Note: This book review contains spoilers!

Charlotte McConaghy’s Wild Dark Shore explores the porousness between life and death, and the wearying responsibility of stewarding the living through the buffeting dangers of the world while they are here. McConaghy makes the point that we are capable — perhaps hardwired — to perform extreme acts of self-sacrifice to ensure the survival of our loved ones, but also asks haunting questions about what it means to be sending our children into an uncertain world, imperiled as it is by climate calamities and other lurking evils. The book asks: “What future is worth surviving for?” This motif is carried out at its most literal in the Salt family’s mission to preserve seeds in the event of global destruction. The Salts huddle around the responsibility of safeguarding them, and when they discover that not all seeds can be saved, they must decide which to protect, and which to let go. The rubric for this decision-making is unclear: Do we save the ones most likely to thrive and nourish? Do we protect the rarest of the lot, the ones most likely never to come back? Or do we permit our own imperfect hearts to make the call, favoring those whose features move us? This is, of course, incalculable math, and McConaghy looks roughly and then gently at all parts of the equation.

On Shearwater Island, the dead and the living co-mingle uncomfortably, haunting and reassuring one another in interesting ways. Dom speaks to his dead wife; Rowan is haunted by memories of her brother, River; and Orly communes with the dead creatures on the island. It becomes clear that we can hold onto the people we love even after they are gone — we can carry them with us, speak to them — a truth both comforting and challenging. On the island, we have recently-buried bodies, the voices of the dead, the dark image of happily-living seals and penguins wandering around enormous tubs once used to hold penguins and seals when traders plundered the island. We also have the voices of two deceased characters (Alex and Dom’s wife) occasionally present themselves in the prose, as speakers in different chapters: in these cases, the dead are quite literally speaking among the living. And, in the end, we learn that Rowan’s narrations have always been posthumous, as she dies protecting her “adoptive” son in a final climactic moment. The narrative seems to transcend itself here, performing its own function as a way of uniting people around loss. The text, McConaghy suggests, can hold the entire spectrum of the living and the dead together. In this way, it performs a powerful social function.

I was astounded by McConaghy’s agile toggling between metaphor and plot. You can absolutely read the book as a pulsing thriller, with fabulous cliff-hangers and danger lurking at every turn, but you can also read much of the novel as allegory: what do we do at the end of the world? Her word choice in every line is careful and poetic. I love especially the word “shore” — the liminal, evolving space between land and water. It shrinks in tide; it is continuously falling into the water body adjacent. But it can also be a reprieve, firm ground. This is as perfect an avatar for the feeling of this novel as you can imagine: are we on terra firma, or is the sand disappearing beneath us grain by grain?

There were many vignettes in this novel that lingered, resonant with meaning, for me. I was particularly moved by the description of the whale who lost her baby, and the way that other whales swam to her, retrieved the carcass, and surrounded her in her grief. This happens in our species as well, of course: we huddle around the grieving even when we can do nothing to bring the lost back. This, too, McConaghy points out, is a way of surviving: leaning into the warmth and empathy of others. The other scene that continues to return to my mind’s eye each time I think of the novel: the moment when Dom, his children, and Row have just enjoyed an elaborate and rare feast, and are dancing on the shore. Disaster looms imminent, but they make of their bodies “a language of joy.” This felt like an important cipher for the book: even while standing at the edge of the world, facing unknown peril and likely ending, we can rejoice by forming impermanent connections with one another. We can move together. I saw this motif also in the improvisational poetry of Row joining Dom’s family for a portion of the novel, stepping in as a mother figure. Mitosis, fusion: temporary shapes cluster around one another, then split off.

The book echoes elsewhere in many ways. On a narrative level, there are many repetitions of similar acts of preservation in the face of catastrophe: mother wombats protecting their young from fire by shuffling them underground and then barring the burrow with their bodies; trees whose pods only open in extreme heat; mothers who give their lives delivering their babies; and so on. On a language level, McConaghy has a knack for the onomatopoeic, or the autological: words that sound like what they describe, or perform meaning in creative ways. For example, “Shearwater” — you can almost feel the sluicing of the place, its hidden blade, in the very name of the novel’s central setting. This is a place of dangerous water. Most of the characters have mono-syllabic, staccato names that puncture the text: Claire, Fen, Row, Dom, Raff. I came to see these blunt namings as a morse code for life, and living.

All in all, I absolutely loved the artistry of this book, its deft conjuring of place, and its wide-eyed grappling with sweeping questions around what we owe one another, what we owe the future, and what we owe the dead. I consider it one of the best books I’ve read in 2025 and cannot wait to hear your thoughts, critiques, and insights in the comments.

Wild Dark Shore Moodboards.

wild dark shore moodboard
wild dark shore moodboard

Wild Dark Shore Book Club Questions.

In case you are hosting an in-person club, or want to do some guided reflecting on the work, I put together a couple of questions below. Feel free to jump into some or any of these in the comments, too!

01. Why do you think WDS alternated between narrators? What effect did this have on the plot?

02. Did you read the word “shore” (from the title) as I did, as an avatar for the overarching feeling of the book? What do you think is “The Wild Dark Shore”? Why would McConaghy anchor us in that language, or that image?

03. What did you make of the voices of the wind, and the dead, in this book? They are accepted without narrative friction; Dom hears his wife, and it is represented as actual conversation.

04. The island is both dangerous to and beloved by the Salt family — especially Fen and Dom. What did you make of their connection to the island? How is Shearwater treated in the novel — as a setting, as a plot catalyst, as…? (What else is it?)

05. Let’s talk about Raff and his music — violin and whale song. How does this shape or reflect the text? (At one point, Raff “trades” his punching bag for his musical instruments. Are they substitutes for one another in some way? Why or why not?)

06. So many of the characters are complex and empathetic, but Hank is portrayed as greedy and self-preserving, with limited positive attributes. What did you make of his character?

07. We witness several climate catastrophes in the novel: fire, flood, storm, thaw. What portrait does McConaghy paint of nature, and its future?

08. How would categorize Wild Dark Shore in terms of genre?

Book Club Fare for Wild Dark Shore.

Are you hosting an in-person gathering for this book? This was always one of my favorite parts of my in-person book club in Chicago: designing a themed menu. I like the idea of putting out a spread of tinned fishes with crackers and hard cheese. My cousin-in-law takes people on expeditions to Antartica (!!! — her business is called Quixote Expeditions if you’re interested; tell her I sent ya!) and this is the kind of snack they might offer, as items are shelf stable for some time. If you want something more robust, this is the perfect occasion for a seafood plateau — oysters, shrimp, clams. If you’re feeling super splurgey, crab claws or lobster! And of course all the accoutrements: mignonette, cocktail sauce, lemon wedges, maybe a mustard sauce for the crab claws, or drawn butter.

On the beverage front, I asked myself: “what cocktail brings to mind the maritime — the cold, the salty, the oceanic?” If you’re an advanced cocktailer, you might try Punchdrink’s Sailor’s Paradise, which involves pickled melon brine (!) and suggests an oyster for garnish.

If you’re after something lower-key (I love a built cocktail for parties), let me suggest a perfect Gin and Tonic, and we’ll call it “The Shearwater G&T.” It’s crisp, it’s brisk, the tonic is medicinal–and gin always reminds me of the navy.

The Shearwater G&T.

2 oz Monkey 47 Gin

2 oz fever tree tonic

For garnish: Lime wedge, juniper berry

Fill a collins glass with ice. Add gin, then tonic. Squeeze a lime wedge into glass and add the wedge to the glass, too. Crush juniper berries using a mortar and pestle and add to gin glass.

A Wild Dark Shore Moody Playlist.

This text is so rich, the setting so atmospheric: the novel gave me instant ideas about a playlist to match. This may not be ideal for an actual book club — a little too slow/heavy for a social event? For that occasion, I’d recommend my dinner party playlist. But if you want to be in all of your feelings while reading and crying to this book, you might give this one a listen. (On Apple here, on Spotify here.) This is a moody mix of sea songs, ballads about endings, and voices that strum the heart. “Slow Dancing in a Burning Room” felt just right for Rowan and her grief over the fire.

wild dark shore playlist

WDS Dream Casting.

I hope this book is adapted to screen — the plot is wild and thrilling, and the setting visually evocative. I know Dom is probably fair-haired like his children, but I imagined a dark and swarthy hero — someone with the quiet strength of Tom Hardy but maybe more wiriness and communicability? I don’t know, but he looks in my mind’s eye like a blend of these random handsome fishermen I found on Pinterest:

For Rowan: Daisy Edgar Jones! I couldn’t get her out of my head for this character. Or maybe someone like Riley Keough?

Who else do you think might be a good cast for a film adaptation?

Next Month’s Magpie Book Club Pick: Orbital by Samantha Harvey.

Next month’s book club pick is Orbital by Samantha Harvey, a Booker Prize winner.  Description: “A slender novel of epic power and the winner of the Booker Prize 2024, Orbital deftly snapshots one day in the lives of six women and men traveling through space…Their experiences of sixteen sunrises and sunsets and the bright, blinking constellations of the galaxy are at once breathtakingly awesome and surprisingly intimate.”  A completely different look at planet earth than the one offered by McConaghy, but seeming to pluck on similar strings–I thought this would be interesting to read in conversation with Wild Dark Shore, and I’m also interested in the prominence of space books right now — Taylor Jenkins Reid’s latest, Atmosphere, is also focused on astronauts. 

Beyond that, a Magpie reader compelling described Orbital as her top book of 2024, adding “I never would have thought I’d like a book about astronauts in a space station orbiting the earth but boy does it capture the bigness and smallness of living. The prose is so good, meditative, subtle and the imagery vividly transports you to the foreign world of an orbiting space station. I found just the premise of being able to imagine myself falling through space had a profound effect on the experience of reading the book.”  Ad lunam!

Sign Up for Magpie Book Club Emails.

This morning, I sent a special edition newsletter to book club email subscribers; you can sign up here! (If you already subscribe to my newsletter, you received this as well!) I will be sending out a once or twice a month newsletter to the book club list!

P.S. More recent book reviews here and here.

P.P.S. No one is paying as much attention to your life as you are, so you might as well…!

P.P.P.S. The plum you’ll eat next summer is waiting for you.

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The vibe of the week: ebullient, whipsawed, “what am I forgetting”? The end of school, family flying into town to stay with us for a week, manuscript submitted, catching up on the social life I more or less abandoned for a month while deep in drafting…! I’ve come up for air, and it is refreshing and chaotic! But the fizzy-business of the week also made me wonder why we volunteered to schedule the children’s passport appointment and various other inessential but lovely things for right now. Couldn’t we have waited until the languor of August? Receipts to carry forward to next June, when I will inevitably overbook myself again.

Things I did well this week:

+Took proper time to celebrate the milestone of submitting my manuscript. Landon took me out to dinner, and we opened a bottle of Ruinart the afternoon I told him: “it’s finished; I can’t look at it anymore.” That is, until I receive the developmental edits…! When I will again tumble into an abyss of words and self-doubt. Ha!

+Listened to my body in various ways. Drank a ton of water, put myself to bed early one night, let myself skip a run. It’s always a tug of war, isn’t it — when to push yourself to stay committed, and when to go slack and loose. I’m favoring the “softer” side right now. It feels right.

+Somehow managed to get all the gifts wrapped and distributed — for some reason, it was gifting week? End of school gifts, niece and nephew gifts, a neighbor’s graduation gift, hostess gifts! I felt like I was running a small gifting business. I don’t know how, but somehow every gift was carefully selected, wrapped, ribboned, and handed off at the right time. One little mnemonic that has been helping me right now, especially when I am pulled in a lot of different directions: do the small thing to completion. I’m often tempted to half-assemble the gift, and then say “eh, the tissue paper is all the way in the basement; I’ll get it next time I’m down there” or “I should put fresh towels up in the guest room while I’m thinking of it, but ehhh I don’t feel like it.” This week has been all about doing small things all the way. This has the benefit of giving me tiny dopamine hits throughout the day — “checkmark! completed!” — and gives me the impression of “one more closed tab.”

+Continued my nighttime phone detox. Now going on week three of no phone from the moment I set foot in my bedroom at night to the next morning at 8 am, usually once the kids are off to school.

Things I want to work on:

+Maintaining more equanimity in the face of my kids’ meltdowns and tantrum-y behavior. I saw a funny meme this week that said: “I don’t know what you’d call this phase of parenting, but I’m in the one where you say, ‘Take off your shoes,’ and your kid says, ‘These are sandals.'” That’s about where we’ve been this week with my daughter — recalcitrant, correcting. It has been difficult to maintain composure when she’s pushing all my buttons but I really am trying. Sometimes I think — you know, I’m not a robot, it’s OK to express hurt, frustration, surprise, etc? Wouldn’t it be weird and wrong to respond with perfect stoicism to every wild barb tossed our way as parents? But as with anything, there’s a middle ground. There are times to express shock and times to be the quiet voice of reason. I am working hard on the latter.

+The five second rule. I still scramble to fill voids and reassure people conversationally way too much, and when I am intentional about just staying quiet for a second, I find it excruciating…! I was aware of this a few times this week.

Work in progresses, all — on we go —

Sunday Shopping.

+First, had to mention that my new gingham linen bedding (seen above) is 25% off at the moment! I’m in love with it!

+Into a longer hemline denim short at the moment, inspired by Alice Pilate (seen below)…into these Everlanes!

+After I wrote this post on “swimsuits for mom life,” one of the brands I mentioned, Stylest, which is designed to accommodate the coverage needs of any woman, reached out to send me one of their styles! I can’t wait to wear and review. I picked this style — their bestseller — in a chili red.

+A perfect oversized gray sweatshirt. I own a different sweatshirt style from this brand and adore it. Very lived-in, vintage.

STYLEST DREAMSCULPT SQUARENECK SUIT // ELIOU SHELL NECKLACE // GAP X DOEN TOP // STAUD BAG // GINGHAM SCRUNCHIE // LEFT ON FRIDAY SWEATSHIRT // EVERLANE SHORTS // MADEWELL BAG // QUINCE WILD HEIRLOOM TOMATO CANDLE // TKEES SANDALS

Last note on swim: a small restock of Follow Suit’s Flora this week! Run while you can! Run TTS.

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+BOLD SUMMER PLAYLIST: If you’re looking for something peppier and zestier than my “soft summer playlist” (as I was compiling mine, I was imagining what kind of music I’d want to have wafting in through open windows while enjoying a glass of rose), you must check out Cadets’ Songs of Summer and Summers Past. It’s perfect for an outdoor BBQ, a pool hang, etc! I have actually been listening to it while putting together a bunch of my summer shopping posts this week. And of course Cadets’ resort collection is the perfect attire for the playlist!

+READING AND EMPATHY: I loved this quote by George R.R. Martin I came across this week. How spectacularly true?! Good readers are deeply empathetic.

george r.r. martin quote about reading

+BOAT SHOES: Falling hard for these chic boat shoes, reimagined. The laces make them, don’t you think?! This under-$150 pair has a more feminine silhouette that I also find chic.

boat shoe trend 2025

+THE DEAREST FRESHNESS DEEP DOWN: This stanza from Gerard Manley Hopkins leapt right out at me. I love the description of nature, the “dearest freshness deep down.” It’s exactly right: the sense of things welling up, the nascent or budded beauty of it all.

gerard manley hopkins poem

+EYEING + BUYING: On my radar this week, in addition to the boat shoes: longer-hem jean shorts?! Who am I? Why do I covet these Gap jean shorts?!

summer shopping collage

SUMMERSALT SWIMSUIT // STRIPED MUG // LINEN TOP AND SHORTS // STRIPED SWEATER // GHIA NON-ALCOHOLIC SPRITZES // RATTAN DRINK COOLER // LOEFFLER RANDALL BOAT SHOES // GAP DENIM SHORTS // YSE BANANDA PRINT EYE PATCHES

+”HOW PEOPLE DO LIFE”: I was also struck by this lovely sentiment on Instagram: “I love seeing how people do life. The messy and the specific to them.” I think this is a big part of why Instagram was, initially, so intriguing, although it has evolved to be many different things since. It reminded me of a Magpie reader who commented that she liked the way, in 2025, I have been exploring “the messes around life and love.” I have been thinking so much along those lines — about how we’re almost always in the murky middle of something, and how much easier life becomes when we’ve cultivated the competency to wait, hang tight, be present in the in-betweens.

+BESTSELLERS: This week’s top seller: these CHIC gingham pants! Planning to do a micro-post with different ideas on how to style them soon.

01. GINGHAM PANTS // 02. TORY BURCH FLATS // 03. J. CREW SARDINES TEE // 04. SCARF // 05. SHORTS // 06. ROXANNE ASSOULIN NECKLACE // 07. GAP CROCHET BAG // 08. PISTOLA SELENE TEE // 09. LOCCITANE SHIMMERING ALMOND OIL // 10. CESTA SCARF // 11. DOEN SHIRT // 12. TUCKERNUCK DRESS

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Dinner with Friends in La Ligne.

I am swooning over this striped La Ligne dress (use code MAGPIE10) I wore to dinner this week — but was stuck on which bag to wear with it and polled my Magpies on Instagram. They voted for the VB Dash clutch, which is what I went with!

la ligne anna dress
RING CONCIERGE SHELL EARRINGS

LA LIGNE ANNA DRESS (MAGPIE10 FOR 10% OFF) // VERONICA BEARD DASH CLUTCH // MARGAUX WRAP SANDALS // J. MCLAUGHLIN BASKET BAG // DORSEY PARACORD BRACELETS // RING CONCIERGE SHELL EARRINGS

Everyday Mom / Work Life.

HILL HOUSE INDRA SHORTS
HILL HOUSE INDRA SHORTS
HILL HOUSE INDRA SHORTS

HILL HOUSE INDRA SHORTS // LESET RIBBED TEE // ALICE WALK SWEATER (THE BEST OMG) // TORY BURCH KIRA SANDALS // JENNI KAYNE HAT (OLD, SIMILAR HERE AND HERE) // MANSUR GAVRIEL CABAS TOTE // AMAZON BAG CHARM // JANE WIN COURAGE PENDANT

Celebrating the Submission of My Manuscript!

alemais madalena dress
alemais madalena dress

ALEMAIS DRESS // MARGAUX SANDALS // LIZZIE FORTUNATO NECKLACE (GREAT LOOK FOR LESS HERE) // DANS LA MAIN CLUTCH // BY ALONA NECKLACE

Hot Summer Day.

tuckernuck striped seersucker dress
tuckernuck striped seersucker dress

TUCKERNUCK STRIPED DRESS // J. MCLAUGHLIN TOTE // MARGAUX SANDALS

Working from a Coffee Shop.

doen sebastiane skirt

DOEN PLAID TOP // DOEN SEBASTIANE SKIRT (LOOK FOR LESS HERE) // CUYANA PALOMA BAG

A Lot of Writing and Editing.

pistola striped dress
quince striped sweater
pistola striped dress

QUINCE STRIPED SWEATER // PISTOLA STRIPED DRESS // STAUD MESH FLATS // ALTUZARRA TOTE // MIGNONNE GAVIGAN BEADED NECKLACE (OLD, SIMILAR HERE) // BY ALONA NECKLACE

Hot Summer Sunday.

MI GOLONDRINA DRESS

MI GOLONDRINA DRESS (SOLD OUT, SIMILAR HERE) // ANCIENT GREEK ELEFTHERIA SANDALS

P.S. Great bags for the season ahead.

P.P.S. When was the last time you felt truly happy?

P.P.P.S. On book hangovers.

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This week, I was talking with a mother whose son leaves for college at the end of the summer. I asked how she felt about the prospect of an empty nest, and she thought for a moment and said: “I just really need to re-conceptualize my time.” She explained that, for 25 years, she has worked half-time so that she could be there for the afterschool stretch (pick up, extracurriculars, homework, dinner, bed) for each of her three children. This had been the agreed-upon arrangement between her and her ex-husband, and she was happy with it. Just after her divorce, though, she had been startled by the quietness of the weekends her children were away from her; she explained she’d had to figure out how to redefine that time so that it didn’t swallow her. And so she is now anticipating, as her youngest prepares to fly the coop, the weirdness of not having an afternoon anchor to her days, and she knows she needs to reshape that part of her calendar.

I thought, first, how wise this woman is; how clearly and well she knows her own mind. She is an obvious expert in herself. She sees the inclement weather ahead and asks herself, care-ingly: “What will I need? What will comfort, what will ease me across?” It felt a little bit like she was writing a thoughtful, nourishing packing list for the future. (“What might I want?”)

I thought, too, how creatively sanguine it was — how writerly, how artistic? — that she conceived of her time in this way: elastic, able to be recast. For years, her children have been the afternoon drumbeat. What new rhythm can she find for herself?

Another woman sitting with us mentioned, a few minutes later, on a different but not altogether unrelated tack, that when flamingoes have babies, they temporarily lose their pink color. While focused on nourishing their chicks, they shift their own diets and habits, leading to a loss in color vibrancy; once their young become more independent, the regain their signature pink.

I’ve written a lot lately about how mothers undergo tremendous transformation every single day — just last week, I noted: “We shapeshift into the oak-tree of a firm “no,” the eiderdown of a soft landing, the morning rays that gently coax, the quiet night that holds the peace. I can meet this transition, and whatever it asks of me, too.”

Thinking today of the epochal changes we undertake as mothers, too — not just the way we evolve to meet the needs of today’s narrow demands, but the needs of the broader life-stage, too. How we change when our babies are born; how we recast our days when our children leave home. These are not nothings. These are moments of enormous identity shift. How can we approach them with grace and an open mind?

Inspired today by the model of that mother, by her gentle packing list for the upcoming journey.

Post-Scripts.

+On maintaining wonder as a parent.

+Notes to self on motherhood.

+Gifts for our future selves.

+Are you friends with yourself?

Shopping Break.

+A great new arrival at Tuckernuck! It already sold out in my size — sigh! Also love this green striped dress for work and this gingham set for play.

+Love this striped tote in the variegated greens! They also have a bunch of great bags on clearance sale, like this shoulder bag with whipstitch detailing, which belongs in my Aspen style guide roundup, and of course their soleil bag (one of my favorites – I own in a wintry colorway)! I also styled the bag below in a Ralph Lauren mommy and me moment (more outfits along these lines here).

ralph lauren mommy and me

RALPH LAUREN SUNGLASSES // 3.1 PHILIP LIM BAG // RALPH LAUREN CABLE KNIT SWEATER //  AGOLDE SHORTS // BIRKENSTOCKS // CABLE KNIT SWEATER // GIRLS PLEATED SKORT // GIRLS ESPADRILLES

+New toiletry sets and pareo prints at Julia Amory! Love and own multiple of these items. The toiletry sets are such great sizes; you can toss in the laundry and air dry; and they have lined and pocketed interiors. Great gift!

+Cute gingham romper – under $100. Pair with these jellies and this elongated canvas tote for a fresh look.

gingahm romper styling

JELLIES // ROMPER // SUNNIES // BAG // HAIR CLIP

+BTW, while you’re at Staud, don’t miss their sale section! Extra 20% off their gorgeous and flattering Wells dress or ribbed knit dress in the most gorgeous sage green! And how fab is this tweed top?!

+Love this fringe trim black knit tank with white jean shorts.

styling white shorts for summer

TANK // SHORTS // JENNY BIRD EARRINGS // PARACORD NECKLACE // SANDALS // BAG

+Best pool bags.

+A great look for less for my Ancient Greek IRO flats.

+Cute wicker cooler that doubles as a picnic seat!

+Managed to grab my kids Quince’s boy’s boxers and girls underwear while restocked! These sell out so quick and are great quality – similar to Hanna Andersson. Also picked up these striped $29 sweaters for both my kids and can’t believe the quality.

+Fish jammies for your littles.

+$25 Ciao bag and fun shell appetizer plates.

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Lots of great new summer finds at Shopbop right now! I wore this spectacular silk mini dress to dinner on Monday at Osteria Mozze to celebrate the submission of the manuscript for my book! (Thank you so much for the encouragement!)

alemais madalena dress
margaux wrap sandals

alemais madalena dress

I styled with my favorite wrap sandals, this Dans La Main seagrass clutch, a Lizzie Fortunato necklace (great look for less here), and my seashell necklace from By Alona.

If you like the look of this dress but want something a little less expensive, try this Tuckernuck or this Cara Cara! Note that my dress above from Alemais also comes in this cool tie-dye, which would be so fab for a summer party with some dramatic necklaces.

Even more great Shopbop picks below; all of my hearts are shoppable here!

shopbop finds june 2025

BEADED NECKLACE // ALEX MILL KNIT VEST // ALTUZARRA CLUTCH // SPERRY SANDALS // XIRENA SHORTS

shopbop finds june 2025

HAIR CLIP // ALEMAIS DRESS // SEASHELL EARRINGS // MADEWELL CROCHET BAG // JELLIES

P.S. Trends to try this season: corded jewelry, crochet, sardines (!) as a motif, and butter yellow.

P.P.S. Who are you when no one’s watching?

P.P.P.S. Places we don’t need to perform.

Today, a roundup of my favorite suits for hanging with the kids — pieces that offer enough coverage but are still chic, colorful, and fun.

favorite-swim-for-moms

EYELET // FLORA CUT-OUT // SCALLOP ONE SHOULDER // NAVY PRIMROSE // NAVY FLORAL STRIPE

01. My swim obsession of the season — the Flora one-piece suit. Select other colors here. (Runs TTS!)

02. Navy print with a low back — all of Minnow’s suits are so flattering and well-designed, with a nice and thick fabric that holds you in. Run a tad shy of TTS. I’d still take your true size but find they are tiny bit snug.

03. Eyelet suit with balconette details — N.B.: I’m fairly flat chested but this might be too much if you’re better endowed.

04. A classic and favorite for a reason; great if you’re doing anything active in water.

05. Obsessed with the fit on this Hill House beauty.

06. A little saucier, but I love the style of this and find the actual body of the suit is ultra-flattering.

07. Classic scallop in a variety of colors.

08. SO many Magpies raved about this suit a few years ago and I snagged one!

09. The Hunza G one-piece — I did an in-depth review of this brand’s suits here, but needless to say, this suit is incredible!

Suits on my radar for this summer:

01. Staud dolce one-piece.

02. This gorgeous print for summer. Can be ordered in your cup size!

03. Another Hill House gem — selling fast! I just received mine in the mail and can’t wait to debut at the pool this weekend.

04. This colorblock one-piece from Summer Salt.

Swimsuit Brands Featuring More Coverage.

And if you’re after more coverage or modesty, here are a few brands I’d consider —

+ Stylest — lots of different options to address different areas of concern / areas you’d prefer to keep covered.

+ Watskin — love that this could be worn as a swimsuit or with a tennis skirt.

Other Pool and Beach Favorites.

+ Pareos: this, this, and this.

+ Jellies: been loving these from J.crew and Ancient Greek always.

+ Bogg bag.

+ Beach pants: Eyelet white or these dramatic gauze palazzos.

+ Terry cover ups: my recent obsession or these shorts would be cute!

+ Cover up.

+ Hat — look for less here.

Styling Swim for Mom Life.

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EYELET SUIT // BEACH TOTE // BIRKENSTOCKS // TERRY SHORTS // NECKLACE (GREAT LOOK FOR LESS HERE)

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FLORA ONE PIECE // PAREO // TOTE // JELLIES // HAT

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JELLIES // COVER UP // HAT // ONE PIECE // BOGG BAG

P.S. Summer trend — crochet and striped knits.

P.P.S. Outfits for an active summer.

P.P.P.S. A day of small things.

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At a gathering earlier this month, one of my neighbors commented: “you pick your house, but your inherit your neighbors; it’s so lucky that we ended up with such a great block.” To this, another neighbor replied: “Actually, my husband chose to build a house on this street because he liked the people here so much.”

Wow! Both of the comments made me think about how we chose this home in Bethesda, which wasn’t in the initial set of neighborhoods we were looking at, and didn’t have some of the features we’d thought we’d wanted–and yet some of its true virtues were completely lost on me when we signed the contract. What did I care about the cul de sac address? I was on my way to my own backyard and big kitchen — novelties after four years in New York City. As it turns out, living on a block with no thru-traffic has been an incredible gift for our children; it has empowered us to turn our kids out on the street with bikes, scooters, hockey sticks, and sidewalk chalk, and let them play independently for hours with neighborhood children without the slightest worry. It has also given us a convenient, out-of-the-way gathering place for morning coffee catch-ups and evening “roadies” with the neighbors; we spill into the street in bare feet, and collect in conversation.

And how could I have known I’d luck into such nurturing neighbors? The week before we moved in, one of them mowed our lawn for us; we were driving in from New York, exhausted and frazzled, and couldn’t believe our eyes. What an incredible generosity, to pull up to a new home with a freshly groomed yard. And that was just a foreshadowing of what would come. My neighbors have saved me dozens of times since, coming to my rescue with missing packages, “have you seen my dog?”, cups of sugar, ice for parties, spare towels, parenting solidarity, hand-me-down toys and books, extra folding chairs, Disney tips, restaurant recs, bug spray, words of encouragement when I really needed it, even a leant vacation home (!!) when we were desperate to get out of dodge. I will never forget their tenderness when our dog died. I emailed our next door neighbors first — even before telling other family members — because they just needed to know, would wonder where she was, and I knew they would have the right thing to say. They did. And they mourned her with us, and planted flowers in her memory, and placed a little rock with her paw print and name on it in the cul de sac.

And how could I have anticipated that the sweet thirteen year old girl next door would become something of a big sister to my kids, baby-sitting them and serving as a mother’s helper for countless afternoons and evenings? That she would one day wear a friendship bracelet my daughter had made her, and proudly, to her high school, completely thrilling my six-year-old?

A good house is probably just as precious as a good neighbor. I did nothing to vet for this, but how lucky I am to live on a street full of them.

I’m curious — what drew you to your home? And what endears it to you now? Is there a difference between the two?

Post-Scripts.

+Imprints of a new (suburban) lifestyle.

+On our decision to leave NYC.

+How do you make a big life decision?

+Another musing in which I reflect on neighbors who turn out to be guardian angels.

Post-Scripts.

+OOO Tuckernuck has me with this blouse and pants set.

+Obsessed with this striped weekender bag and these cheeky SPF/beach pouches.

+Currently wearing and loving these comfortable patterned shorts. They are lined but with an airy cotton so it feels SO easy breezy but totally opaque. Just obsessed with the pattern!

+Smart high-waisted pants (under $100) to pair with your summer blouses. Would look great with this ruffle trim blouse (also under $100), which reminds me of this Doen!

+How CHIC (?!) is this boucle tank and skirt situation?

+This $64 shell necklace is perfect.

+A chic gingham top for under $50. Reminds me of Posse!

+TKEES are a beach must. I love mine.

+Have been getting a lot of wear out of this fun little $10 hair clip.

+Love (!) Few Moda’s collab with Alli Sisto Daniels! I have this gingham mini and this patterned set sitting in my cart! Exactly what I want to be wearing right now.

+My daughter was invited to two pool parties this week! I sent her with these dive buddies as a gift. Other cute ideas: these inflatable noodles, this waterproof set of Taco Cat Goat Cheese Pizza, and these waterproof cards.

+Veronica Beard’s new tennis capsule is so chic!

+Madewell’s newest woven bag is so good!

+Cute party products for the FOJ: striped plates, scalloped plates, flag cups.

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Image via Pierre Jeanneret on Upsplash.

Continuing in our “what to pack” series (see Miami/Palm Beach here and Aspen/Vail here): what do we pack for a summer trip to Nantucket? I believe this guide is applicable to other New England destinations, but am anchoring in ACK. I consulted several friends who have spent substantial amount of time on Nantucket for their input, and can’t wait to share some style ideas.

NANTUCKET COLLAGE

Image credits: 1 / 2 / 3 / 4

What to Pack: Summer in Nantucket.

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JENNIFER BEHR EARRINGS // KULE SWEATER // LOLA HAT // MARCH HARE WATCH // LORETTA CAPONI DRESS // MINNOW SUIT // MARGAUX SANDALS // THE GREAT CARDIGAN // POSSE GINGHAM SHORTS // LOEFFLER RANDALL BOAT SHOES // RUE DE VERNEUIL TOTE

What to Wear: Steps Beach Day.

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THE GREAT CARDIGAN // MINNOW SUIT // J. CREW PANTS // LOLA HAT // RING CONCIERGE EARRINGS // ANCIENT GREEK JELLY ELEFTHERIA SANDALS // RUE DE VERNEUIL TOTE

What to Wear: Shopping on Nantucket.

Nantucket has some great shopping! I can’t believe how many great brands have shops there — Hill House, Roller Rabbit, Alice Walk!

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MI GOLONDRINA TOP // MI GOLONDRINA SHORTS // MARGAUX SANDALS // ALA VON AUERSPERG BAG // JANESSA LEONE HAT // JANE WIN COIN PENDANT

What to Wear: Visiting the Lighthouses on Nantucket.

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FRANK AND EILEEN LINEN SET // J. CREW BUCKET HAT // PRADA BAG // LOEFFLER RANDALL BOAT SHOES // LOMOGRAPHY CAMERA

What to Wear: Date Night on ACK.

JENNIFER BEHR EARRINGS // MARCH HARE WATCH // VERONICA BEARD CLUTCH // LORETTA CAPONI DRESS // AMANU SANDALS

What to Wear: Sconset Market.

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VARLEY DRESS // HARDING LANE HAT // J. CREW SWEATSHIRT // APL SHOES // TUCKERNUCK SOCKS

What to Wear: Cisco Brewery Visit.

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POSSE GINGHAM TOP // POSSE GINGHAM SHORTS // CELINE SUNGLASSES // KULE SWEATER // RUE DE VERNEUIL TOTE // LOEFFLER RANDALL SANDALS

P.S. What to read while at Steps Beach.

P.P.S. Some fun summer recipes to try: this strawberry cocktail, this icebox dessert, this easy weeknight meal, Landon’s biscuits.

P.P.P.S. Something hilarious Landon said

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Photo at top by Andrew Wolff on Unsplash.

The Fourth of July is just around the corner! This year, we’ll be taking our kids to a huge festivity with fireworks, a buffet dinner, and every patriotic themed sweet treat imaginable. This is the first year we’ve done this with the kids in tow, as we’ve always felt my son was a little too young to stay up until 9 to see the fireworks. But as a newly minted six year old — ! Today, I’m rounding up the cutest pieces for whatever you find your family partaking in this Fourth of July, be it a casual pool afternoon, a parade, or fireworks.

I did want to mention that I recently revisited a super-old post of mine (from 2018) about a Ralph Lauren “Mommy and Me” capsule they launched and of course all of those items had long sold out but I came across a crop of adorable new mommy-and-me styling opportunities using their latest collection and updated the post to reflect it! Lots of Americana in there, too, in case you’re looking for something a little less on-the-nose!

Seen above: Cecil and Lou monogrammed hat, striped sandals, pajamas, striped tank, flag dress, and striped shorts.

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TENNIS DRESS // TERRY POLO // CANVAS SNEAKERS // SPARKLER WANDS // MONOGRAMMED HAT // EMBROIDERED BUBBLE // STRIPED SHORTS

01. This darling swiss dot dress.

02. LOVE this hat for little boys! Hill has been rocking his a lot this summer already.

03. Perfect swim shorts from Cadets.

04. Cute printed performance polo for boys – just like Dad.

05. Red sandals with heart details — or the cutest striped ones, seen above.

06. Scalloped floral romper.

07. Girls striped swim!

08. Terry polo.

09. Boys shorts in several red white and blue color ways!

10. Sweetest flag dress.

11. Love the vintage look on this sweater.

12. Perfect PJs. My kids have already been wearing theirs.

13. These wands are fun accessories — also great party favors!

14. Tennis dress.

15. Canvas sneakers — under $20.

16. Embroiered flag tee.

17. Embroidered bubble.

18. Beach buggy! This also comes in handy elsewhere — for tired feet during fireworks, etc.

19. I want these pajamas!

20. Perfect dress for Fourth of July play — monogram for $20.

21. Red check dress from La Coqueta if you’re doing something dressier.

22. I am obsessed with the cherry details on the smocking of this dress — would be cute all summer long!

Ways to Style Kids for Fourth of July.

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SPARKLER WANDS // SANDALS // STRIPED SWIM // FLAG DRESS

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FLAG PAJAMAS // SANDALS // CHERRY DRESS // SWISS DOT BOW DRESS

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TERRY POLO // SWIM SHORTS // STRIPED SHORTS // CANVAS SNEAKERS

P.S. Movies that feel like summer.

P.P.S. The best button downs for summer.

P.P.P.S. Summer pops of color.

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Two diary posts ago, I shared my intention for this summer: softness. When I adapted those thoughts to this post on Instagram in the format below, it garnered a lot of love; I suppose a lot of us are looking for a soft landing this season.

soft summer poetry

I’ve been really focusing on that word — which has been a little challenging with all the work I’ve been putting into my book behind the scenes (I promise I’ll stop talking about that soon; manuscript is due today!) — but have been manifesting it in small ways, like:

soft summer aesthetic moodboard
soft summer aesthetic moodboard

+New breathable gingham linen bedding from Piglet in Bed for the season ahead. (Seen above: sheets, duvet.)

+An unscheduled afterschool date for ice cream with my daughter.

+Permitting myself to read whatever I feel like. This has meant I’ve started three books in the past week and am toggling between them based on mood and preference. I’ve never read like this before, and it feels indulgent, yielding.

+Setting no alarm. I use the Hatch Restore now for gentle wakeups — the machine gradually wakes you via slowly brightening light and “alarms” that are much softer than the standard iPhone bunch — you can have birdsong, “Parisian morning,” music. They know have a few cool “alarm shuffle” options so you never know exactly what you’re going to get when you’ve set the Restore to wake you up; I just set up the “nature sounds shuffle.” I know I’ve been rhapsodic about this piece of technology but it has transformed my sleeping routines and rituals. I love not having my phone tempting me at my bedside; I love the soft, slow rousing in the morning. If I wake in the middle of the night, I sit with my thoughts — or I read. Or I go through this pragmatic little list my mother used to rattle off when I’d wake her in the middle of the night: “Are you hot? Are you cold? Are you thirsty? Are you hungry?” (Side note: I wish I’d had the Hatch Rest for my kids when they were younger! The Hatch Go may be a new go-to gift for new moms.)

+Repeating the words: “Actually, I do have the time” to myself any time I’m feeling the pinch of logistics and deadlines and “needing to get to the next place NOW.” Who cares if the kids go to bed a few minutes later? So what if I decide to push the errand to tomorrow so I can catch up with a friend?

+Seasonal baking. I made a donut loaf from this Midwestern Baking book last weekend and am making blueberry streusel muffins this one (using Bravetart’s recipe). I love a breakfast of fresh fruit, a slice of something sweet, and a big cup of coffee. It’s made for a leisurely sit with a crossword, or a good book, or a round of Wingspan.

+Relying on natural light. I often write with no lamps / overhead lights in my studio — just whatever filters in through the window. Sometimes this makes for dim conditions but I like the soft and unmediated quality of it.

+Watching summer storms on our covered patio, and calling my children out to do the same. One of my favorite sensory experiences of the season.

+Enjoying loose and airy pajamas, like this gauze striped pair and these adorable farmer’s market print ones.

+Making bad art! This past weekend, my daughter and I did some adult coloring books with these markers (there is an entire corner of the Internet dedicated to professional-grade colorists; it’s like ASMR) and also watercolors using our new Emily Lex bird watercolor set. (We got this set of watercolors/paintbrushes and this watercolor paper, too.). We enjoyed this on the back patio both weekend mornings while I was enjoying coffee and the incoming rain.

+Being a little more forgiving with my rituals — it’s OK if I miss a day of running; it’s OK if I go to bed a little later.

+Skincare routines that give me exactly what I feel like — nothing punishing. My favorite summertime product is Clarins’ Cryo-Flash mask. It really feels like a cold plunge to the face and leaves skin so energized.

+Wearing a lot of this doublesoft material (I own these in a few colors and love their various sweatshirts and cardigans in the same material — especially this style) and “whipped” cotton Negative undergarments while deep in editing, especially in the evening. It’s drapey, it’s ultrasoft, it never restricts.

+Keeping a candle that smells like summer lit almost all the time we’re at home. All my favorites for this season here.

+Going very light on makeup. I like the tinted SPFs from various brands, but have been wearing Merit’s new formula daily since I received it. I’ll add a slick of concealer at the undereye and nose (love Sarah Creal’s FaceFlex — designed not to sink into fine lines; luminous and light but also really does cover what it needs to cover), a little cream blush (color: Venus) and/or bronzer, and a slick of mascara. I learned somewhere on BeautyTok to leave your nose completely untouched by makeup for a more natural look so I make sure to dab off any concealer from the tip of my nose. It gives the impression of being makeup free even if you’re wearing concealer/foundation elsewhere.

+Wearing a lot of loose dresses and cotton basics. Hoping to get my hands on one of these Doen nightgown dresses when they arrive! More options along these lines here. And basically everything from HHH’s “farmer’s market” capsule. I absolutely adore this green provence floral trellis pattern — I got the shorts, the top, and the one-piece.

+Easy, romantic music floating in through the house. For this I created a soft summer playlist you can get on Apple here and on Spotify here.

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P.S. There’s still (a little) time to get your man or father a gift for father’s day — all my recs here. Also/unrelated: Sezane’s summer drop yesterday was so good. How gorgeous are these shorts and this classic striped dress?

P.P.S. What bonuses are waiting for us today?

P.P.P.S. An ode to the people who keep the lamps lit.

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Words grow thin on the ground today. They’ve all been sewn into my manuscript, or in the hundreds of drafts of the manuscript that live in the cloud and in the penumbra of thought that follows me everywhere, even into sleep. I have woken up dozens of times in the past many weeks with words tucked under my tongue like a prayer, just waiting to be sung on the page. And now those daybreak and high noon and midnight words exist in various phases of seed and bloom across my many versions. Versions of the book; versions of me, too.

What I mean is that I have been thick in the editing process, which is a destabilizing place to be. I have been thinking this week of a line from a Edna St. Vincent Millay poem: “I’m deep in the clay, where the digging is hard.” I’m mucking around with the roots of things. I’m weed-wacking. I’m looking over every leaf and tendril wearing different sizes and shapes of glasses. Candidly, I’m toggling between “this is great work, Jen” and “this is terrible, oh my God” — which I’ve heard is all very normal and natural before submitting a manuscript. I’m also doing hare-brained things like introducing new content to the mix at the eleventh hour. (Why am I this way?)

I must remind myself that this is life, you know? Nothing I’ve not done before. This is another murky middle. Unfinished business. Things incomplete; dangling modifiers. I’ve caught several sneaky, hardy typos in the last 24 hours despite reviewing every letter and mark at least one hundred times. I know these will be caught by the editing team, too, but I am being fastidious, over-precious. Like a first-time parent, maybe? Fussing over the hand mittens.

But anyway – we’re always editing, aren’t we? I’m in the midst of an underscored and capitalized version of it, but when are we not dealing with drafts? We’re always writing better versions of ourselves. We’re always thinking of clearer ways to self-express. Onward!

Sunday Shopping.

First, I had to share that a Magpie reader sent me the cutest thing this week! I mentioned these cool Framebridge frames that can frame absolutely anything (even objects!) and include a chic, custom engraved brass plate beneath, and a Magpie sent me this photo of the coasters she framed from her wedding reception in 2005! How FAB!? What a thoughtful anniversary gift.

framebridge framed coasters

A couple of other great finds from the week below, including my new Doen plaid blouse (you can see a little bit of it in the photo at the top of this post). The pattern makes me nostalgic for summers past? It’s very 80s Americana “The Great Outdoors”? It is featherweight and airy, in soft, lived-in cotton. Also comes in a cute dress format. This is part of Doen’s most recent (and fabulous) summer collection — one of their best IMO. All my picks here. I am waiting for these dreamy white nightgown-inspired pieces to become available. Fab for “nightgown summer!

summer shopping collage with doen plaid blouse, minnow swimsuit, and longchamp tote

MINNOW SWIMSUIT // OUTSET HYDRASHEER MINERAL SUNSCREEN // DOEN PLAID BLOUSE // CIELE RUNNING HAT // APL EUPHORIA SNEAKERS // LONGCHAMP TOTE // T3 CURLING IRON (USE CODE FLASH FOR 70% OFF) // UBEAUTY SUPER HYDRATOR FOR BODY // TAYLOR JENKINS REID’S ATMOSPHERE // SPLENDID SWEATER PANTS

Other notes:

+Minnow’s summer collection is also live and I’m in love with this pattern! Their swimwear is great for mom life — full coverage, but with cute/playful patterns. (What other swim brands do you like for mom life? Please share in the comments. I’m working on a post with all my favorites for this season of life but would love to learn more about yours. This one is a classic and staple for a reason — I always see a lot of women wearing it at the baby pool in the summer; it’s flattering and practical (no risk of spilling out of the top, no need to readjust!) and comes in great colors. What other ones do we love?)

+I have tried a ton of facial SPFs already this season and the two I keep coming back to are Beauty of Joseon (a Magpie reader rec — it’s from a Korean beauty company and it takes ages to arrive but is excellent) and Outset’s Hydrasheer. Both go on very sheer but stand up to the ultimate test: sweat from my morning runs.

+Speaking of sweaty runs: a update on my Brooks Glycerin Max shoes. I love them. A ton of cushion but still lightweight. I was initially a little overwhelmed by the heft of them — they are BOATS — and am used to a lower profile look, but they are great. I do find they need to be laced really tight (duh, probably all running shoes need to be) or it tampers with my gait. But I’ve never noticed that with a pair of running shoes before so not sure what that means. I am contemplating testing these APL Euphorias next — have heard great thing about this model and of course obsessed with the aesthetics. Other running note: these are sort of “marathon runner” coded, but I also wanted to share these cooling, wicking, anti-odor, and UPF packed running hats. I sent a link to one of my friends who is training to run up Mount Washington and needs a cool race day fit.

+These classic Longchamps caught my attention in vibrant blue and watermelon for summer treks and overnight trips. They are so nostalgic for me — they remind me of my college days and feel retro in a charming way to me. The backpacks, too! A fun and practical way to add color to your summer wardrobe. And all of them are 20% off!

+Speaking of deals: I bought myself this T3 curling iron while on flash sale this weekend (use code FLASH at checkout for $70 off). I had asked readers for their favorite curling irons and this one came up a ton.

+New Splendid obsession: these striped sweater pants. They really know how to create an elevated but casual pant for post-beach / hanging at home / that sliver of time between the work day and bed time. As you know, I also own and love these gauze pants and these eyelet pants. All of these pieces give me the best feeling of Nancy-Meyers-protagonist-pouring-herself-a-glass-of-rose-in-a-marble-kitchen-that-looks-out-onto-an-Amagansett-beach.

+Testing UBeauty’s super hydrator for body. I love their super hydrator for face — I always think about a Magpie reader who wrote in to say she applied this before her wedding makeup artist started to apply her makeup and was blown away by how well it moisturized and illuminated the skin. It almost acts like a primer, too — it leaves skin with the tiniest bit of stickiness (not in a bad way — I feel like it grips makeup well). Anyway, curious to see how the body hydrator stacks up! They are offering us 20% off sitewide, even for returning customers (something they rarely do) now through June 10 with code JENSHOOP. A great time to test a new lip plasma color for summer, too! Their lip plasmas come in such great shades and really plump and fill the lip!! Rose (pale petal pink) is my year-round favorite but I just pulled out Idol (sheer hot watermelon) for the season.

+Last but not least, I am currently reading too many books but I sort of stopped everything to dive into TJR’s latest release, which just launched this week! An epic romance! I plan to read by the pool this weekend. (All my top pool/beach read picks for the summer here.)