I had a lot of positive feedback on my post last week sharing what I’d plan / ideally wear to various events over the course of a week — several of you said it’s helpful to have styling ideas, or even a direction for what to wear to what. Bringing this back this week to share a couple of specific outings and occasions I’m dressing for —
What to Wear: Back to School Night.

ALIGNE DENIM DRESS* // LA DOUBLE J FRINGED SCARF // AMANU SANDALS // LEE RADZIWILL BAG // MARCH HARE WATCH // MEGA EARRINGS
*Something about dark wash denim feels very “back to school” to me, and I like that this dress isn’t too stuffy or too playful — right down the middle. Other options if you prefer a longer hemline: this Tuckernuck, this Boden, this sleeveless Aligne, or this VB. Definitely reach for a darker wash for this venue.
To me, this outfit is the perfect blend of down-to-earth and polished with a little surprise trend in the form of that fringed scarf! I keep coming back to it. I wore a variation of this exact outfit for my son’s back to school night (see here), sans the epic fringed scarf, swapping in this style from Maison LeComte.
What to Wear: Parents’ Cocktail Party.

BLAZE MILANO JACKET // ULLA JOHNSON DRESS (VIBE FOR LESS HERE) // VERONICA BEARD BAG // SCAROSSO SUEDE HEEL
This is such a good time to wear something FUN that communicates personality!
What to Wear: Mom Coffee Gathering.

ALTUZARRA TOP // ANN TAYLOR JACKET // AGOLDE JEANS // MARGAUX FLATS // LIFFNER BAG
The top is $$$ but I can’t get over that gold buckle. So dramatic! Similar look without the hardware here. I also like this look with a poplin button-down like this ($59) or this — the latter is so fabulous! I wore it this week and was obsessed with the fact that the sleeves are pre-scrunched/pre-stitched to hold at your elbow, so you don’t need to keep rolling them up all day.
What to Wear: Evening Event.
Whether a wedding, a fundraiser, a philanthropy event — I am loving all of these gorgeous satin dresses from Staud in autumnal hues, like the gold number below, this chocolate brown, and this sand-hued vision. Reformation has a great look for less in a similar vein.

STAUD DRESS // DORSEY EARRINGS // MOVADO WATCH // SAVETTE CLUTCH // PRADA HEELS* // FINDING FERDINAND LIP BALM
I am transfixed by these Prada heels. Look for less here, here. I’ve always been such a fan of a pointed toe!
What to Wear: Field Trip Chaperone.

RAG + BONE BUTTON-DOWN (USE JEN20 FOR EXTRA 20% OFF) // J. CREW SWEATER // CITIZENS PANTS (MORE HERE; LOOK FOR LESS HERE) // RDV TOTE // TORY BURCH SNEAKERS
What to Wear: Football Game.
I’m imagining this more for a let’s-watch-a-game-on-TV situation because you’ll probably want to wear your college colors (i.e., this sweater!) and need a stadium-ready bag, but — this is a perfect outfit for looking chic and casual while staying warm.

STAUD CASHMERE SWEATER* (VIBE FOR LESS HERE) // MOTHER HALF PIPE JEANS // NICOLA BATHIE HEART PENDANT // LOEFFLER RANDALL BOAT SHOES (MORE HERE, LOOK FOR LESS HERE) // ME + EM WOOL BALLCAP // ZARA SUEDE SHOPPER
*I saw a mom wearing this sweater this week and I immediately added it to my lust list. It hits at the perfect height when you’re wearing a higher waist pair of jeans, or something with a barrel/bowed leg where you want to show your waist. This is a great look for less. Staud also has this sweater in less-expensive non cashmere variations, including this $110 option (on sale!).
What to Wear: Carpool.

RL HAT // VARLEY HALF-ZIP* // VARLEY WIDE LEGS // RDV TOTE // ROTHYS CLOGS // TO-GO SMOOTHIE CUP
*Old Navy released a great look for less for this set here: sweatshirt, sweatpant.
Any other events or recurring situations you’re shopping for? Leave a comment / send me a note and I’ll incorporate into the next volume!
P.S. How do you help your kids reset?
P.P.S. A great dish to feed a party (in case you’re hosting a football game viewing!)
P.P.P.S. If I had an extra hour in my day, I hope I’d treat it like birthday money.
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Thank you, truly, for this post. This is so helpful to someone like me. Especially with all of the back to school events coming up. Please keep them coming! Thank you!
Oh good! YAY!
My son & his partner are (finally!) getting married at the Santa Barbara Courthouse in November. They indicated semi-formal, with a dinner after. I’m looking for a simple dress that would work but not too expensive ($200 max?). Would love some ideas!
Congratulations!!! How exciting and romantic. I immediately thought of Quince’s silk dresses — maybe in the burgundy for the time of year?
https://goto.quince.com/qz33Xq
You can pair with suede and gold accessories.
A little more expensive but this J. Crew dress is stunning in the scarf print. You could probably wait a few weeks and see if they run a promo that marks it down:
https://go.shopmy.us/p-24617021
This is also absolutely gorgeous in the wine or navy colors:
https://go.shopmy.us/p-24617294
I’ll keep my eyes peeled for other options!
xx
We are headed to Copenhagen, and Belgium in November the week of Thanksgiving. I am in desperate need of a great coat probably one with a hood for rain and one when it is not. I love some of the Sezane Trenches but want to look chic and put together. Thanks so much,
Hi! How fab! I agree, the Sezane trenches are incredible. I’d vote for that; I feel like I’ve seen them dressed up over a cocktail dress OR dressed down over leggings and sneakers and both look incredible.
A few other options, some sportier and some dressier, but alllll chic:
https://go.shopmy.us/p-24617821
https://go.shopmy.us/p-24617944
https://go.shopmy.us/p-24617854
https://go.shopmy.us/p-24617932
https://go.shopmy.us/p-24617944
https://go.shopmy.us/p-24617995
https://go.shopmy.us/p-24618026
https://go.shopmy.us/p-24618046
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