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The Magpie Diary: Feb. 15, 2026.

By: Jen Shoop

More a post-it note than a diary today, as I’d planned to spend a little square of yesterday writing about the week and instead spent that time in the emergency room with my daughter (she’s fine, and such a tough cookie — injured her ankle skiing and it’s currently in a splint), which is to say — being exactly where I needed to be.

Even while in a place I did not want to be, repeating those words to myself — you’re where you need to be — gave me the deepest sense of purpose and calm. My top-fleet tiny rescue boat. That, and of course the deep kindness and attentiveness of the medical staff (God bless them — geez, are they angels!; a special shout-out to a fellow mom in Emory’s class, a pediatric emergency physician, who permitted me to intrude on her Saturday by asking for advice!). And also my husband and son, who did vaudeville-style dancing to distract Emory, and even made the radiologist laugh.

While we were in the car on the way from the slope to the hospital, we looked back and noticed Emory was holding a “box breathing” toy that a friend of hers gave out for Valentine’s Day. It’s a little matchbox of sorts with a tiny toy inside, and on the back: instructions for box breathing tailored to a child. Later, while waiting for x-rays, I saw her squeezing her stress teddy bear toy. She’d packed both of these without my knowing in her Jansport, along with her favorite book, a Squishmallow, a notebook and pencil, etc. Her tiny, perfect packing list. I don’t know if I’ve ever been as prepared as my eight year old.

Anyhow, wishing you a legato morning and an uneventful weekend —

Can’t wait to unpack “Wuthering Heights” (the movie), which we saw on Friday —

Onward —

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Mia G.
Mia G.
1 month ago

Oh no! ER is never fun. Glad to hear she is ok — what a resilient girl!

Claire
Claire
1 month ago

That is a tough day, good job momma. I’m glad she is ok!!

Kelly
Kelly
1 month ago

Glad she’s okay!!! What a trooper!

Ann
Ann
1 month ago

Very glad to hear that all ended up so well!

Michelle
Michelle
1 month ago

Jen thank you for being so honest. I myself spent the day being schelped between urgent care and ER and our plans for Valentine’s Day we canceled. Life reminding me to take care of myself first so that I can thrive.

Chrissy J
Chrissy J
1 month ago

I’m so glad Emory is OK!! I hate the ER, especially when it’s not me. So much more anxiety!!
I am interested to hear your thoughts on “Wuthering Heights.” We saw it Friday, and hoo-boy, do I have thoughts!! Enjoy the rest of your weekend, doting on your precious invalid

Melissa
Melissa
1 month ago

Glad to hear that Emory is okay. Taking a child to the ER is nerve-wracking to say the least and I’m impressed by her packing and L & H’s dance moves to distract her. Hopefully the rest of your wekend.

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