My Latest Snag: New Nikes.

I have been loving this specific pair of Nike running shoes (on sale; also on sale in different sizes/colors here and here). They are lightweight but well-cushioned, and I like the Flyknit material — it is breathable and contours to your foot like a sock. I recently snapped up a pair of these because they were on sale for $66 (!) and I liked the strawberry pink color. I still prefer the React Infinities because I find them lighter-weight and springier, but I can’t believe my new Nikes were $66 and have been a solid running mate this past week. My Dad (a lifelong runner/marathoner) is emphatic about replacing running shoes fairly frequently, as you wear down the treads and can injure yourself by messing with your gait — which has proven true for me. I thought I had plantar fasciitis earlier this year, and though I’m now not sure what it was because it healed within a few weeks, I am fairly confident it had to do with old running shoes. Anyway, I’ll take this $66 pair for the next stretch of running!

You’re Sooooo Popular: Bobbi Brown Lip Tint Trio.

The most popular items on le blog this week:

+My beloved Bobbi Brown lip tints.

+Sweet little lounge set for a little one.

+My secret tool for keeping a tidy nursery.

+Winter Birks!

+A must-have for your little one’s stocking.

+Sweet dollhouse for a little one (under $100).

+Reversible Patagonia for a little love.

+A red Christmas dress that wears like a nightgown. *Chef’s kiss.*

+Chic Target accent chair.

+New Balance sneaks — love them in the navy.

+This velvet trim lady jacket!! J’adore.

+Mr. Magpie’s favorite joggers. (Your man will thank you.)

+Sweet wooden nativity set.

+Bunny slippers for tiny toes.

Weekend Musings: On Remembering the Deceased.

I was startled by my family’s reaction to this somewhat out-of-the-blue remembrance of my grandfather a few weeks back. He passed away twenty years ago, and yet I received at least a dozen notes from aunts, uncles, and cousins thanking me for honoring his memory. One of my uncles wrote: “Thank you for so vividly giving me a chance to be almost physically with my dad again. While it’s never hard for me to picture him, your portrait really put everything into vivid technicolor and Dolby sound.”

I have danced with this theme in posts past, but it bears re-statement that I find writing rather specifically about loved ones who have passed away — especially my high school girlfriend E. — heart-rending but helpful. I have lost her, but I have not yet lost all of her details, and putting them down on paper, sharing them with you, shores up against that erosion. And to think that my remembering might help another in grief — even twenty years after the passing — is a lovely return as well.

Today, I want to invite you to remember in words — the more specific and narrow the better — someone who has passed away, whether by sharing a comment here or in a private text or email to a loved one. It feels good to remind myself of the toasted provolone-and-tomato sandwiches my Italian grandmother used to have waiting for me in the kitchen when we arrived in their Painesville, Ohio home, or the way my friend E. would flick her keys around her Visitation lanyard, or the weight of my sweet baby niece curled up against me in her carrier. It is good to remember.

Post-Scripts: Pencil Skirts + Crib Skirts, Too.

+OK, this tailored pencil skirt is giving me major Kate Middleton vibes and I LOVE IT.

+A traditional-style crib skirt for $20!!! You can’t beat that price. I find crib skirts are usually super expensive.

+PSA: Slip eye masks are on sale for 50% off at Nordstrom Rack. I know people love these! Also intrigued by this hair tie by the same brand, also on sale!

+Another suggestion for a gourmet gift — I am thinking of sending these fancy flavored cheese crackers to some friends! More ideas along these lines here.

+WOW – so much good information on retinol/retinoids in the comments section of this post.

+On trend dramatic collar sweatshirt for a little one.

+Can’t get enough tartan this season. Love this cardigan!

+More tartan here.

+Perfect plates for your holiday tablescape.

+This gorgeous gleaming-buttoned camel blazer (on sale!) belongs in this roundup of timeless classics.

+Oo la la, love the pattern on these towels.

+This tablecloth — swoon! Love everything. Is it wrong that I put this in my basket with Easter in mind?

+This statement coat — wowwww!

+Love these metallic-thread ribbed tights for little girls. Such a good price, too!

+$20 traditional pajamas for little ones. Petite Plume vibes for less!

+Wow — this dresser is so unusual and chic!

The other day, I was walking back from school drop-off and saw hearts drawn in chalk onto the doors of a building downtown. Unexpected auspiciousness for a Tuesday morning! It reminded me to pull out my favorite heart-print jammies (little ones can twin in these or these), and I couldn’t help but poke around for a few other pieces emblazoned with the symbol of love…all of items in collage (and THEN some) linked below:

EPIC GUCCI JACKET

STRIPED TEES FOR LITTLE ONES

HEART UNDIES

EMBROIDERED HEART FACE MASK

J’ADORE THIS HEART LARIAT NECKLACE (ALSO AVAIL IN A CHIC BRACELET)

GIFT WRAP

COSMETICS CASES

LE LION HEART CREST CARDIGAN

ANYTHING FROM D. PORTHAULT’S COEURS COLLECTION (LOOK FOR LESS AT SCHWEITZER LINEN) — I FIND THIS VINTAGE (BUT NEVER USED) D PORTHAULT COEURS SUGAR AND CREAM SET THAT I AM DYING OVER…

SCALLOPED HEART PRINT PICTURE FRAME

HEART DOG BOWL + BISCUIT CANISTER

KNIT SWEATER WITH HEART MOTIF

S&W HEART-EMBROIDERED SMOKING LOAFERS

LEATHER KEY FOB (SIMILAR, PERSONALIZABLE STYLE HERE)

STRIPED + HEARTED PHONE CASE

LETTERPRESS HEART CARDS

KNIT HEART HAT FOR LITTLE HEADS ($28) — ALSO LOVE THIS PERSONALIZABLE HEART MOTIF ONE

CASHMERE HEART SWEATER FOR A LITTLE ONE

SWEET HEREND-INSPIRED TEA TOWEL

HEART BIB (THIS IS MY FAVORITE BRAND FOR MY CHILDREN)

STACKABLE HEART CRAYONS — THESE ARE GOING IN MINI’S STOCKING!

HEART KNEE SOCKS

KNIT HEART DRESS

P.S. In a similar vein to today’s post, a roundup of chic Liberty of London floral print finds (and items inspired by Liberty florals!)

P.P.S. What are you shopping for? It might be here.

P.P.P.S. When you can’t sleep.

I noticed the other day that I genuinely get excited when my Lululemon Align leggings are clean for my every-other-day running habit through Central Park — almost always a portion of which finds me traipsing along Jackie O. Reservoir, seen above on a recent circuit. They are simply the most comfortable and flattering exercise leggings I have found to date — they boast the ideal level of compression and hold up exceptionally well to heavy use. (They also, conveniently, come in multiple lengths to fit nearly any height.) I am deeply impressed with almost everything Lululemon makes. I have a pair of (non-Align) black leggings I bought from them perhaps six or seven years ago that I still wear frequently and that I have laundered regularly against their explicit instructions and they still look and feel good as new. And all of the details in their designs are appreciated — pockets for keys and cell-phones, thumb holes in shirts to keep hands warm, vents where you need them, etc. All of this to say: I love a good deal and continue to test various less-expensive athletic finds to varying degrees of success and enthusiasm (two affordable athletic wear products I fully stand behind are these $22 leggings, which are not as amazing as Aligns but pretty darn good for the price, and these $8 running tanks, which have a fantastic, soft feel and the loose fit I prefer in running tanks) but Lululemon is one brand worth the investment, especially given longevity of life. So much so that when my mom asked what I wanted for Christmas, I asked for either a gift card to Lululemon or a nap dress from HHH. Right now, the items in my Lululemon cart:

+Though I generally prefer loose-fit tops for running (j’adore this specific style — the scooped back hem offers flattering rear end coverage), now that I’m layering under my running jacket* most days, I reach for form-fitting styles for a more streamlined look. I am eyeing their Swiftly Tech long-sleeved tops for this purpose.

+I have been eyeing this vest for a long time for those in-between days when a coat seems like overkill but there’s a chill in the air. I love the fact that it was specifically designed for running and that there’s a hidden phone sleeve.

+Of course, more aligns.

*I have written a lot about this coat, but there are still a few left at the closeout price of $35 and you must buy one if you run outdoors! It has magical properties — it keeps you warm while never making you too hot, it is lightweight, and it is just the right amount of form-fitting (i.e., you can still layer items beneath it without feeling “bunched up”). I also love the quilting detail and it comes in great colors — oh, and the pockets are generously sized to fit phone/gloves/sanitizer/etc. I love it so much, I just ordered it in a pullover style (also on sale for $35) in a great spruce color.

P.S. What do you listen to while running? Some of my current playlist here.

P.P.S. Do you carry a phone sling?

P.P.P.S. On dealing with interruptions.

“The Finnish have a concept called sisu,” explained my Dad. “It means courage, and the strength to make it through tough times. My grandparents had it, my dad had it, all of you have it — and I like to think I do, too.”

My three-year-old daughter was peering through the computer screen at the small digital tiles representing my parents, my siblings, my nephews and nieces, and the photograph above featuring my grandfather, Aser Nurmi, and my great-grandmother, Susana Nurmi, arranged in the standard mirthless portraiture of nearly a century ago. My father was in the midst of delivering a fifteen minute Zoom presentation on Finland, home to his father’s family, that he had tailored to the high distractibility of his six grandchildren. As such, there were references to reindeer and Santa Claus (Finland’s Lapland region is his fabled home), a song about the continents led by my mother (a former Montessori schoolteacher), and occasional bursts of side commentary by little voices. It was the inaugural installment of a four-part series he and my mother have developed to celebrate the different cultures and geographies of our ancestors.

There was something profound about my three year old daughter staring into the eyes of her great-grandfather — probably around her age at the time the photo was taken — through the window of my Macbook. Something dizzying about the fact that there were faces from five generations of Nurmi family members represented on that call. Something moving about my father’s invocation of sisu, a familial and cultural inheritance multiple generations down the line — this year of all years, when so many of us are finding ourselves the branches that snap rather than bend in the buffeting winds. Altogether, it was fifteen minutes of discovery and reunion that were welcome in this period of isolation. It was, frankly, just the perspective I needed on that cold Monday morning just after a holiday that felt quiet in equal measures sweet and grim.

There is an old proverb: “A tree with strong roots laughs at storms.” I don’t think anyone is laughing at the 2020 tempest, but I couldn’t help but think, as I looked at the stern set of my great-grandmother Susana’s countenance, that her sisu might be part of the reason we are still afloat in these parts.

Hoping you find a moment to gather your family to you, to press your heart to theirs, even if only through a 15″ screen, today or some time soon. And wishing you a hearty portion of sisu to make it through the year.

Post-Scripts.

+One of the strongest memories I have of my grandmother (Italian! married to Aser, above) was actually something my father discovered after she had passed away. (You might need tissues…)

+More musings on good roots and on being a good ancestor.

+Another recent invocation of my Finnish heritage.

+Unrelated to anything above, I can’t stop staring at these pillows. They remind me of a dress from Agua Bendita.

+Speaking of botanicals, this top (or the dress variation) are so chic. They are like Brock Collection meets grandmillennial chintz. J’adore.

+How are you doing on holiday shopping? I’ve updated my gift guide for small children a couple of times over the past few weeks, and this stocking stuffer guide is full of smaller items that could be bundled together! Email me if you’re looking for something specific — I love shopping for you.

+Chic fall/winter clothing finds for children.

+Meeeeep! I did not realize my Thanksgiving dress also came in a child’s size. Might buy to twin with mini…

+Dramatic collar, jewel buttons, cropped cardigan — AHHH. All my favorite microtrends in one place. Difficult to resist. Would look tres chic and on-trend with a silk slip skirt and some jeweled mules.

+I can’t stop buying holiday decor…do I need these?

+Such a fun holiday dress — perfect for NYE.

+Velvet dress with embroidered bunnies for a little one.

+We gave mini this tent for Christmas last year — we often keep it collapsed in her closet but it’s fun to pull out, especially for indoor picnics.

+Cute little puffer for little ones in great colors for under $25.

+Another good stocking stuffer option. Mini is VERY into dress up these days.

+Love the statement pockets on this pullover.

+Have you done any holiday baking yet?

This is urgent: I have finally found Mason Pearson brushes on sale. So many of you have asked me to keep my eyes out for a deal on these! I found a junior mixed bristle brush (exact kind I have) on sale for $129! More options here, including one for sensitive scalp and a pocket sized mixed bristle one for $108.

P.S. More of my favorite hair care products.

P.P.S. Most of the Hanna Andersson holiday jammies have dropped to $29 (and free ship!) for children.

P.P.P.S. If you are planning to bundle some of these great drawing pads for children with Ooly products as a holiday gift for children, note that they are currently expected to ship 12/7. Just mention this because they were in my cart as a part of my children’s gifts for the holidays and I just ordered now to ensure I get them when they come back in stock.

Yesterday, I featured the artwork of Guady Ramon, a graphic designer, illustrator, and mother of two based in Southern California. Today, I want to profile this talented artist, who shared with me that her work is “inspired by motherhood and the universal experiences we share as mothers.” Can you imagine any better fit for my Women of Substance series? I have routinely and often tearfully been overwhelmed and spirited on by the encouragement and camaraderie of the mothers who read and comment on this blog, many of whom have come to my rescue over matters as disparate as how to muddle through the weaning phase and how to model reading in the era of screen dominance (see comments!), and so I know that many of you will respond enthusiastically to this creative and her work.

Guady explained that her aesthetic approach is “to capture a moment in time and tell a story in its most simplistic form using minimal shapes and color.” That simplicity of composition underscores the shared experience of motherhood — the silhouette of a mother and child in embrace that so many of us have shared — in a profound, stirring way that has left me digging through her archives on several afternoons over the past few months.

Guady also told me that “becoming a mother has been one of the toughest, most rewarding things I’ve ever done. My children are the reason I get to do what I love.” I love the way she framed her children in that expression, as both reason and reward.

Below, get to know Guady a bit better through her answers to my questionnaire, or follow her on Instagram.

Your favorite qualities in a woman. I admire a woman that speaks her truth.

Your favorite heroine. Andie Walsh in “Pretty in Pink.”

Your main fault. I’ve been called a dreamer a few times. I always have big dreams and romanticize most things. 


Your greatest strength. I’m adaptable. And I think I’m pretty easy to be around.


Your idea of happiness. Slowing down and spending more time with my kids. It’s all going by way too fast.

Your idea of misery. Never finding the joy in the little things.


Currently at the top of your shopping lust list. An organic pillow, because mom needs more sleep.

Desert island beauty product. True Botanicals pure radiance oil.

Last thing you bought. Stasher bags! 

I feel most empowered wearing… Levis jeans, boots, and a white tee. 


Favorite Magpie post. To the new mom feeding her baby at 3:11 A.M.

P.S. Recent autumn/winter clothing finds for children.

P.P.S. Holiday gifts and stocking stuffers for children.

P.P.S. The elegant, lopsided dance of motherhood.

Today, I am inspired by the classic elegance of Lady Di in her blue blazer above. I love that she took fashion risks, but I am today celebrating the classics she wore with aplomb — a reminder that basics are not boring. A few essential-type pieces that will withstand the test of time and trends:

VERONICA BEARD BLUE BLAZER (LOOK FOR LESS WITH THIS)

PIMA TURTLENECK

TOD’S LOAFERS

CLASSIC STRUCTURED LEATHER TOTE

LONGLINE CAMEL COAT

CHUNKY GOLD EVERYDAY EARRINGS LIKE THESE OR THESE

WHITE BUTTON-DOWN

TIFFANY KEY RING

CLASSIC TRENCH ($148!)

OXFORDS

TIMELESS GOLD BANGLE

LEATHER STRAP WATCH

TORTOISE HEADBAND

DARK WASH SKINNY JEANS

PERFECT BLACK SUEDE KITTEN HEEL PUMP

TWEED SHIFT

CASHMERE CREWNECKS OR CARDIGANS (<<ON SUPER SALE)

TORTOISE OR BLACK SHADES (LOOK FOR LESS WITH THESE)

LACOSTE BALLCAP FOR DODGING THE PAPARAZZI, ALONG WITH CLASSIC HEATHER GRAY SWEAT PANTS AND CREWNECK SWEATSHIRT

And if you are on the opposite end of the fashion spectrum (i.e., give me all the ornamentation and embellishment), this post is for you. And also this one, featuring a can’t-miss $60 sparkle dress to see you through NYE at home.

P.S. Easily one of the best books I’ve read this year.

P.P.S. Lilacs and poetics.

P.P.P.S. When Mr. Magpie came to visit me in France…

*Image above features mini’s nursery rug, Dash & Albert’s Paris Stripe, which has since been discontinued. Their Island Stripe is similar, but in a more pastel/muted color palette. Image above also showcases this darling story-telling game, which mini actually loves to use just to create little vignettes and stories with the figurines included herself. She received this as a sweet gift from our neighbors along with this book for her third birthday and both have been a huge hit! Easy gift idea for a little girl, possibly bundled with this fairy set — mini loves these little figurine kits!

With Christmas and the attending prospect of new toys and gear on the horizon, I spent time over the Thanksgiving holiday organizing my children’s rooms. The most time-consuming part** was filtering through the bins and baskets to re-group tiny parts that belonged to one another but had somehow found themselves diaspora — puzzle pieces, cards from Candy Land, stray Duplos, etc. A reader had pointed me in the direction of these waterproof zippered pouches awhile ago and — wow. The perfect solution. I have been slowly “decanting” games, puzzles, and toy sets into these over the past few months, but this past weekend represented a complete migration to pouch life. These are particularly wonderful because they are inexpensive, come in a range of sizes (the smaller ones ideal for organizing things like game parts and beads), are semi-transparent (meaning my children can see what’s inside), have different colored zippers (making it even easier to remember which bag you’re grabbing), and difficult for my 18-month-old to open without assistance, meaning that all of the small parts and puzzle pieces he should not be tampering with anyway remain isolated. I also like that they look a lot tidier than the smashed cardboard boxes these games came in, and you can fit more of the bags in bins/drawers anyway given that the shape makes them more malleable.

A couple of other nursery organization finds and must-haves:

+This inexpensive IKEA shelving system is the piece de resistance in mini’s nursery. I love it. It keeps all of mini’s books, toys, and activities very easy to access. We lined the bottom shelf with these straw bins and have each one dedicated to a slightly different category: one for dress-up, one for doll clothes/components/accessories, one for musical instruments, and one for “miscellaneous.” We use the upper two levels mainly for books, with two cubbies reserved for “activities” like wooden puzzles, magnatabs, magnetic sets, stacking toys (for Hill), etc. Basically — all of the pretty items that remind me of Montessori and that invite play by virtue of being artfully and accessibly presented. With this most recent bout of organization, I ended up removing about half of the items in that “activity” category and stowing them in the closet with the intention of rotating them into play every few weeks. I was, frankly, astounded by how excited mini was to play with some of her sets/toys just by virtue of them being moved around in her room and made more visible to her!

+Note: the Kallax comes in multiple different cubby dimensions (you can do, for example, just a 2×2), but if none of those options work in your child’s room, I also love the look of this little shelf system for a smaller nook, or this acrylic rolling cart.

+We also have a couple of woven bins similar to these to house bulkier items and overflow toy/puzzle/game sets stowed in the aforementioned pouches.

+We use these plastic woven bins in pink to stow “building” type toys underneath mini’s bed. They have a low clearance and will work under many cribs/beds. We have a separate one for magnatiles, building blocks, Duplos, and play food. I like them because they are lightweight and easy for the children to drag out on their own, but they are also inexpensive and will not fray or scratch like some of their woven counterparts — important given how often they are dragged out! (These inexpensive white handled bins, which I use elsewhere in the house for storage, would also be a good solution.)

+Over the weekend, I deployed this white rope bin to house all of mini’s Maileg mice, accessories, furniture, and the darling decorative matchboxes/bins the mice come in. Prior to this weekend, we had been keeping the mice and some of their clothes in a small Pehr bin, with the other boxes and furniture stowed elsewhere, somewhat haphazardly. We will be giving her the Maileg mouse house for Christmas so I really wanted to corral everything together for her, especially because she has been playing with them so much recently.

+We repurposed mini’s doll cradle (which she never uses anymore) to stow all of her stuffed animals at the foot of her bed. I love this reuse of space because it keeps them all in one place, a bit out of the way of the rest of her room.

+Both of my children love to draw, paint, etc — we spend a good chunk of every day doing this — and I have been keeping most of the supplies organized in these bins in the closet, drawing out the materials whenever the mood strikes. With this most recent organization effort, I decided to keep crayons and paint sticks permanently accessible on mini’s play table in this divided organizer, with coloring books and drawing pads in a bin beneath. I had really wanted to buy this divided lazy susan for the purpose, but it would have taken up too much space given the dimensions of the table. This slim lightweight organizer is the perfect solution given our space constraints. (And, come to think of it, I’m not sure I want to have more markers/materials available to Hill at 18 months…) This caddy style might also work if you want something that’s a bit more mobile than a lazy susan (i.e., if you want to be able to quickly clear the space for some reason — I feel like the lazy susan is sort of meant to stay put permanently).

+Not truly organization, but we do a lot of painting and crafting in mini’s room. I put down this midi-sized Gathre mat whenever we’re getting messy. It’s an ideal size for beneath a high chair or underneath a craft table. It’s easy to roll up and wipe down and it folds into a small square when not in use. Love. And we use these long-sleeved smocks for those occasions, too. Mini has a tendency to really get into the medium at hand, so these have saved many articles of clothing. A few other must-haves for the painting-obsessed: these palettes, these jumbo paint brushes, watercolor paper, and Crayola washable paint (God bless it)!

+For the closet, I use acrylic shelf dividers and fabric cubes to keep things tidy, and these appropriately-dimensioned children’s hangers for hanging clothes.

+I have been looking for a better solution for shoe storage, and I think I might buy these stacking wire bins for the purpose.

**Correction: the most time-consuming part was attempting to do this while two pairs of tiny hands were interrupting my progress at every turn. Every time I’d manage to form a little mound of carefully organized Calico Critters, little fingers absconded with select pieces.

P.S. More organization gear I love and storage/org solutions for small spaces.

P.P.S. My favorite home gear of all time.

P.P.P.S. Still a few great deals happening at Nordstrom as a part of the Cyber Week promotions — namely dialed in on these classic Sperry boat shoes for boys for only $26!

*Illustration above by and used with permission from Guady Ramon. I love her portraits of motherhood.

Over the past few years, I have donated gently-used baby gear and clothing to the Good+ Foundation, an incredible non-profit I have mentioned many times in the past that provides basic essentials, critical gear, and programmatic resources to new parents who are caring for their babies during times of great uncertainty. Owing to COVID precautions, the Foundation has not been accepting pre-used items, so I increased my financial donations to the organization, joined their Friends of Good+ group, and also started to give away my children’s outgrown items myself on Craigslist. I was, frankly, humbled by the flood of emails I received every time I posted a new bag of children’s clothing and gear — proof that there are many parents in desperate need of essentials for their children, especially while confronting this pandemic.

My heart absolutely breaks at the thought of Juana, the young mother who came by my building in search of pre-loved footies and swaddles for her two-month-old daughter. After she picked them up, she wrote to me: “Will you always put things on the side for my daughter when your baby outgrows?”

Today is Giving Tuesday, a day designated to remind us to give our voices, time, money, goods, and/or advocacy to support communities and causes that matter to us. This year, I am focusing on the Good+ Foundation in honor of Juana and the many other parents like her navigating new parenthood amidst the intensity and anxiety of COVID. Thanks to a generous Good+Foundation Board member, all donations made today (December 1st) will be matched 1:1, up to $50,000.

So many of the picks from my holiday dress roundup are currently on sale, but I wanted to call out a few exceptional sale finds from this list as well as a couple of additions:

+This stunning velvet dress with the prettiest bows on the shoulders — 30% off! I already bought my velvet Christmas dress but I might need this one, too.

+This feather-trim tuxedo blouse is EVERYTHING. I would pair with big statement earrings, cigarette pants, and heels and feel like Audrey Hepburn in it.

+Jewel embroidered shift (so unusual — such a statement! — and 30% off).

+Cult Gaia statement clutch (extra 15% off sale price with code 15EXTRA).

+Sweetest bow-shouldered top in cheery red (20% off purchases over $200).

+This sage green turtleneck dress is the perfect muted Christmas look.

+This bold red style packs a major punch. J’adore.

+Velvet hairbows (I bought two — one for me, one for mini).

+Tartan mules ($69!) — easiest way to transform your favorite jeans and black or ivory sweater into something perfect for Christmas day. (This $40 pair of flat tartan mules is also darling.)

+This spruce-colored, velvet-collared coat is BANANAS.

For little ones, don’t miss this Janie + Jack promotion — 35% off everything, plus free shipping:

+Adore this shawl-collar sweater, this knit train one-piece, and this navy blue velour shortall for little boys.

+And for girls, this cheery red sweater, this plaid jacquard dress, and these plaid leggings.

Frilly Frog is also offering 40% off some current-season holiday outfits (discount automatically applied at checkout), including this beyond precious Sal e Pimenta red velvet confection (baby brother can match in these), this gorgeous traditional tartan dress, and this precious bubble.

I already bought a number of holiday outfits for my children from small business Born Boutique, who is (similar to Frilly Frog, and carrying many of the same brands) offering 40% off this selection with code THANKFUL40. I bought Hill this plaid/velvet top and short set and both of my children the blue velvet Sal e Pimenta pieces.

Last but not least, a smattering of items I’m eyeing seriously on this final (?) day of promotions: this Tory Sport fleece (30% off), these Lululemon running tees and loose-fit tanks, this crib skirt for Hill’s nursery (20% off and free ship — note that this sweet gingham style for a girl’s room is even more deeply discounted; $24 shipped!!!), my favorite body lotion (20% off and free ship!), and these pastel Loeffler Randall mules, which are somehow $119 in my size…!

P.S. Prestige beauty items on rare sale and a shortlist of all my favorite sale buys.

P.P.S. Do you want more fiction? I have been working on the book quite a bit and am desperate to share…

I’m back with an abbreviated selection of honest reviews (more here, here, and here)! I’ve been in a pretty good spot with my beauty and cosmetics routine and have been disinclined to introduce much else at the moment, but I did want to share a couple recent experiences…

+Ilia Super Serum Skin Tint. I wanted to like this so badly! A serum and an SPF with foundation-like coverage, all-in-one? However, I found the formula very difficult and unwieldy to apply — even after shaken vigorously (per instructions), I felt the tint “broke” and was difficult to apply with any degree of consistency over the skin, even with my Artis brush in hand. I also did not feel it left my skin looking as natural as it does when I wear a tinted moisturizer — I found it difficult to blend in (splotchy?). Finally, it has a very distinctive scent I could not get beyond — sort of like plastic or plaster or something? Disappointing. But, it reminded me that I already have two great tinted moisturizers on hand (love LM and Chantecaille) and, when I need more coverage, my favorite foundation stick (<<free shipping right now with code FLASHNOVEMBER).

+Differin. I have been intrigued for a long time about retinol and retinoids, which promote skin cell turnover and which many people claim as the key to the fountain of youth. My dermatologist recommended starting with something non-prescription (a retinoid) and working my way up to a prescription-strength retinol if I liked how things were going, as they can be drying. Many people rave about Differin — inexpensive, treats acne, and adapalene (its key ingredient) is a retinoid. I used this for a month and saw no favorable difference in my skin. In fact, I broke out! I think the breakout could have been because I stopped using my glycolic acid treatment pads in favor of testing Differin and my skin rioted against the unceremonious change. But I just can’t figure out how or where else to introduce differin — it feels too harsh to put it on top of glycolic acid?! Help! Tell me your secrets, skincare gurus!

+Ritual Vitamins. As a part of my self-improvement regimen, I started taking daily multivitamins, and I chose Ritual. There is a lot to like about them — they taste good (minty) and contain only what you need (no additives), and I like the subscription model (takes all legwork out of the equation), but I found them so hard on my stomach! Every day I took them, I was horribly nauseous. I later read that this is common and that often it takes your body awhile to adjust but I could not get to the next phase, and so I abandoned ship. I do feel I eat a very balanced diet so I am just going to rest on those laurels for now.

+IGK Thirsty Girl Leave-In Hair Conditioner. This stuff is AMAZING for color-treated, dry hair. I have been layering it with my Oi Hair Milk recently and je suis obsessed. It goes on like a hair spray (!), smells like heaven, and totally softens and conditions my hair. The Oi Hair Milk is fantastic as a primer and detangler. I think they work wonderfully together.

+Not new in these parts, but I recently re-stocked a few items that I simply can’t live without:

HOURGLASS EYEBROW GEL — Please (!) give (!!) this (!!!) a (!!!!) try (!!!!!). It is truly the most amazing eyebrow tamer, shaper, and filler. I love the way it fills and shapes brows with a simple flick (no tedious penciling-in), and looks so natural given the range of colors it comes in (you can actually match to your natural brow color!)

BOBBI BROWN EXTRA LIP TINT — Pack of three for 25% off at the moment. I don’t know about you, but I have worn statement lipstick once in the last nine months, and it was on a day where I needed to hit the reset button and my children were very confused about why I had red marker all over my lips. (Ha!) Most days, I wear this lip tint instead. It glides on like a balm and affords the loveliest hint of color. I couldn’t resist picking up this three-pack at such a good value! (They work out to like $14/tube! Buy for yourself and give the other two as gifts to your sister and mother! Or use them all for yourself, as I am doing…ha!)

BELIF THE TRUE CREAM AQUA BOMB — I seriously considered testing a different moisturizer (thank you in particular to Veronica for your very convincing recommendation of Drunk Elephant!) but I ended up reordering Belif, a gel-like cream from Korean skincare label that I find deeply hydrating for the dead of winter, because a) I know and love it, b) I was somewhat disheartened by my recent testings of the highly popular items above, and so I might as well stick with what works for now, and c) it is such a good value compared to other high-end moisturizers! (Half the price of Drunk Elephant for the same amount of product, for example.) J’adore j’adore jadore.

What other products have you been testing and liking?

The product I now have my eye on is Le Prunier’s Plum Beauty Oil, which Chrissy Teigen (unsponsored!) lauded on social media a few weeks back and is, of course, now sold out for weeks.

P.S. My favorite home organization products.

P.P.S. A really, really, really good book. Probably the best I’ve read this year, alongside The Dutch House.

P.P.P.S. Drive gently, dearie.

*Image above via Polarn O Pyret, maker of my favorite snow bibs and suits for littles. And how beyond precious are these girls?! Can you even imagine having triplets? Hats off to all the moms of multiples.

Mini is ecstatic about the prospect of snow this winter, and I have learned the hard way (i.e., multiple years in a row…) that it is best to buy the gear well before you think you will need it, or run the risk of sending your baby out ill-equipped to handle the weather. Below, my favorite snow gear finds for children. Worth noting that these are all high quality pieces that will hold up over time and are hand-me-down material for multiple children.

POLARN O PYRET BIB SNOWPANTS (MINI HAS THIS PAIR; MICRO HAS THIS PAIR — NOTE THAT THIS BRAND RUNS REALLY BIG! I THINK YOU CAN GO A FULL SIZE DOWN! I ALSO LOVE THESE FOR ITTY BITTIES; MICRO OWNED IN A FEW SIZES)

POLARN O PYRET SNOW MITTENS

SPERRY SNOW BOOTS (FOR GIRLS AND BOYS)

PATAGONIA HI-LOFT JACKETS FOR BOYS AND GIRLS

SMARTWOOL SOCKS

AMAZON ESSENTIALS THERMALS — I ALSO LIKE THESE RIBBED SETS FROM VAENAIT BABY, BUT THEY AREN’T AS WARM

LL BEAN HATS

Snow day accoutrements:

LL BEAN DOES GREAT CLASSIC SLEDS AND SNOW TUBES (ICONIC HOLIDAY GIFT — SOMEONE ASKED ABOUT GOOD FAMILY GIFTS, AND THIS WOULD BE ANOTHER)

FLEXIBLE FLYER IS ANOTHER GREAT CLASSIC SLED BRAND — WE OWNED THESE GROWING UP…THEY ALSO HAVE A PRECIOUS INFANT PULL SLED

SNOW SAUCER

SNOW CASTLE KIT

SNO BUDDY (MINI LOVES THESE! SO FUN FOR LITTLE ONES WHO AREN’T QUITE DEXTROUS ENOUGH TO MAKE A SNOWMAN ON THEIR OWN)

TODDLER SNOW SHOVEL

Apres-snow:

PEPPERMINT HOT CHOCOLATE

MELAMINE MUGS

COZY HOLIDAY JAMMIES

CAMP SOCKS

SLIPPERS

PLAID CHILDREN’S ROBE

P.S. My favorite products for my three-year-old and my favorite bath gear for little ones.

P.P.S. Indoor toddler activities, plus I just ordered mini this rock-painting set. I know so many moms who do not live in a city are probably choking on their coffee right now! “You bought…rocks?” But I actually don’t know if it’s right to take rocks from Central Park (or particularly clean, especially in the high-traffic areas we frequent…note: never ever ever take anything from a Manhattan playground…)?! Moreover, mini’s Montessori is big on “leaving plants and nature as you find it.” So, I found myself in a strange moral quandary when mini plied me to help her build her own rock collection after seeing an episode of Sesame Street on the subject. Ahh! What’s a Manhattan mom to do?!

P.P.P.S. Raising a child of books.