 year old daughter: that all she wants is new skincare / beauty products from Sephora! Maybe a little goody bag with some treats in it? Maybe avoid makeup unless her parents are cool with that — but something like this Summer Friday lip balm and hand cream from Selena Gomez’s brand? Or TikTok-popular Rhode beauty lip tints?

Q: Midi or maxi dress in lighter color for Labor Day wedding in MA. Shoes too.

A: I’m swooning over this. Love the bustier neckline. This ballet pink beauty is also stunning, and this yellow ray of sunshine is fun.

Q: Dress for family photo shoot – summer colors, fabric, with sleeves (not puffy).

A: I love Julia Amory’s Betty dress, this Mirth (own and adore), this Borgo de Nor, this Wiggy Kit.

Q: Dinner attire/shoes for CO girls trip next month.

A: So fun! I shared some thoughts on what to wear in summer in CO here, but think something like, this, this, or this would be perfect.

Q: Fall jeans for petites.

A: Check out Nelle Atelier! I just discovered this brand and all denim is for women under 5’2! Gap also and Madewell also have great petite options.

By: Jen Shoop

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Before we get into it – a heads up that Shopbop is running a truly incredible sale right now and I just placed an exciting order for myself. I got this dress and this cashmere cardi. See below for my top picks, but my enthusiastic notes: 1) This cardigan is such a good investment while 50% off – this is where I’ve found investing really pays off, in a beautiful top layer like this that can be worn year-round. 2) You know how much I’ve loved my Altuzarra tote this summer — it’s always in my weekly outfit roundups. This is a smaller size but the white leather trim is so classic. 3) The Schutz flats I own in several colors. So comfortable right out of the box. And I am so crazy in love with these platform sandals — I call the my magic shoes (a petite girl’s best friend) and they completely change my personality in a good way.

L: SABLYN CARDIGAN // ALTUZARRA TOTE // BIRDS OF PARADIS SHORTS // SCHUTZ FLATS

R: LELET HAIR TIE // HUNZA G SUIT // FAVORITE DAUGHTER DRESS // ADINA EDEN EARRINGS // SEE BY CHLOE PLATFORMS // PARAVEL SUITCASE

Now, onto the basics —

SCOOP NECK TANK // SEZANNE SHIRT // LINEN SET // STRIPED SHIRT // CREW NECK T-SHIRT

A quick reference list for my absolute favorite tees, tanks, etc — the items that make my wardrobe work…

01. SoldOut.NYC scoop neck tank. (There is a lot of SoldOut on this list — this is not sponsored; I straight up love these products and think they are the best, highest quality wardrobe staples. They are pricey but they hold up so well in the wash and elevate every outfit IMO. You can really tell the difference in real life. They gave us 15% off sitewide with code JEN15 — and this is one of those moments where I turn into the Men’s Warehouse narrator: “trust me, you’re going to like the way you look.” I am passionate about this!) Anyhow, re: the tank — I love the lower neckline when pairing with a full skirt or trousers. This has a nice thick rib and a tight weave that holds you in. I take an XS (my true size) in this and it runs trim/snug but feels good that way. I’d take your true size unless you’re squarely between sizes, and would then size up. The only downside to this tank is that it requires a strapless bra. The Sezane Juan is similar and about half the price — I also own and love that one. A few of you DM’d me about the tank I’m wearing in this photo at the top of my most recent diary (eagle eyes!), and it’s the Juan. Sezane generally runs small but I sized down in this to an XXS (I’m typically an XS) and the fit is great.

02. Sezane tomboy shirt, specifically in the blue color (an oxford material). When I went to the Sezane store opening in D.C. earlier this summer, the staff generously invited me to pick one of their Tomboy shirts. I initially gravitated towards stripes (my go-to!) and am so glad I decided to go with basic blue. I’ve reached for this more often than any other button-down in my wardrobe this summer. Love the classic preppy look. A great value and fit. A little less oversized than a lot of the other button-downs in my wardrobe, so well-suited for tucking into skirts, shorts, etc. I took a 0 in this (true size) and fit is perfection.

03. SoldOut.NYC racerback tank (I took my true size) — when I’m after a higher neckline, which is usually when I wear shorts. Sort of a balancing act — a bare leg makes me want to cover up elsewhere. Again, that high-quality, thick cotton weave that fits snug! When I want something to layer or that will tuck more easily with no bunching, I love this inexpensive, thinner-weight Madewell tank (fit is a tad big, go down a size). I layered it underneath my Frank & Eileen travel set instead of the SoldOut because I wanted something that would tuck without bunching.

04. Frank & Eileen linen set ($50 off with ESCAPE). Another fantastic basic, whether worn together or separately. I’ve gotten so much mileage out of it already, whether pairing the pants with a striped tee or sweater, or pairing the linen top with the boxer short trend. I took my true size (XS) in this.

05. Uniqlo u-neck tees. Oldie but goodie and at $15, you cannot beat the price. These are thick and polished, but do note that they run a bit short. I like these when I am not wanting a full tuck. I strongly rec these over the COS tee, which runs almost comically short. (You cannot tuck that shirt into anything and it’s a very thick weight. However, it, too has its own place — I liked the way it looked paired with a pareo over my swimsuit last week, and it can work with certain high-waisted skirts and pants, like my JA Babe pants. You can see my wearing the COS tee with those pants here. Still, I’d recommend the Uniqlo over the COS — very similar in weight and exaggerated collar band, but Uniqlos are longer and are more importantly less than 1/3 of the price.). There are a lot of different perspectives on sizing in the Uniqlo tee. I take an XS in it (true size) and it runs a tad small, especially across the bust. I’d go up a size if in question, especially if concerned about the bust.

06. SoldOut.NYC iconically soft tees. My absolute favorite t-shirt I own. I think I have all the colors now, and also the sexy burnout linen one (same fit, just different material). The fit is divine and I like the thin but polished weight. These are great for tucking (slightly longer length than other tees mentioned, plus a decently thin material) and I just love the drape / hang.

07. Perfect White Tee Harley tee. This has a very different vibe than the SoldOut — much more casual, girl next door, boxy-cool. I like this with Agolde Parker shorts, a heavy layer of jewelry, and designer sandals (e.g. my Hermes Orans). It feels intentionally dressed-down on the top and balances well with the polish of the rest of the look.

08. Alex Mill Jo shirt. A beautiful, almost silky handfeel in the best colors / stripes. This is an iconic wardrobe piece, especially in this thin shirting stripe.

09. Citizens Charlotte Jeans and Agolde Riley jeans. My go-to everyday jeans in the best daytime washes — what I throw on when I need to grab and go. I went up a size in both and both are a tad big on me, but that makes them kind of perfect for the “grab and throw on a sweater” moment. These are jeans you can live in — not the kind you can’t wait to unbutton at the end of the day.

10. Gap Kick Fit jeans — I own in white and black and they’re just magical. Super stretchy and comfortable (run TTS) and you can’t beat that price! I can’t decide if kick fits are slowly starting to go out again (sorry, friends!) but I find myself increasingly reaching for my SLVRLAKE white wide leg jeans instead of these. However! Sometimes the wide legs just don’t work with certain silhouettes of top — you need a slightly leaner silhouette, in which case, you’re happy to have the Kick Fits. And for $34…!

11. My most worn summer sweater is this Goop, which I wish they’d bring back. I’ve never seen anything exactly like it and it really works so well over anything in the summer — white jeans, thin dress, slip skirt. So good. Sorry! This one is similar in weave and length but not sure if the color is as versatile.

12. For year-round wear, I absolutely love this belted Goop cardigan — their knitwear is truly next level. Basics with a twist that make you feel like a billion dollars. They are spendy but you will absolutely get your wear out of these year in and year out. La Ligne just sent me this lightweight silk-cashmere cardigan in black, and it’s for sure going to be another year-round workhorse. I like the way it looks paired with a silky slip skirt or tucked into white jeans for a classic moment.

13. A highly worthwhile investment: any cropped blazer / jacket from Veronica Beard. Trust me, these are 1000000% worth the investment. The details and tailoring are exceptional. I recently invested in their classic navy blazer but honestly get more wear out of the little cropped ladies than I do the classic? Maybe just a life phase. This girlie just joined my wardrobe and I plan to wear her all fall long (even the satin red lining is MAJOR). But take a quick look through their sale (at time of writing, they’re offering an extra 20% off!) — love this one with the denim piping and this contrast-trim jacquard.

14. My most-worn crewneck sweater is La Ligne’s Mini Marina. A great slouchy-but-slightly-shrunken fit and you can’t beat a classic navy stripe. (This Quince sweater is a really good look-for-less, FYI — quality is solid! My mom gave all of us daughters one for Christmas!) Two other sweaters that I wear a lot in transitional months / will reach for to throw on with shorts if chilly indoors / etc: Alice Walk’s cotton weekender (love the button front, and a nice thick weight) and Frank and Eileen’s Monterey (a thinner, more refined sweater than the La Ligne, which has a chunkier weave). I love the rollneck top! This J. Crew (under $50) has a similar vibe. I just ordered it in the green stripe.

15. Alice Walk striped tees. LOVE these tucked into my white Agolde Parker shorts, paired with a bold and punchy tote. Easy and fun. The tees run long in the best way and have a great stretchy / swingy material. Not boxy. For boxy striped tees, I wear Gap or Everlane!

*I have not yet received, but new-to-me brand Rowan just offered to send me a few of their items, and I selected this tee in the cool stone color and this white racerback tank (like the slightly more feminine / thinner silhouette — different!)

P.S. More field notes on my favorite white jeans.

P.P.S. Our favorite undergarments (influenced by Magpie reader votes!)

P.P.P.S. When was the last time you surprised yourself?

By: Jen Shoop

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In the obdurate month of February, I asked, in thinly-veiled exasperation: “What is your favorite part of winter?”

It turns out that there is a lot to love about it. The sparse, cleansing beauty. Soft cotton base layers against skin. The awareness that things must end to begin again.

And your contributions:

“The specific beauty of a low winter sun.” // “Every winter we cover out outdoor couch in faux fur blankets and set out a tray of candles, my husband calls it the “Nutcracker Lounge.” // “Citrus!” //  “I’ve been collecting fragrances since I was a teenager–my favorites are best in cooler weather.” // “Cold, winter walks. Fires and baking and sledding parties with friends. A sneaky flask of Jameson. All this and no weeding!” // “The reset that winter offers.” // “Flushed rosy cheeks and the rest of my face so, so cold and just feeling naturally lovely with very little effort.”

In addition, one common response I received: “Re-reading my favorite winter novels.”

Wow! I’d never have thought to do this, as I rarely re-read a book, but the concept has been on my mind since February.

Are you a book repeater? Which ones do you re-read, and how often? Is it seasonal? How does a book cross over into the “repeater” category for you? Is it nostalgia? A specific feeling — romance, homesickness, reassurance — you’re after? A character you straight up love?

Tell me everything.

Just this week, I made an off-handed comment on Instagram that this dress (see me moving in it here — ultra-flattering and romantic and also available in the white for family photos or this great fall print if you’re shopping ahead) felt like something Elizabeth Bennet would wear if she were real and around right now. I then added that I actually relate more to Anne Eliot from Persuasion than I do Elizabeth from P&P — I found the way Anne carried out her sisterhood and her role as a daughter resonated with me when I was a teen, and again when I re-read it in my late 20s. I’d be curious to know how I feel now, at just-40, and whether my connection to Anne was more a life-stage thing? I’m inclined to reread it to find out as a part of my inaugural voyage into book repeater-ship. Do you think this is a good first nominee?

Please share your thoughts, suggestions, perspectives —

Post-Scripts.

+I polled Magpies on Instagram to find out what books they’re reading and loving right now. Top, most-repeated recs: The God of the Woods (thriller); Covenant of Water and Demon Copperhead (literary — see my effusive review of Copperhead here); Swan Song (beach read).

+I shared a bunch of my top recs for summer beach reads here — I’ve read 2/3 of these, and my favorite was Carley Fortune’s This Summer Will Be Different. The plot is overwrought and drags on BUT the PEI setting and overall summer atmosphere are delicious — it’s like biting into a ripe, juicy peach. Also, and let me know if you disagree, the vignette of Felix shucking oysters was one of the spiciest “meet the love interest” scenes I’ve read in a long while.

+Currently reading Swan Song (delightful in its predictability) and Margaret Renkl’s The Comfort of Crows (profound, beautiful musings on the natural world — as Ann Patchett put it: “a howling love letter to the world”; and you know how I feel about Ann Patchett. If something earns her imprimatur, sign me up.). Next up: Percival Everett’s James, which I’ve been putting off in favor of lighter poolside reading this summer, and Elena Ferrante’s My Brilliant Friend, which the NYT ranked the top book of the 21st century. Major resume gap for me. So many of you love this book and nearly all of you quickly add: “It starts slow. Stick with it!”

+I am currently bowled over (!) by the response to this Instagram post I shared last week — an adaption of my “10 I Love Yous” musing. Almost 25,000 likes in a few days! It is deeply gratifying to feel my writing resonate with readers, even if, as a I writer, I don’t believe it’s any of my business (!). My only job is to put something shapely out into the world. Still, I stand here flattered and humbled.

+Image at the top is from one of the relaxation lounges at Keswick Spa in Charlottesville, VA! I share some other thoughts on Keswick, and Charlottesville in general, in this Magpie Diary. I’ve visited Keswick twice this year and have to say I think it’s the best getaway within two hours of D.C. Runner up: Inn at Perry Cabin at St. Michael’s.

Shopping Break.

+Another really good Old Navy dress, especially in that smart stripe. Wear now with sandals and later with loafers or ballet flats.

+Currently in peak mosquito season in humid DC. We swear by the Thermacell — you turn it on 10 minutes before you’re going to eat / hang outside and it really repels them within a radius of maybe 15 feet? We love this so much, we bought it for both of our sets of parents. But I’ve also been hunting for a less toxic (?) alternative to Cutter wipes when out and about. Just came across these (clean!) wipes from Kinfolk. Has anyone tried? I’m intrigued. As a related aside: we swear by this ice roller for toning down itchy mosquito bites. It sort of numbs the area briefly and then you forget about it. My kids use this all the time when they’re bitten!

+Alice Walk just released the dreamiest cashmere cardigan. I want it so badly in that ivory color! I’m also obsessed — I mean obsessed — with these gauze pants. Any time we come back from a day in the sun, pool, etc, I shower and put these on with a tank top, as seen here. It’s just perfect for that tired, slightly sun-dazed wedge of time when you feel like pouring a glass of rose and hanging on the couch.

+Another very chic denim dress to put on your radar. Great to wear now and transition to fall wardrobe later. I rounded up all my favorite denim dresses here, with this Tuckernuck leading the pack (I know many of you also own it).

+I’m still laughing about a rogue comment I made on Instagram — I said that I’d come across a post from a plastic surgeon who said: “the cheapest, fastest way to look younger is to throw away your no-show socks,” and that, as an elder millennial, it took me months to complete the acclimation process, but I’m finally wearing mid-calf / quarter-calf socks. The response was hilarious! So many of you wrote “HAHA — ugh – send me a link.” These socks are a great starter option; you can see me in them here. I’ve also heard good things about these Bombas.

+A very chic pair of under $50 sandals.

+I have gotten a lot of wear out of my Cesta Collective Lunchpail bag — an investment, but it always feels just right for dinners out. More interesting than a flat clutch, but a great petite size that doesn’t feel too “daytime.” I also found a great look-for-less option here.

+Another great look-for-less bag option: do you remember when I was drooling all over the Bottega sardine bags I saw in Aspen? This Elleme bag feels very similar.

+OK, after actual years of talking about wanting to try the Dyson AirWrap, then deciding against, I’m finally going for it. It’s going to be my August treat to myself. It is so expensive (!) but so many of you have raved about it, including several of my girlfriends who came to Tulum with me earlier this year, one of whom said she values her AirWrap so highly, she packs it in her carry-on bag vs checking it because she can’t bear to part ways with it. If you’ve never shopped at BlueMercury before, you can get 10% off by signing up for emails and then order it. Stay tuned for thoughts!

+A propos: my Everything Shower favorites.

+Drop waists are trending this summer — here’s a chic and versatile pick for under $200.

+All my Shopbop hearts (just updated!)

By: Jen Shoop

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I’ve seen so many chic Zara pieces for the end of summer — below, a few top picks:

01. Love the neckline and print on this midi dress. Feels very sophisticated.

02. A pop of red!

03. Coastal-looking statement pants. Chic chic. Love with the matching shirt or paired with a simple white tee.

04. The mesh trend for summer has been a Magpie favorite. I adore this bag — very Longchamp, but a little less “done.”

05. These embroidered pants are the perfect SEA look-for-less (compare with these, which I’m wearing here).

06. These sandals are right on-trend with the more expensive ones from Amanu I’ve seen cropping up all over the place. Love the dramatic gold hardware.

07. A beaded bag reminiscent of Staud at a much friendlier price.

10. I’ve been wearing a straw bucket hat from Janessa Leone all summer – this one is similar, but at a better price.

11. The leather and stitching on these sandals brought to mind Hermes or Tods.

12. The cutouts and paisley pattern on this linen dress are so good! She’s in my cart.

13. Love love love this black embroidered maxi!

14. Eyelet has also been big for me this summer. I love this under-$50 button down to tuck into jean shorts.

And a few for the kids:

+Did you see the Zara collab with SEA?! How sweet are this and this, at a fraction of SEA’s usual prices? Also love these sandals. And of course their infant offerings are precious — love a gingham bubble!

P.S. Who are you when no one’s looking?

P.P.S. My fave eyelet pieces.

P.P.P.S. The only Margarita recipe you need.

By: Jen Shoop

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What are you up to this week? Big plans? Travel? In your usual groove? Below, I assembled a few hyper-specific outfits I’d assemble right now, this week of late July, for different (possibly likely?) contexts you might be heading into…

Travel Day.

First, read this set of crowd-sourced tips on how to have a great travel day…! We Magpies are strategic and specific, and this post of reader-supplied travel day tips are brilliant. Re: dressing — layers are key. Having recently traveled in the exact linen set below ($50 off with ESCAPE or SUMMER50 — worn above with my fav Janessa Leone hat and Sezane bag — recently restocked!), I can attest that it is absolutely perfect for a long flight. I layered over a thin base layer tank for maximum flexibility.

FRANK AND EILEEN LINEN SET // DORSEY HEART PENDANT // LA LIGNE SWEATER (10% OFF WITH MAGPIE10; LOOK FOR LESS HERE AND HERE) // MARCH HARE WATCH (20% OFF WITH MAGPIE20) // RINSE-FREE HAND WASH // KHAITE DUFFEL // PARAVEL SUITCASE (ON SALE TIL TOMORROW ONLY!) // CELINE PHONE SLING // VIBI VENEZIA FLATS

About Town.

A day exploring your hometown, or a visit to a new one — this outfit is chic, comfortable, and classic. I own this dress (under $200 — 10% off with MAGPIE10) in black and am now eyeing in white, too. It’s a heavy-weight cotton that has just the right amount of structure and fluidity. I never go anywhere without a book, and the NYT’s recent “best books of the 21st century” (stirred up quite a controversy with my friends!) is full of recs. I read, and was mystified and impressed by, Cusk’s Outline a few years ago. I was surprised to see it on the list, but then again – I have thought about it now and then. It left a very strong impression of mood.

LA LIGNE DRESS // DORSEY LUCIEN EARRINGS // OUTLINE // GOYARD CARD CASE // CELINE SUNGLASSES // HEREU BAG (MORE HERE) // FREDA SALVADOR FLATS

Pool Day.

I can’t stop thinking about this Staud swimsuit I saw on a chic pea at the pool! We’re closing in on the end of summer so it’s difficult to justify but…oy! SO chic. I’ve also seen a few of these fun Lola Hats around this summer. The leather strap in the back is such a cool touch. And this Cesta pareo has been a workhorse this summer — goes with literally every suit I own.

LOLA HAT // JEFFREY CAMPBELL JELLZ // SWAN SONG // TEPACHE FERMENTED SODA // CESTA COLLECTIVE PAREO // AMAZON HAIR CLIP // STAUD SWIMSUIT

Mom Life.

Having personally worn variations of this outfit three times this past week…it just works. (See me in it here.) Easy to move in, comfortable, and somehow on-trend, too.

FRANK & EILEEN BUTTON DOWN // AMAZON BOXERS // STAUD FLATS // BOTTEGA KEY RING // ALTUZARRA TOTE // WELLY BANDAGES // SNACKS

In the Office.

You’ll be needing a desk sweater. There is no winter colder than a corporate office summer. I own and adore this belted G. Label style, which I think would be a perfect office top layer thanks to the elegant belt (but can also be worn without belt, open, as a regular cardigan). I also think this linen gilet and skirt set from hip label Posse would be a smart investment. Wear together, or pair the top with trim trousers or dark-wash denim on Fridays, or style the skirt with a polished crewneck sweater, striped button-down, etc. Worn as a set, it has a modern Hitchcock heroine vibe to it.

G. LABEL CARDIGAN // C.Z. STUDS // POSSE GILET // POSSE SKIRT // KHAITE LIA BAG // MARCH HARE WATCH // GRACE ST COFFEE (BEST COFFEE IN BETHESDA/CHEVY AREA) // MARGAUX FLATS

Cocktail Party.

I’ve written a lot about how excellent this dress is. It will work for so many occasions — dress up with heels and jewelry, dress down with flat sandals and a knit thrown around your shoulders. I’ll be wearing a riff on this exact outfit for an event in August, including these adorable Larroude heels (on super sale!), but minus that epic Loro Piana bag…

STRIPED DRESS // DORSEY RIVIERE // JENNIFER BEHR EARRINGS // LORO PIANA BAG (WHEWWW HUGE INVESTMENT; LOOKS FOR LESS HERE AND HERE) // LARROUDE HEELS

Date Night.

Dorsey just sent me these stunning drop earrings and they are just waiting for a date night. I have this Zara cutout dress in my cart…sexy and chic. Love the added polish of the Savette bag!

DORSEY EARRINGS // DORSEY PENDANT // ZARA DRESS // SAVETTE POCHETTE (ON TRR HERE) // HERMES LIPSTICK // MADEWELL SANDALS

Athletic / Athleisure.

This athletic dress is the GOAT. Perfect for mildly active weekend mornings, when we might go for a walk, run an errand, chase the kids in the yard, or undertake the constant Mom weekend activity: moving items from one end of your house to the other, up the stairs and down, etc. I wore this outfit last weekend (see here)! The sweatshirt is on sale and I like the Lady Di vibes — just throw on over bike shorts. It’s decently oversized on me, even in the XS. However, my favorite sweatshirt at the moment is this one from Left on Friday — more versatile than the YOO one thanks to no lettering. You could easily wear with jeans for a casual look!

I did want to mention, while in this category, that this very popular Varley dress was just restocked. I saw it on a chic pea in Aspen and it looked SO cute on her.

YEAR OF OURS SWEATSHIRT // LULULEMON ALIGN DRESS // OWALA WATER BOTTLE // PARAVEL TOTE (ON SALE THROUGH TOMORROW) // BOMBAS SOCKS // ON SNEAKERS (SELECT COLORS ON SALE HERE)

Outdoor Concert at Wolf Trap.

I saw Beck with the National Symphony Orchestra at Wolf Trap this past weekend, and I wore this exact dress. Mr. Magpie has always been interested in Beck’s music, and why not enjoy an evening of rose and live music en plein air?!

J. CREW DRESS // MIGNONNE GAVIGAN NECKLACE // MERIT BRONZER // MARNI BAG (SELECT COLORS ON SUPER SALE HERE) // WEEZIE PICNIC BLANKET // CAROLINE’S CAKES PIMENTO CHEESE DIP // MATCH SOUTH ROADIE CUPS // HELINOX CONCERT CHAIR // DOEN X K. JACQUES SANDALS

What other contexts / moments are you shopping for? As always, feel free to comment below or email me at jennifer@magpiebyjenshoop.com.

P.S. On seeing your children as whole.

P.P.S. On looking for patterns in life.

P.P.P.S. How to get started with writing.

By: Jen Shoop

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I saw this denim jacket from Loewe and stopped in my tracks — it’s the first item I’ve seen this summer that has made me feel even remotely interested in thinking beyond the present moment. It is such a splurge, but I feel like it would be the focal point of a cool weather wardrobe! Vibe for less with this, this, or this.

A few early predictions for the season ahead:

1) I think that the barrel/gaucho fit pants we all bought last year will remain on-trend. So pull out those Nili Lotan Shons (or, for those of us more petite, the Velvet x Graham and Spencer Brylies — TTS and ideal for petites), Citizens Gauchos, etc! I am drawn to these jeans from Nili Lotan, though I find this brand works better for taller Magpies, so will probably get the look for less with these Madewell darted barrel jeans (come in petite inseams). If those aren’t your speed, really love the wash and fit of these trouser-like SLVRLAKE crops.

2) I’m seeing a lot of polished gold hardware. This seems to be a continuation of the hardware-embellished sandals from Amanu, Loeffler Randall, etc that have been trending this summer. I especially like Savette’s treatment — the chic clasp on its drool-worthy pochettes — but you can also find in the form of buttons on blazers and jackets, chunky earrings, and more.

3) Lots of east-west bags, with the aforementioned Savette leading the pack with its it factor, and Longchamp’s $100 vanity-turned-crossbody pouches a solid buy for a look for less moment. This little bag from Bloomingdale’s house label, Aqua, is a solid way to nail the look at a great price, too.

4) Suede in general! Always big in fall, but I’m seeing lots of suede and corduroy trim and detail. Think these Freda Salvador loafers or this Bottega tote.

LOEWE DENIM JACKET // FREDA SALVADOR SUEDE LOAFERS (15% OFF WITH MAGPIE15) // MARCH HARE KIMSEY WATCH (20% OFF WITH MAGPIE20) // GALLEY EARRINGS // DORSEY NECKLACE // LONGCHAMP POCHETTE // VELVET BY GRAHAM AND SPENCER BRYLIE PANTS

AUREUM EARRINGS // VERONICA BEARD JACKET // J. CREW SWEATER // DOEN SKIRT // SAVETTE POCHETTE // SLVRLAKE GRACE CROP JEANS // TOTEME BOOTS

POSSE GILET // GAP STRIPED TEE // SLVRLAKE JEANS // EMME PARSONS SANDAL // TORTOISE HAIR CLAW // GOYARD BAG // G LABEL BELTED CARDIGAN

P.S. Narratives of friendship.

P.P.S. When was the last time you felt truly happy?

P.P.P.S. What was your intention for the summer? How’s it going?

By: Jen Shoop

A movement of leaves, a watercolor of wing, and then the branch left bouncing —

a testament to what was once there.

I was sitting on the top step of our patio, determinedly watching for birds, and still I missed it.

How often do I miss what is at eye level? I wondered. Then, more piercingly: How often am I one turn of the kaleidoscope away from insight, or joy?

But, no, I interrupted myself. I am allergic to this kind of thinking. I believe that what is meant for you will not miss you. True in love, true in business, true in the way you will see, one day, the sheer improbability that every little thing you’ve done in your life has prepared you for this exact moment. I am thinking of the time I split my head open in my Central Park West apartment, and my neighbor — by chance an ER doctor — stitched me up on my couch. I knocked on the door, and she answered with perfect readiness. I am thinking of the meandering, squiggly path that drew me from gawky poetry readings and short story competitions at the age of 10 to writing for a living at 40. I am thinking of the dozens of times I’ve called my sisters in hiccupy tears, and they’ve known just what to do, as if life pre-ordained them for that exact ministry. I am even thinking of losing my friend Elizabeth — how I did not feel prepared for it at the time, God no!, but how it has drawn me to a place of understanding and even communion with life’s inevitable losses. How her passing has helped me value what I have, and stand shoulder to shoulder with others in grief, and hold a tender, informed perspective on how to support my own children as they navigate their first encounters with death (losing Tilly). I am thinking of standing in my best friend’s home on the eve of leaving for the University of Virginia, 18 and all awkward angles and nervous laughter, and being introduced to a sandy-haired boy who was already a third-year there. Of running into him at a football game weeks later and feeling as though I was standing on Mars, a heart on stilts, while my girlfriends were obliviously atwitter about mud on their shoes and bows in their hair. Of inveigling my sorority big sister to “casually” invite him to a date function on my behalf, of writing “I’m going to marry this third-year e-schooler” — and then promptly bungling my way through other relationships for a year and a half — poorly-crafted, indolent feints. Of standing on the top brick step of the ramshackle Gordon Street house I lived in with nine other girls that year, and looking straight into his hazel eyes, and thinking this is the moment, the twilight in which he would lean in and we would pair off forever. And of the abrupt turn of his cheek, the five o’clock shadow on his chin, the curl of hair at the nape of his neck, beneath his Virginia hat, and the way he looked down at his feet, and moved the dirt, and I knew it was because I was dating someone else and he was too honorable for such indiscretions. Of the way this, too, endeared him to me even as I stormed into my room, a riot of heartbreak and wanting. Oh and now I stand starry-eyed in our story — I hope you’ll forgive me — and in the way it followed its own slow but inexorable path deep into the heart of my life. How could it be that life gave me him when I was 18? Too young to know anything about the widths of love, and its profligate bestowals. I was just bare feet on his dashboard, an outstretched palm into which he traced “ILY,” blue eyes memorizing his chiseled silhouette against the Appalachian stars, a tiny form disappearing into his tattered VIRGINIA hoodie, and reclaimed by his hands. How absurd that life gave him to me at 18 — this person who would stand at my life’s very center? And yet it did, and early, because I would need to lean on him at 22, adrift in my own career ambitions, and 25, when Elizabeth died, and 31, mourning a lost pregnancy, and 32, when our daughter was born, and 33, shuttering our business, and oh all the years and happinesses and sadnesses in between, for which he was forged as my partner and I his.

There is no call to hurry. There is no need to stamp our feet in indignation, or impatience. There are no missed crossings.

What is meant for us will not miss us.

Even the bare branch, this morning: its own cipher. I’d wanted the bird, and what I got was this:

Everything happens in its own perfect time.

Post-Scripts.

+More on my love story with Mr. Magpie. (Also here.) I have a whole series of musings called “The M Series” that capture the magic of falling in love with him in more detail, too.

+My attempts at fiction are deeply inspired by our love story.

+A related theme: things take how long they take.

Shopping Break.

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+I took my mom to the pop-up shop in Georgetown last Friday and she picked out this and this for herself! I am OBSESSED with the skirt and would have bought it for myself, too, but they were sold out in my size.

+Speaking of Sezane, I’ve had good luck finding summer clothes for Mr. Magpie there the past few months. You can see him in one outfit here; I also just ordered him these seersucker pants to wear with this navy button down. I feel like it’s hard to find interesting clothes for men! Sezane colors outside the lines just enough.

+Did you get anything from the Maryam Nassir Zadeh x J. Crew collection that launched last week? The Internet (and especially Substack fashion world) was atwitter about it. I loved the styling from afar (and generally LOVE when brands collab like this) but nothing really fit my personal style profile. Please share if you did! Meanwhile, I did notice this raffia hobo bag. So cute. Simon Miller vibes — and love that leather strap detail at the top!

+I have heard from several trustworthy sources that these cz studs pass as real.

+Been picking up where I left off with working on my hair health — I like to layer this Anablue (15% off with JEN15) with this inexpensive rosemary-mint oil. I think the combo of these two products yields instant shiny, healthy results, but especially if you use consistently over the course of a few weeks (which I was doing in the winter and then sort of fell out the habit!). I learned these from Julia Amory, queen of great hair. It is rare I let my hair air-dry, so trying to nourish it when I can. Vegamour also has a hair repair oil that I’d contemplate testing in this travel size — as you know, I love their dry shampoo, so I’d consider using other products in their line!

+This travel makeup kit looks more expensive than it is, and I LOVE the lay-flat-when-open design!

+I mentioned last week that La Ligne restocked its wildly popular Colby pant last week — colors/sizes selling fast. I am currently sitting with them in my cart. I love the idea of pairing these with a chunky knit for fall. J. Crew has a look for less option here.

+A great wardrobe basic in either black or white. Pair with a simple tank and some gold-embellished sandals (look for less here). (Chef’s kiss.)

+Another great wardrobe basic: Rag & Bone’s Maxine shirt. I have in blue and she is perfection; on sale (as of time of writing this) in a few colors here. A really thin, almost silky material that is easy to tuck.

+The Internet is freaking out of these mini miracle balms from Jones Road Beauty. I’ve heard mixed reviews about them from some Magpies — people seem to love them or hate them — but if you’re in the pro camp, die hards are obsessed with these minis for travel, and as a way to try multiple colors without having to buy each individually.

+As you may have noticed, I’ve “freed the knee” this summer and have been wearing a lot of shorts after probably a decade of avoiding them. I currently have my sights set on this pair, which feels very Cara Cara and could even be carried into early fall paired with a chic knit. (PS – No one does a fall print like Cara Cara, and this dress is at the pinnacle. Also love it in skirt form – so chic with a brown suede boot.)

+Have heard this thriller is super fun! Adding to my TBR. I was disappointed in Ruth Ware’s latest — otherwise, I think she’s the best of the genre’s authors.

By: Jen Shoop

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I’ve been reading Margaret Renkl’s book of nature-observant musings, The Comfort of Crows, in little sips this week. If you are a fellow disciple of Mary Oliver, you’ll love it. One line leapt out at me:

“Everything that waits is also preparing itself to move.”

She’s writing about how, even in the dead of winter, when the world lays morose and still, the trees are taking water in preparation for spring. Wow – what a reframe. There have been so many periods of my life where I’ve crouched in frustrated anticipation. I’ve been waiting, feeling like “a before,” unable to see a “right now.” But life was happening even as I eyed the next lily pad. I was preparing to leap, for one thing: watching, taking careful measurements, setting my target, making minuscule maneuvers and adjustments to be prepared for the plunge. These, too, are part of the ship’s manifest.

And I was also — importantly — sitting in the middle of my undulating life.

The befores — the winters — are seasons, full stop. As substantive and round as summer. Not something to get through; not a passage. Not a modifier jutting off from the diagrammed sentence: something meaty sitting on the base line.

I wish I’d found, or internalized, Oliver, and Renkl, sooner. They knew how to properly praise a normal day.

I also read a beautiful post by the writer Erin Rose this week (trigger warning: pregnancy loss) where she writes into the heart of her grief, and concludes: “One thing I know for certain, I cannot wait for life to look the way I wish to enjoy it. The things I want will not give me more than I already have. Cards in my life may be up in the air but this will not keep me. It will not keep me from enjoying the afternoon down by the lake with my son, while we sit on the dock and the sun goes down and he tries his hardest to pet the dragonflies. This is all there is.”

Maybe you have been looking for these words, too. Life is happening right now! Not tomorrow, not in some imagined future place or state, not when certain conditions are met. Onward!

Also this week…

{Took some photos for a project with Frank and Eileen. I absolutely love their Rory dress and now own in two colors — the washed linen navy and the stonewashed indigo (denim). Loose, easy, chic. They are offering $50 off with code ESCAPE or SUMMER50. But if I’m honest, the #1 thing I’d tell you to buy with the promo is this linen set. I love the fit and find the separates easy to style a zillion ways independently as well as together. They recently released in olive – so good as we head towards fall – and have nearly sold out .}

{An auspicious first stop of the day: cut flowers // lazy girl moisturizer (a stick lotion!)}

{Living room coming together — the ceiling is a pale blue and I’m in love with the window treatments}

{Hosted a girls’ night and used all my cheerful In The Roundhouse platters, cutlery, glasses, pinch bowls! Shopbop also carries some of their pieces, which appeals, as the shipping from AUS is expensive! Napkins are Dear Anabelle.}

{My new Bogg bag — will be using this for pool from now on! // Adidas Sambas for my kids!}

{A truly perfect BLT — Duke’s mayo, brandywine tomatoes from Landon’s garden, bacon from Organic Butcher; you can spot my new scalloped acrylic placemats from Proper Table Co beneath}

{A great mascara if yours are thinning / sparse — clean and includes plant-based growth serum. I’ve turned several girlfriends onto this.}

{Caroline Chambers’ Greek Tortellini Pasta Salad // I now wear exclusively red-orange nail polish}

{Sponsored mention: RMS Beauty is running an anniversary sale that ends today — 15% off $50; 20% off $75; 25% off $100. I own and love many of their products (they were “clean” before clean was a thing in beauty — and because the founder is a longtime makeup artist, she really designs products that work), but my two favorites are their SuperSerum, which I’ve mentioned at least fifty times on this blog — a category-bending primer / SPF / serum / blurring product that can be worn on its own or as the base for a full face of makeup) and their Living Luminizer, which I’ve re-purchased many times and have kept in my makeup bag for at least seven years now. I can still remember buying it for the first time from the Sephora at Columbus Circle. It adds no color — just a luminous glow. I apply to brow bone, cheeks, Clara’s bow, and a tad on the clavicle!}

A little poetry-like list of a few other shopping finds to consider today:

Dorsey’s elegant leverback “Lucien” earrings are nearly out of stock — a great everyday earring that elevates everything. // A very polished pair of shorts. I’m obsessing over these. More sizes here – use code SHOOPXSPANX for 10% off and free ship. // A great under-$100 maxi. // I can’t be the only one who gets very excited about new pens? These are good ones. // Still into the boxer short trend. Wore these $15 ginghams this week, and Recreational Habits just sent me these. Cassandra Lanrick set the tone for how I wanted to dress for about half of this past week! Great styling inspo! // My Sezane raffia bucket bag was restocked in my size! This has been a staple this summer. //

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