My Dad — a lifelong runner and marathoner — had a clever response to my musing on Saturday about the experience of walking instead of running for a week: “Enjoyed your piece today about the benefits of walking versus running. I think my receptivity index increases as I slow down.”
Receptivity index!
What other things bump us up on the receptivity index, I wonder?
For me:
Patient study of any kind, but especially of birds
Walking instead of running, in ways literal and not
Looking at a night sky and sensing suddenly that it is not just a local canopy but an endlessness
Spending time outdoors, full-stop
Having a good night sleep
Sticking to a morning routine
Sitting attentively with a small child
Clearing clutter
Writing my way into an answer
Actively pursuing sonder* by visiting with other people
Discovering new words
Playing a board game
Reminding myself how fast it all goes
Falling in love with a fictional character
Realizing that nothing will be the same in a year (in ways good and bad)
What about you? What bumps you up on the receptivity index?
Post-Scripts.
*Sonder is the realization that every other individual has a life as full and real as my own.
**It occurred to me that the receptivity index is a good earth-side companion phrase for “the overview effect” I also wrote about in last week’s drafts. The overview effect is a term coined by Frank White in 1987 after studying astronauts — “Common features of the experience for astronauts are a feeling of awe for the planet, a profound understanding of the interconnection of all life, and a renewed sense of responsibility for taking care of the environment.” Adjacent concepts: the Romantic sublime and a fabulous excerpt from a poem by theoretical physicist Richard Feynman:
“Stands at the sea,
wonders at wondering: I
a universe of atoms
an atom in the universe.”
+On re-making myself as a mother.
Shopping Break.

MADEWELL VEST // CLOVER CHARM (CODE JENSHOOP) // ANDREA GOMEZ ROPE SANDALS // ANN MASHBURN TOTE (ON SALE!) // CELINE-INSPIRED SUNNIES // SPECTACULAR GOWN // CESTA HEADSCARF // LOUIS VUITTON POUCH // CLOVER BRACELET (CODE SHOOP20) // HEART HEELS
+Vibe today: RL button-down, Donni shorts, baseball cap, canvas tote.
+Pouch queen. Also love patrolling TRR for vintage Louis Vuitton and Goyard pouches, like this!
+I have been wearing this clover charm daily, layered beneath my Clemence!
+CUTE patterned skirt from Tuckernuck. Also available in a spectacular caftan.
+These slides look more expensive than they are. Could pass for YSL?
+I can’t say no to white eyelet!
+Look for less Celine sunglasses.
+Great cutaway vest for under $100 (Veronica Beard vibes). Pair with wide-leg white jeans!
+Zara has a kind of Jacadi vibe going in their girls’ section — see this, this, and this! CUTE.
+My kids love Bombas socks. They are always the first ones they grab when out of the laundry. These are adorable.
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