More a post-it note than a diary today, as I’d planned to spend a little square of yesterday writing about the week and instead spent that time in the emergency room with my daughter (she’s fine, and such a tough cookie — injured her ankle skiing and it’s currently in a splint), which is to say — being exactly where I needed to be.
Even while in a place I did not want to be, repeating those words to myself — you’re where you need to be — gave me the deepest sense of purpose and calm. My top-fleet tiny rescue boat. That, and of course the deep kindness and attentiveness of the medical staff (God bless them — geez, are they angels!; a special shout-out to a fellow mom in Emory’s class, a pediatric emergency physician, who permitted me to intrude on her Saturday by asking for advice!). And also my husband and son, who did vaudeville-style dancing to distract Emory, and even made the radiologist laugh.
While we were in the car on the way from the slope to the hospital, we looked back and noticed Emory was holding a “box breathing” toy that a friend of hers gave out for Valentine’s Day. It’s a little matchbox of sorts with a tiny toy inside, and on the back: instructions for box breathing tailored to a child. Later, while waiting for x-rays, I saw her squeezing her stress teddy bear toy. She’d packed both of these without my knowing in her Jansport, along with her favorite book, a Squishmallow, a notebook and pencil, etc. Her tiny, perfect packing list. I don’t know if I’ve ever been as prepared as my eight year old.
Anyhow, wishing you a legato morning and an uneventful weekend —
Can’t wait to unpack “Wuthering Heights” (the movie), which we saw on Friday —
Onward —
Oh no! ER is never fun. Glad to hear she is ok — what a resilient girl!
Thank you! Yes, she is a tough cookie!!! We are navigating school with a walker right now and heading to the orthopedist tomorrow for a conclusive diagnosis!!
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That is a tough day, good job momma. I’m glad she is ok!!
Thank you friend!! xx
Glad she’s okay!!! What a trooper!
A truly tough cookie! Thanks for the well wishes!!
Very glad to hear that all ended up so well!
Thank you friend! x
Jen thank you for being so honest. I myself spent the day being schelped between urgent care and ER and our plans for Valentine’s Day we canceled. Life reminding me to take care of myself first so that I can thrive.
Oh gosh I’m so sorry to hear – I definitely relate on plans going sideways but like your perspective on life reminding us to take care. Hope you are feeling better today —
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I’m so glad Emory is OK!! I hate the ER, especially when it’s not me. So much more anxiety!!
I am interested to hear your thoughts on “Wuthering Heights.” We saw it Friday, and hoo-boy, do I have thoughts!! Enjoy the rest of your weekend, doting on your precious invalid
Thank you friend! Definitely an anxious place for me, too. Glad we’re out of there…
PLEASE spill thoughts on the movie! I really enjoyed it. I thought — with exception of the sex — it stayed remarkably true to the novel, especially in the character portraiture. I’ve seen some headlines about how Fennell “changed the villain of the book” to be Nelly. I’m not sure about that. I think the movie was more nuanced than that headline implies. Like the book, it’s all messy and full of unredeemed and unchanging characters — like does a single character learn a single thing in the entire book/movie?! There is no development. I loved Elordi as Heathcliff — handled capably (and so hot!) — and thought the cinematography, set, costumes, MUSIC just a total feast for the senses. I don’t care if it’s basic, give me a broad pan-out of Heathcliff and Cathy making out beneath enormous rocks in a misty heath any day of the week!!!
OK, so you can tell I loved it and I’m sending you didn’t — PLEASE share thoughts!
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Glad to hear that Emory is okay. Taking a child to the ER is nerve-wracking to say the least and I’m impressed by her packing and L & H’s dance moves to distract her. Hopefully the rest of your wekend.
Thank you Melissa!!! xx