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What Are Your Friday Evening Plans (Or Rituals)?

By: Jen Shoop

What are you up to tonight? Do you have standing plans or routines you lean into every Friday? Are you a pizza-and-movie-on-Friday-night family? Do you go out to eat?

Landon and I typically prefer to keep Friday nights for the two of us, whether that means staying in and watching a movie or grabbing a bite to eat somewhere local (image above from a recent Friday night out at Aventino in Bethesda). If at all possible, we schedule group activities, dates, outings, dinners, etc for Saturday night instead. There is something about Friday night that calls for the lowkey, the unfussy, the intimate. I was therefore startled to learn that my daughter will have one of her sports practices every Friday from 5-6:15 p.m. this fall (!) Could there be a worse time? Lol. We will of course make do but I’ll admit I was a bit crestfallen about the prospect. Then I remembered a wise tenured mom friend of mine who has children older than my own. A few years ago, she told me: “Once they get into sports, your nights are no longer your own. You have to learn to be unselfish about it.” She was so clear-eyed about this surrender; I logged it away in admiration. And so I thought of her as I inwardly flagged at our upcoming Friday night routine and told myself: “be unselfish.”

Still, I’m quietly celebrating tonight (would never let on to my daughter about this!) because it’s the final Friday of zero plans until November. I’m hoping we mix up martinis and play a round of Wingspan before making our way into the kitchen, where I play sous-chef or just sit pretty and turn the records over on the turntable every now and then while Landon prepares us dinner. My daughter will be out (on her first sleepover ever! I was so reluctant to permit her to do this but she’s heading into fourth grade and we adore her best friend and their family and feel safe with it) so we’ll probably turn on a movie with my son and eat in front of the TV with him and then tuck ourselves into bed on the early side. If the weather gods can cue a good old fashioned August thunderstorm to add to the coziness, I’d be much obliged.

What about you? Plans? Rituals? Share!

Post-Scripts.

+The best movies for family movie night.

+The best book-based movies! And, my friends over at Lit Society shared a list of book-to-screen adaptations coming out this fall. Exciting!

+Movies that feel like a chocolate chip cookie.

+Three great cocktail recipes to try: Magpie Mai Tais, THE BEST Margs, and a cocktail for a mezcal skeptics.

Shopping Break.

+J. Crew’s new tiny rollneck is a fun twist on a classic! I ordered in the red stripe. It’s reminding me of the Hampton Staud sweater a bit — I like the idea of having something that nips in at / defines the waist with all these slouchy and loose fit pants we’re wearing this fall.

+Trending among Magpies: these dark rinse jeans. I ordered too! They come in petite.

+Obsessed with this jacket.

+Absolutely stunning dress for a fall special occasion. Those pockets are everything. Would look fab with Manolos.

+The accessory you need for fall is 25% off. I ordered pairs for both myself and Mr. Magpie!

+These are basically the only shorts I run in. The fit is elite, elite, elite. Ideal leg length/inseam, has a little zippered pocket, super comfortable, and somehow flattering. Therefore I don’t feel bad about ordering them in the new black color. Use code SHOOP20.

+Ogee is now available at Sephora! I’ve been curious about this brand since I saw one of the sculpting sticks on my friend Marion’s beauty counter at her home! I ordered the sculpting blush stick in topaz and pink diamond. I’m not really a contouring gal / pro but I’m going to play around with this. The colors are gorgeous! (They also have this blush / contour / highlighting trio available!)

+Fun fall blouse from Farm Rio.

+Loving these new corded charm necklaces and connection bracelets from Aurate! Use code JENSHOOP for 20% off.

+Barbour’s Anthro capsule is gorgeous! Love the idea of this jacket over a La Ligne crewneck with jeans. And how cute is this dog sweater?

+Treated myself to this in the stripe. It was calling my name for cozy Friday nights in.

+Leave it to Ann to make camo look polished. Love. Also love their iconic shirtdress in a new fall Liberty floral. Swoon!

+Don’t sleep on Alice Walk tees! SO SOFT — sort of a swingy, stretchy material in dreamy pima cotton.

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