I learned this week about the Japanese sekki, or solar terms — 24 of them in the calendar year. Micro-seasons, defined by anticipated shifts in the weather, and named accordingly. In spring: Risshun (start of spring); Usui (rain waters); Keichitsu (Going-out of the worms / insects awaken); Shunbun (Vernal equinox); Seimei (Clear and bright ); Koku (Rain for harvests / “grain rain”). Useful for planting and planning of all kinds, and an easier breadcrumb trail to follow between the months. The stretch of spring and the swoon of summer feel like too-large canvases by contrast. Or maybe it’s helpful to measure time in both ways. Sometimes when you are too close to the page, you miss its broader story. By contrast, if you are leaning too far back, you overlook the power of a well-placed comma.
Right now, we are in daikan (big cold). I am thinking of Magpie reader Venia, her stirring ode to winter in the comments here, her model of taking winter in her arms, holding it while she can. This, my recurring lesson, and woven into everything I touch: go easy, sink into this temporary moment. You know, I think sometimes about myself flailing against the inevitable. Worrying about my aging skin, steeling against the 14 degree temperature, anticipating grief and loss of different kinds. But what if we put a pin that, and we just sat with this day. All the energy frittered away in plotting and resisting the unknown recycled into a warm haze of “yes, this, right now.”
Unrelated, or perhaps it is related, but I’ve realized I have a happy corner on my daily route to drop off and pick up my daughter: it’s a downhill curve in the road, and the old trees hugging it are spectacular, especially in fall, but even in winter. They are enormous, pinning up the sky; avuncular in their sturdy perches. I drive that stretch and feel a surge of wellbeing so tiny and trivial that I will miss it if I’m preoccupied with the clock, or the music, or the ballast of my to-dos. It’s become my daily reminder, to be present there, at that bend. Like a little elbow: the faire attention flex.
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+Magpie favorite dining chairs in a new paprika red! Fun pop of color.
+Vintage-inspired heart fair isle (under $100).
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+For my son: NBs with the coolest laces, and a skiing sweatshirt for Olympics viewing.
+Brooks sneakers in a gorgeous spring lilac/pink.
+Gorgeous hand soap (the wrapping!!!) to stock in your powder bath / to give as a hostess gift.

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Wow, I’m so excited to read more about sekki. I’ve been thinking a lot about the state of wonder and how it feels like the intersection of presence + the world as it is right in the moment one is in. Softening into it and surrendering to the gift of what is. It feels like there is divinity in this. Accordingly, I’ve recently found the Ffern podcast — from the ledger-based UK fragrance house — and it feels in the spirit of this, too. Each episode is released on the first of the month. It’s a guide to nature, a luminous and exalting soundscape of what is happening almost day by day. Listening to it I feel a quieting of my own noise and a turning of my receptors to the far bigger things happening all around that I think might be telling me some primordial, sacred wisdom that eclipses my human concerns and lifetime. Listening to the January episode made my heart swell in gratitude for right now and as per what the treasures of winter offer: a time for hibernation that readies, nurtures, and bolsters for a whole year of living. It’s reassuring in a strange, mysterious way, too. Everything is as it’s meant to be.
As the Season Turns podcast: https://ffern.co/podcast
What an incredible podcast share, Aoife!!
Thank you, Aoife! Just put this on and already feel soothed. Great rec!!
xx