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GLOBAL ENTRY APPOINTMENT AND DAY DATE WITH LANDON: G LABEL DRESS (OLD, SIMILAR HERE) // DOLCE VITA SANDALS // KILTE CARDIGAN // ALTUZARRA TOTE // MARCH HARE WATCH (20% OFF WITH MAGPIE20)

WORK/MOM LIFE/ERRANDS: VERONICA BEARD BLAZER // AYR JEANS // SOLD OUT NYC TANK (15% OFF WITH JEN15) // PARKER THATCH BAG // MARCH HARE WATCH (20% OFF WITH MAGPIE20) // CHANEL FLATS (SIMILAR HERE, LOOK FOR LESS HERE)

EVERYDAY LIVIN: DOEN SEBASTIANE SKIRT // SOLD OUT NYC TEE (15% OFF WITH JEN15) // QUINCE SWEATER // MARGAUX FLATS

DINNER PARTY AT HOME: ALIX OF BOHEMIA DRESS (10% OFF WITH JEN-10) // DORSEY HEART ID NECKLACE

HANGING WITH MY SIS: JULIA AMORY PANTS (15% OFF WITH JEN-15) // COS TEE // QUINCE SWEATER // DORSEY HEART ID NECKLACE

EVERYDAY LIFE: CITIZENS OF HUMANITY CHARLOTTE CROPS // MARGAUX FLATS // VERONICA BEARD GOODY BAG // VERONICA BEARD MABEL BLAZER // TUCKERNUCK POLO

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Q: Hi Jen hope you’re well! I am seeing camel and red for fall. Can you help me find cardigan/ shirt styles that hit the mark? Especially looking for a modern camel cardigan for dresses and jeans.

A: Hi! Obsessed with a red cardigan. Pops of red are calling to me today; see Cassandra deliver the look with aplomb here. A few options I like that feel fresh: Sezane’s Emile, BA&SH’s Gaspard, J. Crew’s cashmere pointelle (pointelle is trending again, as it was last season), Gap’s Khaite-esque pocket cardigan. I also love the cropped proportions of this more traditional cashmere cardi paired with on-trend denim.

For camel/taupe – Jenni Kayne’s Cooper and this cardi-jacket hybrid.

Q: Turtlenecks for fall.

A: I’ve been seeing a lot of these cute pointelle ones this season — love this Doen and this Tuckernuck. I also just bought these in navy and white and might go back for the black. $15/pop!

Q: A tan suede shirt or oversized shirt style jacket that works for petites.

A: I’m thinking about this, too, after seeing M.G. in one. I like Sezane’s offerings in this category ATM — this, this. For a splurge: Toteme. Make sure you keep the other components of your outfit slim/trim or the silhouette will eat you up as a petite. I’m personally daydreaming about interpreting this trend in the form of a cropped suede jacket — splurge: VB; more reasonable: Talbots or Mango; budget: Nordstrom.

Q: Best postpartum PJs/robes/clothes for October.

A: I think we’ve all collectively established that Lake Pajamas are a big RWI (regrettably worth it) situation. So soft, and lots of dedicated nursing options available, but you could also get one or two of their dreamy-soft kimono sets and keep for post-nursing days. I say buy a few pairs of those as a treat for yourself. If you’re more of a boho lass, try the nightgown options from Doen and If Only If. Layer beneath a big oversized cozy cardigan and imagine yourself living in some beautiful English cottage on a heath with wildflowers in the backyard and a baby in a little straw cot.

Q: A light layer to wear over formal/cocktail wear. Prefer a coat but open to sweaters.

A: This is always a tricky one. I hunted for a coat but really couldn’t find anything I liked with the exception of this Cinq a Sept, but I think it might only work for more of a cocktail attire situation — feels too dressed-down for a formal gown. Will keep my eyes out for options. I love these cashmere wraps from Alice Walk for more formal affairs. Another option would be one of those short-sleeved sweaters I’ve been eyeing — the luxe version from Khaite or the more reasonable one from Doen. I styled a dressy look with one of these sweaters here.

Q: Fall jacket that’s good for rain.

A: Love Everlane’s new anorak and Stutterheim’s Moseback. I’d been eyeing the latter for years and finally bought one while on sale! If you want something less explicitly “rain jacket,” try a classic trench. For something in between, a timeless Barbour! Go up a size in the latter – I think they look better really boxy, as if you’ve borrowed from your husband. Mango has a solid look for less.

Q: Autumn wedding in Chicago. Sleeves and under $300 would be perfect.

A: I love this (the contrast green sash!) and this!

Q: A dress to wear to a black tie wedding on NYE in London. Ideally under $500.

A: This Cinq A Sept, this Anna October, or this Black Halo!

Q: Small round or rectangular lady watch under $1K.

A: I feel like a broken record, but March Hare! I have the double wrap style, but others are available. Under $500 but Cartier vibes. Use code MAGPIE20 for 20% off. Alternately, TRR often has great pre-loved Hermes styles, like this or this. (You can always replace the strap!)

Q: Inexpensive, slim fit jogger sweats for little boys. No logos.

A: I wouldn’t call them inexpensive, but you can sometimes get these J. Crew Factory ones on super sale. My son has a few pairs of them. These might also fit the bill, but can’t speak to quality!

Q: Wide leg jeans for tall girls.

A: Agolde Dames! (Note model is 5’9 and wearing heels.)

Q: Mary Janes built for city walking.

A: Go with Loeffler Randall. Supremely comfortable and wonderfully made.

Q: Durable fall tote.

A: Try Rue De Verneuil. Lots of fun fall options, and are constructed in durable canvas. Love this tweedy one.

Q: Patterned fall maxi skirt.

A: Mille has some chic patterned options, and I love the ones from Parterre and Cara Cara, too. All of them would be so chic with a suede brown boot! Different color profile, but also adore this black gingham from Doen.

Q: Large catch all purse to go with carry on for plane.

A: I like the idea of a RDV — has structure and slides right under seat so you can easily grab what you need. I also have to say that the Dagne Dover Landon tote is a great travel day bag. It counts as a personal item but holds a lot and fits under seat, has an interior sleeve/pocket for your laptop, and has the zippered top, which is handy.

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A smattering of launches, new arrivals, and right now discoveries —

01. I’ve been a longtime fan of female-run small clothing brand Mille, and I absolutely adore their latest collection — especially the items in this fabulous paisley/bandana-inspired pattern. I have this top on its way to me. Their editorial photography for this collection was absolutely jaw-dropping (seen below). You can get 15% off sitewide with code JEN15. Also adore this sweater!

02. A week or two ago, I mentioned that Free People Movement had partnered with On to release two ultra-fun sneakers. I managed to get my hands on a pair of the Cloudmonsters from the collection before they sold out and I love them (the Cloudnovas are still in stock!). I’ve been using them for my speed-walks around the neighborhood (often in the company of a good girlfriend). Every detail sparks such joy — the colors, the floral liner on the interior! — and of course they are built for comfort. Grab a pair of the Cloudnovas before they sell out, too! Great way to motivate yourself to get out there for a short walk in the mornings as the temperatures begin to drop.

03. Freda Salvador released its second fall drop yesterday morning. You know my (effusive) thoughts on their chic suede loafers, now available in a gorgeous dark chocolate, but these cobalt ballet flats also turned my head after I spotted the color via footage of a couple of early fall fashion week shows, including Proenza Schouler. Fun alternative to red as a highlight color. Meanwhile, these intrecciato boots are nearly sold out! Great statement for fall. (Reminder that MAGPIE15 gets you 15% off your first order at FS.)

04. I saw Donni’s new cropped silk athleisure pants last week and immediately thought, “The Adidas pants that were my entire personality in 1998 have grown up!” So fun for school drop off / at-home lounge / probably could be dressed up in interesting ways I’ve not yet considered — saw them on Arielle (below) this week and loved the way she styled them. Donni also just released a great white tee and sent me one to test. It’s featherweight and ultra-soft, with a casual, lived-in, 90s vibe to me.

05. I’ve been testing RMS Beauty’s new SPF-spiked skin tint and it is wonderful. You apply like foundation but it wears like skin (and offers sun protection). Very impressed. They say you can apply with your fingers but I found the consistency easier to blend with a brush. Offers a surprising amount of coverage for this type of product. (Jen20 gets you 20% off.)

06. Our favorite children’s brand Minnow just launched a bunch of great knits for fall. One of my favorite outfits my son had last fall was this sweater paired with these knit pants. I got my daughter one of these striped cardis (in navy/cream) this summer and much to my surprise she has worn it constantly. It is the cutest thing – she dresses just like a little me! Her go-to summer uniform has been jean shorts, a white tank top, her Minnow sweater, and a pair of rose gold Birkenstocks.

07. OMG this Toteme bag just dropped (or I just discovered it) and I’m swooning. Toteme bags aren’t inexpensive, but they look like they should cost 3-4x their price IMO. Love every detail about this bag.

08. Just ordered these $15 turtlenecks in white and navy. (Should I have also gotten the black, I wonder aloud?) Sometimes it is so hard to find a simple, slim-fit knit like this. I have this one black turtleneck I bought from Gap over a decade ago that is basically the only one I ever want to wear. It is thin, stretchy, fitted, and I’m devastated that it finally seems to be on its last legs. Sometimes the inexpensive basics can be hard to find!

P.S. A friend of mine just texted me and said that when she was searching for book reviews of Barbara Kingsolver’s Demon Copperhead, mine was the top search result! What?! I’m blown away! Next book review I’m working on: Liz Moore’s God of the Woods, which I loved.

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At some point over the past year, social media mega-influencer Tinx shared the concept of “the best beer.” She wasn’t talking about brand or style, but context — I think the first example she gave was: “the best beer is the first beer you have with your friends when you are getting ready to go out.” I mentioned this to Mr. Magpie, and he said two “best beers” are 1) after a hot day of manual labor — e.g., moving boxes or doing yard work, and 2) just after he’s showered off a beach day.

I love the concept and wanted to ask for your input on…

01) What is the best book?

02) What is the best bed?

03) What is the best meal?

04) What is the best outfit?

The best book is the one I put myself to bed early to read. I’m talking 8 p.m., favorite pajamas on, fully reclined and ready for a solid two hours of reading. Recently, this was God of the Woods for me. NPR’s Maureen Corrigan captured it well when reviewing GOTW: “I was so thoroughly submerged in a rich fictional world, that for hours I barely came up for air.” The other book that springs to mind on this front is Liane Moriarty’s What Alice Forgot. The way I tore through that book! I could not put it down. My answers to this prompt surprised me because I intuitively thought about the most delicious reading experiences versus criteria for the text itself (e.g., I wasn’t evaluating based on most literary, most meaningful, most artful).

The best bed is my own, currently, because as I age, I become more and more persnickety about being able to sleep well anywhere else. But a close second: my childhood bed when I was home from college. There was, simply, nothing like it after the disruptions of communal college living and sleeping on cheap mattresses with scratchy sheets. I loved the familiar sounds, the specific lay of light in the morning, the clang of the radiator, the crystal doorknob handle I’d open in the middle of the night to pee. (The home I grew up in was built in 1920.)

The best meal is the one shared with best friends — the kind that leaves us lingering around the table with the candles burning low as we fare la scarpetta and pour an extra glass of wine. Could be takeout pizza, could be an elaborate feast Mr. Magpie has dreamt up. The company is the crux.

The best outfit. My mind ran in two separate directions for this one. On the one hand, I thought about outfits that make me feel empowered and pulled-together — an on-trend pair of jeans and a great blazer; a killer dress (this Rixo recently made me feel like a million bucks). On the other hand, I thought about the clothes I put on after a long day. I’m thinking specifically of the day you’ve moved apartments, or after a long road trip, a grueling exam, or even a fun but full day at the beach, theme park, etc. I love the sensory experience of showering to wash the day off and then climbing into soft clothes. The Alice Walk gauze pants and a tank top were it for me this summer — the thing I wanted to wear after swimming in the Lake, hiking in Aspen, sweating at the pool, chasing the kids. (So N.B., make sure you pack a “post long day outfit” next time you’re on vacation.)

What about you? Any thoughts on the best beer, the best book, the best bed, the best meal, the best outfit? Please share!

Post-Scripts.

+How do you handle skincare while traveling?

+My Grub Street style food diary.

+The whole sky is yours.

Shopping Break.

+Gap has come out with a chic barrel style pair of jeans for under $80, in case you skipped the Madewells. (BTW, I’m still waiting for mine to arrive?! Will style when they get here!)

+Love Everlane’s new wear-with-anything anorak. It has a fashion-consciousness to it. Also liking the look of their new off-duty sweats and hoodies, and I’m always a sucker for a knit polo sweater. Love the neckline.

+A very chic knit dress. You could wear now with sandals, or pair with a little cropped jacket and suede boots in the fall.

+If you’re after a pop of color this fall, red is the obvious answer but also I’ve been seeing a lot of cornflower blue? Love this little Ann Mashburn bag in the hue.

+Dreaming of this coat. Look for less with this or this.

+Soccer Saturday moms: one of the parents on my daughter’s team had one of these collapsible sideline benches. It was so thoughtful of her to bring — the kids not playing could sit there while waiting. (This would be good if you’re sitting there for multiple games!). And this is what I’d wear.

+Boss lady dress. Love it in the chocolate brown.

+This chic polo-style striped sweater from Tuckernuck is on sale. Great with jeans.

+I couldn’t get my hands on a pair of the Duntons (hoping they restock…) but ordered the similar Isadoras.

+ChappyWrap has some really cute limited edition fall patterns out. Love this one.

+Old Navy just released a cute quilted barn jacket.

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CARDIGAN // JEANS // NICE COAT // FLATS // DOEN DRESS // SKIRT

A few Magpies have asked for something along the lines of a fall capsule wardrobe. I’ve never dressed this way, or approached my closet in this way, but the prompt was interesting as it forced me to pick “just one” across a range of different product categories, and to think about how they’d play with other items. I found this a rewarding exercise in that I am wearing more separates now than I ever have in my entire life. I can’t tell if this is age, current trends, present lifestyle? But I find myself wearing a lot more tops and bottoms that I mix and match. Below, my take on a capsule wardrobe. I’ve tried to include looks for less in the headnotes.

Knitwear: I like a thinner weight knit (especially love the sexiness of a henley or polo sweater) to tuck into pants/jeans/skirts, a cardigan that can go over everything (also love my G Label Noah for this; neutral vibe for less with this), and a big chunky stripe (look for less).

Denim: Barrel and gaucho jeans are having a moment, and I love the fit of this pair from Mother. A little more approachable than some of the more dramatic styles. Madewell and Gap also have great options for less. A pair of classic fit straight-leg jeans will always have a place in a wardrobe — and are also necessary for tucking into tall boots, if you’re in the mood. These Totemes have a great dark wash, but you can’t beat Levi 501s in this department. Wide legs are also trending this season. You could go with the Agolde Dames for an of-the-moment, buzzed-about pair, or try these SLVRLAKES in an on-trend brown/taupe wash. Finally, utility (almost cargo-style) jeans in brown are at the top of my lust list at the moment. Ulla has a pair people are raving about, and these La Ligne Duntons keep selling out!

Outerwear: A dressy wool coat that can be worn for day or night; this CO is beyond. Get the look for less with this Aritzia. Barn coats are the casual style du jour; this Doen is perfect. Get the look for less with this Velvet, this Everlane, or Old Navy. Finally, a blazer (vibe for less with this) is perfect with jeans or a dark wash denim skirt.

Shoes, part I: A great pair of flats to wear with everything. These Tuckernucks have been a best seller among Magpies this week; they are giving Loro Piana, or Le Monde Beryl, but under $200. And when it comes to fall sneakers, consider these chic and unexpected Hogans. I’ve not seen them worn anywhere but they look high end and different and come in great colors. (Also like these VBs and these Dolce Vitas.)

KNITS: J. CREW POLO SWEATER // JENNI KAYNE COOPER CARDIGAN // LA LIGNE MARIN SWEATER

DENIM: MOTHER HALF PIPES // TOTEME STRAIGHT LEGS // SLVRLAKE GRACE WIDE LEGS // LA LIGNE DUNTONS

OUTERWEAR: CO DOUBLE WRAP COAT // DOEN BARN COAT // VERONICA BEARD BLAZER

SHOES, PART I: HOGAN SNEAKERS // TUCKERNUCK FLATS

Shoes, part II: I’d pick up a pair of ankle or mid-shaft boots as well as tall boots. I did a full roundup of my favorite fall boot picks here, but the ones seen below are J. Crew and Reformation. Then we need some great loafers. I own and love these Freda Salvadors; all the it girls are wearing Jamie Haller, if you can get your hands on a pair.

Dresses: A casual (love this popover stripe; look for less with this or this); something that could be more casual beneath a cardigan and more dressy with heels, like this Doen; and something formal, like this Norma Kamali (under $300!!)

Tops: Especially in the fall, I love a cozy cotton base layer. These Leset pointelles are fabulous — I own multiple. I also love a striped tee, like this chocolate Gap, and henleys have been a favorite for years. The one shown below is also Gap, but an upgrade pick: this VB. For fall, a white button-down is a staple. I love the one I have from Sold Out; Frank and Eileen has a more casual take, and Gap’s are a solid sub.

Jewelry: A lab-grown diamond riviere to dress up or down; chunky gold earrings, and these go-with-everything leverbacks I wear constantly.

SHOES, PART II: J. CREW ANKLE BOOTS // REFORMATION REMY TALL BOOTS // JAMIE HALLER LOAFERS // ZARA SATIN HEELS

DRESSES: DOEN // G LABEL // NORMA KAMALI

TOPS: LESET POINTELLE TEE // GAP STRIPED TEE // GAP HENLEY // FRANK AND EILEEN BUTTON DOWN

JEWELRY: DORSEY RIVIERE NECKLACE // MEJURI DOME EARRINGS // DORSEY LUCIEN EARRINGS

Skirts: I am loving a denim midi or maxi skirt. This VB is such a good get while on super discount, but sizing is limited. You might also consider this Philosophy or this Gap. Also obsessed with slip skirts for the season. This Vince is the perfect color; Quince also does a great look for less.

Accessories: A great leather watch. I love my March Hare! And a belt with interesting hardware. I own and love this Aureum, and am also intrigued by new-to-me label Dehanche. Look for less pick: Madewell.

Athleisure: You know my (effusive) thoughts on Frank and Eileen. This navy set is particularly chic, and you can wear the top with jeans easily for a polished look. (But I’ve even worn these sweats with Chanel flats — it works!) Everlane has a cool navy set worth considering for something with a little less structure — pants here, sweatshirt here. I’ve also been finding myself drawn to the look of a plain gray sweatshirt layered beneath a trench or wool coat, paired with dark wash denim and/or skirts! This Gap is simple and chic; upgrade pick: Jamie Haller.

Handbags: A big tote to carry everything (look for less with this or this). A more casual tote for everyday schlepping. A little bag that can be dressed up or down.

SKIRTS: VERONICA BEARD // VINCE

ACCESSORIES: MARCH HARE WATCH // AUREUM BELT

ATHLEISURE: FRANK & EILEEN SET // GAP SWEATSHIRT

HANDBAGS: TOTEME // RUE DE VERNEUIL // LITTLE LIFFNER

These pieces go together in infinity ways, but a few top of mind looks:

P.S. The above photo is from my time in NYC. I published a photo diary documenting a few of my 200 runs through Central Park during that time. I always loved running Jackie O. in autumn.

P.P.S. On falling in love with language.

P.P.P.S. On main characters and supporting actresses.

In a recent guest post on Cup of Jo, freelance writer Abby Mallet said: “I feel like relationships are 80% routine things.” It was a throwaway comment, sandwiched between tender and sweet examples of how she and her spouse care for one another, but it made me think. What is a relationship made of? More specifically, what is a marriage made of?

Marriage is —

leaving the light on, in ways literal and figurative

correctly anticipating what your husband will say but letting him say it anyway

sometimes being wrong about what you anticipate your husband will say, and finding joy in realizing he can still surprise you

exchanging knowing looks

indulging in hours-long debriefs after social gatherings

shouldering life’s burdens together, and letting him carry more than you, and vice versa, when needed

collaborating on the same, routine airing of grievances over small things you hate, like the Whole Foods parking lot on River Road, the left hand turn out of your children’s school, and imprecise invitations (nothing more stress-inducing than: “are you guys around next weekend?” — what is the invitation?!)

calling your husband, saying nothing, and having him know immediately how to calm you down

fighting over the getting the Christmas tree into its stand and hanging art on the walls

carrying Benadryl around in your purse because he is allergic to cats but would never carry it himself

faux sparring about the way he presses his feet onto your legs at bedtime, knowing that one day you will give anything for his feet against your legs

assuming the best of intentions

making gasping noises and grabbing the handle of your door while he is driving

crying without inhibition, and having him comfort you without question

not answering your phone when he is running an errand for you, and then receiving snarky comments about it for the next week

being his loudest cheerleader, in any venue, with or without him present

making hard decisions, but not by yourself

asking how he played golf, and what’s growing in his garden, and who won the game even if it goes in one ear and out the other

finding idiosyncratic things about him undescribably, irrationally attractive — the way he looks after mowing the lawn, the way he holds his beer between his fingers, the wide stance he takes when in conversation

holding hands and then not holding hands across the car console in wordless agreement as to when to start and stop

It is also

an unending conversation with my best friend

radical acceptance

a way to see, and be, the best version of myself

the most fun I’ve ever had

bigger than the sum of us

the point — as in, isn’t love always the point?

Post-Scripts.

+That time Mr. Magpie handed me an envelope containing the universe.

+Love is also, sometimes, a big salad.

+When my sister married her wife, and we watched via Zoom.

+The thrill of the chase — the early days of my relationship with Mr. Magpie at UVA.

+Mr. Magpie’s Jeep was a part of his early appeal — “his foil and ferry.”

Shopping Break.

+Chic wide leg cords to pair with those brown suede boots.

+Just added this striped popover dress to my fall wardrobe. I know I’ll get so, so much wear out of it. I can’t wait to style with my FS loafers. You can get the look for less (on the dress) with this or this.

DRESS (LOOK FOR LESS HERE, HERE) // LA LIGNE SWEATER // EARRINGS // BAG // LOAFERS

+If you’re looking for fall sneaks that aren’t Adidas, Golden Goose, Veja — consider these Hogans, these Dolce Vitas, and these Veronica Beards. Brown is it!!

ONE // TWO // THREE

+Emily Ley just offered to send me one of their day planners for 2025 (just released)! I have actually used these in the past and really liked them, but they are bulky/heavy and therefore didn’t work well when I was in NYC and sort of perching wherever I could (including in various co-working spots and coffee shops) to get work done. Nowadays, I keep my planner at my deskside in my studio, so think it will be a better fit. Like my cheap Amazon planner, it has ample space to create a to-do list against each calendar day, but it also has an hour by hour section — which I often find myself doodling onto notepads as I am trying to figure out how to get everything done before 3 p.m. pickup. I can’t wait to use! I also picked out this gorgeous linen notebook (gridded!). Their acrylic wall calendar also looks like a brilliant solution for keeping the family organized.

+Reminder that these are the best inexpensive sleeping pillows. We use throughout our home! Just bought a few more sets for my son’s “big boy bed.”

+CUTE transitional swing-style trench coat.

+So specific, but these are my favorite gen-z-approved athletic socks. Also really specific: if clean, I will wear this tank to run / exercise / etc. It’s featherweight and the fit is perfect.

+Ordered this cheap set of machine-washable cutlery for the kids’ lunches. I feel like I need a new box each season.

+This suede dress is so good!

+Megan Stokes recommended this game — I think I will order!

+I own this bag in a past-season orange croc trim — she is a perfect everyday bag that transitions from summer to fall. The shape and size is perfect for everyday wear.

+Very drawn to PB’s new Aptos line. Love this side table and this bed. The shape and wash feel so fresh to me.

+Fun signature scarf for fall/winter.

Last week, I was chatting with a girlfriend who was wading through those distinct uncertainties of the early and mid-30s. Might she and her husband try for another child? Would they eventually move closer to home? If so, when, and how would that impact their careers?

I throttled back to the wishy-washiness of that period for myself and Mr. Magpie, and the way moving back to the D.C. area didn’t feel right, and it didn’t feel right, and it didn’t feel right–until, suddenly, it did. Clouds cleared; we could read the weather in the window.

I shared this with her, assuring her that the right answers would come at the right time, but that it would take a lot of late night “should we…?” and “what would it look like if…?” conversations and incalculable math. And that these equivocations were simply part of the process. What feels like indecision is in fact the decision-making process. We blow hot, we blow cold, and then the wind turns and takes us back to square one — and all of it, even the recursions, become the way forward. We are the needle on the compass, oscillating before magnetized. I added that most of my friends have gone through this — perhaps these questions are table stakes for “the quarterlife roam”? She took this on board, but bemoaned the way it can feel as though you are living in limbo while in that period of “will we, won’t we, when?” And so why couldn’t they just agree to a plan and be done with the hand-wringing?

This made me think.

Something interesting has happened since we moved back to DC. I didn’t realize what it was until I asked a slightly older friend how he’d felt about turning 40, and what changed for him. He replied: “Well, you know you’re living on the back nine, and that shapes things.” I think that’s how 40 feels, and that’s how moving home to DC has felt, too: that I’ve made it around a bend. We know with a fair level of confidence we will not move again; we are done having children; we hope to make our current home our forever home. Of course, who knows. Life can take us to strange and beautiful places. A single phone call can rearrange a decade; a windfall at work can uproot us. But there is something decidedly settled about my current life. I look back at the vacillations of my 30s and think: “But my life was happening to me then, too.” I was not in the ante-room. Even as I focused on the next act, I was on the main stage. Nowadays it is much easier to realize that, to see that every day is the central attraction, even without much going on. Over the weekend, I read a quote from personal coach Emma Rose Tait: “You don’t always have to try so hard to live each day to the fullest. Each day is full all on its own. All you have to do is notice.”

All you have to do is notice.

Easier said than done, of course, when half of your head consists of meaty life questions with enormous logistical implications on the line. But noticing can be a counterbalance to the sensation of adriftness. What is good today? What does my life feel like today? What are the sounds that soothe, the normalcies that make life look lived-in at the seams right here and right now? For me, this has looked like the shape of our neighbors on their nightly walk, the sound of Mr. Magpie making coffee in the morning, the call of the cardinals in the arbor vitae, the way my children sing their youth as the ask, milk mustaches and all, “How do you spell chocolate?” and “Can you play this with me?” Let me point my arrow there for now.

Post Scripts.

+More on our decision to move back to D.C.

+How do you make a big life decision?

+If you’re looking for encouragement to take a big leap in life, take it from my Dad: “You’re gonna love it.”

Shopping Break.

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+I’m obsessed with these Zara pants. Obsessed! Pair with a crisp white button-down — you know how I feel about this one! The best. (And 15% off with JEN15).

+J. Crew entered the chat with their take on the must-have chocolate brown suede tote (under $200!). Upgrade pick: Little Liffner.

+I always get questions about my planner — this is it! Under $20 and she keeps my entire life in order.

+Dying to try Westman’s new concealer after a few of you mentioned it on Friday!

+A great red sweater. I’ve been contemplating buying this after seeing Cassandra style a LWD with a red sweater earlier this week. (Another option: this Sezane.) BTW, I’m not sure if her jellies are The Row or Amazon!

+Love this headband in the topaz color.

+Have my eye on these cashmere track pants

+LOVE this new dress from J. Crew. I’ve been noticing a paisley micro trend and loving it.

+Another microtrend I’ve been reading a lot about: bag charms. I love these fruit-shaped ones from Maison de Sabre!

+This under-$100 cord maxi skirt would be so chic with a striped knit and suede boot.

+This bag is GORGEOUS and nails so many of the ambient trends at the moment: suede, gold hardware, an east-west shape!

+Lots of great new fall finds here.

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JENNI KAYNE COOPER CARDIGAN // AURATE NECKLACE // HUNTING SEASON CLUTCH // PISTOLA JEANS // FREDA SALVADOR FLATS // GOOP COLORBLUR CHEEK TINT // SOLDOUT NYC TEE

Woke up early this morning and found myself with a bunch of open sale shopping tabs…

01. Jenni Kayne is offering 20% off sitewide. I keep coming back to the best-selling Cooper cardigan. I do have my Goop Noah (which I adore), but I like the way this one could serve as a hybrid between cardi and jacket, and love the structure…I also love these striped Chloe sweaters, of course.

02. 20% off at Pistola. I have several pairs of jeans/pants from this brand that are exceptional — rival designer pairs I own — but are much less expensive, especially with the promotion. (I specifically like the Pennies. Great amount of stretch.) There’s been some buzz about these Lexi jeans — a great compromise between an actual barrel / gaucho style and a more traditional straight leg. I find this brand runs TTS.

03. Frank & Eileen denim shirtdress. I own the longer-length version (called the Rory) in two colors and they are the best for putzing around and doing everyday things. Soft denim (not stiff) and the style gives off this aura I love — something a mindful gardener might wear before sitting to read a novel on her back porch.

04. My favorite t-shirts, on sale in must-have navy and gray.

05. A great everyday flat in that on-trend intrecciato weave.

06. Classic cotton-rollneck sweaters for around $50. Love all the color options.

07. I mentioned over the weekend that Goop is offering 25% off many of its best beauty products (don’t miss the exfoliant!), but somehow missed that this included my absolute favorite cream blush. I wear the shade Afterglow 90% of the time. It gives the prettiest flush, especially if you have fairer skin like I do. I also love the Merit flush balms but will say Goop’s formula lasts longer. (You can read all my Goop beauty reviews here!)

08. This AYR striped tee! I wish they still made their French Fry tee — they have the BEST slouchy striped t-shirts — and this one is calling my name.

09. An extra 20% off this already-discounted Hunting Season clutch. The brown and black stripes are SO practical – wear with either color in your wardrobe this fall. Love her.

10. 30% off this beautiful Aurate “Connection” necklace. I gifted this to my SIL over the summer — I loved its simplicity and of course message that we are connected even though she lives in Norway!

P.S. What’s the first job each morning?

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Image above via Paris Texas. Ssense has a great collection of their boots on super sale.

It’s all about the chocolate brown boot (and I’m specifically interested in the chocolate brown suede boot) with a shaped or pointed toe for fall — we’re collectively moving away from the Western boot that’s been trending for a long while. You can still wear them (always, wear what you love!), but I’m into the new more refined styles popping up this season.

A few options I’m swooning over, at different price points:

01. These from Paris Texas (on sale in taupe here). Please permit me a moment to extol the virtues of this mid-calf shaft height. If you are petite, these are your best friend. True tall boots can hit our knees at a weird spot. These can still be worn beneath midi/maxi dresses giving the impression of a tall boot (no awkward gap between hem and boot) but will also look fabulous with jeans — whether tucked in or worn over top. I absolutely love the pointed toe and slender kitten heel. It’s a 10/10 for me. My dream fall boot. If you’re not as into the spindly heel, try their block heel version — this one is a true tall boot — or this one in the croc (on super sale). Not a huge price break, but these Larroudes nail the Paris Texas vibe for a bit less (under $500).

02. Staud’s Wally boots — the heel height is ideal for me, and I love the color and silhouette. J. Crew has a fabulous look-for-less pair on clearance, and Madewell’s Dime boots are also similar, but they aren’t available in that rich chocolate suede color I’m after. The green olive is goooood, though. And I also found these $107 boots that I LOVE. Again, no rich chocolate brown, but I think the croc options would be very chic if you like this silhouette.

03. [Sweating, drooling.] Aquazzura’s Milano boot! OMG. I haven’t wanted to wear a heel in eons, but I’ll abandon the embargo for these. They are TDF with a pair of dark wash jeans and a chunky striped knit. I haven’t found a solid look for less option with the contrasting cap toe, but these J. Crew and these Madewell are similar in overall silhouette, and under $200/pair.

04. If you are a chelsea lady, these Tods are fab. Freda Salvador’s Brooke boots and Sam Edelman’s Laguna boots (waterproof!) nail the look for less. This style of boot makes me want to pull out shearling and cashmere.

If you’re a more practical Magpie and can’t imagine commuting / living winter life in suede, I don’t think you can top Toteme’s knee-high riding boot. The hardware detail, the calf shape — perfect. They remind me in ethos of Hermes’ “Jumping Boot.” Larroude’s Milan boot is a solid look for less, or Vince’s minimalist Margaret. Note that all of these are black leather versus brown — I can’t explain why, but I haven’t found as many great tall brown riding boot options. They all look cheaper? Will keep hunting.

For a big statement: these woven Freda Salvadors, piggy-backing off the intrecciato trend whose source material is Bottega. These would make an outfit. Literally pair with a white tee and black jeans and you’re done.

And for elevated polish, I’m into these Zimmermanns with the dramatic gold hardware detail. (I’ve written elsewhere about this nano-trend.)

A few looks that are making me very excited for fall boot season:

DORSEY EARRINGS // TAHARI BLAZER (UNDER $200) // RAG AND BONE BUTTON-DOWN // AGOLDE DAME JEANS // LA LIGNE SWEATER // TOTEME T LOCK CLUTCH // J CREW BOOTS

DOEN DRESS // AURATE NECKLACE // LOEWE POUCH // H&M JACKET // PARIS TEXAS BOOTS

P.S. John Mayer, a subject about which Magpies have many thoughts. Also: Magpies weigh in on how to plan a great vacation, and tips for easier travel days more generally.

P.P.S. My Shopbop hearts updated here.

P.P.P.S. Come share your answers to these nosy questions! The answers from Magpies have been so delightful.

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Ed. note: The original version of this musing included a quote from author Alice Munro talking about how she felt she’d missed the opportunity to be present in her children’s lives when they were little. After publishing this post on 9/1, two Magpies wrote in to let me know about some dark details that have come forward about Alice Munro and her complicity in the assault of her daughter. I had not known of this and apologize for any confusion or triggering this may have caused. I have since removed the quote.

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I routinely come across posts on social media reminding me that I have only 18 summers with my children, babies don’t keep, etc. My skin chills in defense when I read these words, even as I sense their earnestness, their truth. Even as I have been consciously rearranging my life to spend more time with my children now so that I can run wide of these regrets later. I wrote a year or two ago about the day I picked my son up from Montessori — this was back when our former nanny handled carpool. I can still remember the way he beamed and shrieked at the top of the steps when he saw me, and then skitter-skattered down the steps, his little legs moving as quickly as they could, leaping right into my arms. He talked about me picking him up to everyone who would listen. It was the most wounding awakening. I told myself all kinds of things. I inwardly insisted that I was contributing to the household income, and that I should treat it with the same seriousness and commitment I would a more traditional job. I reminded myself I was modeling devotion to a creative life, to entrepreneurial ambitions, and that I wanted my children and especially my daughter to see that. I reasoned that if I picked my son up every afternoon, then he’d ask why I didn’t take him in the mornings, or why I wasn’t the one taking him to t-ball (his father’s duty). It feels that there is never enough of me to go around as a mother, no matter how much I give. I felt this acutely during the pandemic, when we were warded off together in our too-snug New York City apartment. Virtually no alone time, no private quarters, and still they clung to me, clamored for me. “Mama mama mama mama” fifteen hundred times an hour. Those were long days. In the aftermath of that quarantine period I still think that high school teens had it worst out of the lot of us. Can you imagine missing your first dances, your chance at a varsity team, your fumbling maiden interactions with crushes? But just after the teens, and probably the alienated elderly, I think it was parents of young children with no “pod” to lean on. I feel we are still processing that period, and the way time pooled around us, threatening to drown. On the positive side, we enjoyed many months of close bonding together, no separations. We made the mundane festive. We learned just how forbearing we could be. I discovered that the sun still rises. But those were tough times.

I digress. Because my point is his sundrop face at the top of the steps, which has reappeared to me over and over again, especially in my worst moments of maternal self-doubt.

This year, we are doing things differently. Since May, we have been without a nanny. The children were in day camps (9-3) for about six weeks of the summer, and we occasionally had two neighborhood teens alternate as “mother’s helpers” during the mornings the children were not in them. Even with this support, the summer was an adjustment. Since May, my working hours have been 9-2:30 (on a good day — often, exercise and errands whittled this down to a slender 10-2), and I have reclaimed my roles as fraulein of bathtime and fetcher of infinite snacks in that scrabbly time between school and dinner. The children are older, though, and have learned (by dint of repetition on the parts of their parents) how to be companionable with boredom, or as we call it “quiet time.” It took a full summer to acclimate them, but the slow unfurling of August, with no camps or plans to speak of, completed the process. And now I retrieve them from their school, and they are vibrating with energy, and they snap at me for not bringing them the right snacks in the car, nuzzle up in my arms, jibber-jabber about their days, slam their doors, curl up on my lap in my office, scream about the injustices of their worlds. How could I possibly not have a brown paper lunch bag for my daughter’s first school assignment?! Etc. They are intemperate with mood. I know, of course, that this is largely because we are transitioning from the slackness and slow mornings of summer, and they are internalizing all the new rules and customs of their school worlds, and they get home and need to let out some steam. Parents are the collateral. But after the emotional melee, after the horde of snacks, they retreat to their rooms for quiet time, and I think to myself: “If nothing else, we taught them how to be alone this summer, and just in time.” Because now I can usually sit down to my desk and sneak in some editing, or make my way through my inbox, or undertake the other admin projects that paw at me, for some portion of the afternoon hours. I am always grateful for those little windfalls of productivity, but I also remind myself: “Even if I don’t get anything done, this is what I want, for myself, for my children. To be more present and available to them while they are young and need me.”

Sometimes I bristle at my own logic. Am I doing this to avoid regret? And is that a sound reason to do something? But if I tilt my head the other way, I see that I am trying to draw my aspirations into alignment with my actions. Time is a tool to express your values, etc. Specifically, I want to be like my mother, who was somehow always there despite having five children. I feel as though she never missed a beat, a performance, an opportunity to volunteer in the classroom, a moment to praise or celebrate her children. Equally, she never missed an occasion for correction — by that I mean that she was dialed in on our whereabouts and behavior, and would not tolerate infractions. I hesitate to call her strict, because she was almost unfathomably patient and calm, but she ran a tight ship. Firm, I guess. She knew how to set a boundary. Now I see all of this as an expression of love. She still makes me feel like the most important part of her life, even though I know I share that coveted spot with four siblings and my father. I want my children to feel that kind of boundless love, that always-thereness.

So here we are. My workday shrunk down to just the core. I am learning to be ruthless with my attention, to prioritize what matters. I noticed this week that I have developed an interesting practice, or skill? In the mornings, I take my own creative temperature. Nothing formal, just — am I on hi or lo today? If the former, I sprint to my desk and put pen to paper as quickly as possible. I’ll forgo errands and exercise in pursuit of Helicon. If it’s lo, I’ll permit myself a bit more fluidity. Maybe I’ll go for a longer run, or tackle some of the aspects of running the blog that are less creatively intense. Then the afternoons and evenings are more family-focused. I will say the biggest challenge is when I find myself galloping away with words, and the shot clock to school pick up is ticking down. It is the most frenetic, strangling feeling, and I hate it. But we are finding our way, and writing our way through it. As always, onward —

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Some shopping poetry for us…

G. LABEL NOAH CARDIGAN // LA LIGNE DUNTON JEANS // GOOP VITAMIN C SERUM // VERONICA BEARD DENIM SKIRT (ON SUPER SALE) // CREWCUTS BARN JACKET // HOTEL LOBBY HAND SOAP

La Ligne restocked their Duntons and they’re already nearly sold out. I am so bummed I missed out on my size again! I like the vision of these with a feminine top. // If you make one knitwear investment this season, can I make a plug for G Label’s belted Noah? Restocked again this year and I’m constantly wearing it. Perfect weight and color. The overlong sleeves add just a touch of interest/edge, and I like that you can belt for a polished finish. // While there, a note that Goop is offering 25% off their beauty favorites. I’ve written detailed reviews of my top Goop beauty picks here, but if I had to narrow it down to two buys, I’d plug this microderm instant glow exfoliator (a two minute facial) and their vitamin C serum (I’ve tried at least ten vitamin C products and this is my favorite). // If you buy only one thing from the J. Crew LWD sale, snag this adorable canvas barn coat for your boy! // Petite Plume is running a huge sale. My children love their jammies, and I got a ton of wear out of this chic caftan at the pool this summer. // Veronica Beard is offering 25% off their sale. Shared my top picks here, some of which have sold out, but this denim skirt was a late discovery. With code, it’s under $70. // Excuse me, but this Mango suede jacket?! I have myself signed up for an alert for a restock! (Scratches the VB Andrea itch for a fraction of the price?) And their bow-front denim jacket is also exceptional. Wow. // Still obsessing over my primary bath upgrade: fancy hand soap. Smells like heaven. // Wearing Julia Amory’s babe pants above.

Also, some notes on styling the aforementioned denim skirt…

COS TEE // SKIRT // BAG // SHOES // JACKET

SWEATER // SKIRT // BAG // BOOTS

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Image via Metier. I’m obsessed with all of their bags!

+WEIRD THINGS WE READ: This week, I wrote a paripatetic Instastory about a Robert Frost poem called “The Death of the Hired Man,” in which I shared: “It reads more like a short story than a poem, with dialogue and characters and an unfolding plot. Some of its imagery has impressed itself so powerfully on me that I call on regularly, as if it’s a core culture referent — especially the moon hitting the clouds, and filling Mary’s apron. It’s such an incredible piece of fiction. Evocative, ambiguous, shows and does not tell. A true defiant of genre.” After, I asked my Instagram Magpies: “What’s something weird that you’ve read that’s stuck with you?” A sampling of the answers, if you’re in a witchy mood (I added a few of my own — these would make for moody fall reading):

“The Cask of Amontillado” (Edgar Allen Poe)

“The Gift of the Magi” (O. Henry)

“The Lottery” (Shirley Jackson)*

“Hills Like White Elephants” (Hemingway)

“She Was So Outgoing She Was Incoming” (Rachel Aviv)

“A Good Man Is Hard to Find” (Flannery O’Connor)

Anything Ray Bradbury

“Lamb to the Slaughter” by Roald Dahl**

“Where Are You Going Where Have You Been” (Joyce Carol Oates)

“To Build a Fire”(Jack London)

“For Esme with Love and Squalor” (Salinger)

*I read this my second or third year of high school and it still haunts me, and many of you, evidently, too. Should I compile a little booklet of these books and we can discuss?

**More nightmare fuel from high school. This one does not mess around. Still remember passages of it with startling clarity.

N.B. I’m 60% through God of the Woods at the time of writing this post and it’s satisfying a major “creepy reads” itch. It reminds me not in tone or style but more in ethos, atmosphere, of The Girls, by Emma Cline, which I found haunting. Both are very well written. Moore in particular is a talented line writer — I’ve highlighted dozens of casual bits of prose. Beautiful…and creepy.

+LOSS ISN’T A ONE TIME EVENT: This snippet from an interview with Hanif Abdurraqib moved me deeply. In it, he makes the point that when we lose someone, it’s not a one-time thing — we lose them over and over again, each time we remember them. He goes on to explain that we can express and find repeated gratitude in this process — an opportunity to celebrate the people we love. Profound! An extension of the concept that grief is a permutation of love.

+GOOD BAGELS: OMG! I was tickled by all the bagel comments last weekend and solicited “best bagel recs” from fellow Magpies via Instagram. (Please add your own two cents below!) Sharing the shortlist below — these are only the spots that got multiple upvotes. A lot of one-offs, too! I added all of these to my Google Maps with a “Want to Go” flag and the following note: “Magpie rec.” So you know it’s legit. (You could also Pin or Screenshot!). Now how might I make Montreal a reasonable business trip destination in the next few months…?

+EYEING + BUYING: I have fall on the brain. I can’t stop thinking about this Jenni Kayne cardigan, which I’ve convinced myself I need. It looks like the perfect heavier weight sweater that can double as a top layer on cool days and mid layer on cold days.

JENNI KAYNE CARDIGAN // ONE OF MY FAVORITE FALL CANDLES (10% OFF WITH MAGPIE10; ABOUT HALF THE PRICE OF, BUT SIMILAR TO, DIPTYQUE’S FEU DE BOIS, MY OTHER FAVORITE); DORSEY LUCIEN EARRINGS (RESTOCKED FINALLY!) // OBSESSED WITH THESE LIP OILS RECENTLY — GLOSSY BUT NOT STICKY // VERONICA BEARD DASH BAG // MY NEW FAVORITE TRENDY JEANS // EPRES HAIR REPAIR KIT (JUST STARTED USING AND LOVE — 20% OFF WITH JENSHOOP)

+ARE MOVIES FUN AGAIN? I dragged Lan to see “Twisters” (he kept arching his eyebrow on the Glen Powell matter) and we both loved it. Fast-paced, funny, big, diverting! Highly recommend as a date night if you’ve not yet seen it (followed by dinner somewhere with good food where you can hear one another talk!). There’s a big scene where a tornado hits a movie theater, and it’s a great meta moment. Also, Glen Powell. It feels like there’s been a sudden surge in big popcorn movies that both of us want to see. (Are we finally waving goodbye to the superhero megaplex franchises?! TG. Not that Landon was big into these, but just generally – enough.)

A few of our favorites below (Mom and Dad, none of these are for you):

“Twisters”

Dune I and II

“The Fall Guy”

“Hit Man”

What I like about all of them — big stars, fun (or flat out good, excellent) script-writing, romance, action, self-awareness.

In this category, can’t wait to see “Fly Me to the Moon,” which I hope will prove similar. Do we all love Channing Tatum, or do we all love Channing Tatum? (You may correct me if I’m wrong, but I feel like the Sandy Bullock-Channing Tatum movie “The Lost City” was the first movie I’d seen in years that fell into this not-too-serious-and-perfect-for-a-Friday-night-action-romance category. A harbinger of things to come! I want to revisit it at some point for its explicit treatment of the romance genre — c.f., my comments on Katie below!)

+ARE YOUR CHILDREN BACK AT SCHOOL? I still feel as though I’m in the early and green days of motherhood, but I will say that I went into this back-to-school season primed and prepped in ways I’ve never been before. My husband and I proactively talked about how this month might present regressions, bad moods, wet beds, emotions that come out sideways. And we were right. You should have been a fly on the wall the afternoon they got back from their first (half!) day of school. Attitudes, slammed doors, tears! Transitions are hard for kids! Because I anticipated this, I was able to meet them with more compassion, or at least the remove that enabled me to rise above the moment and call a spade a spade. Sending love if you’re also in the trenches. And also a reminder that you are where you. need to be this school (ahem, illness) season.

+BEACH READS & BUBBLY LIVE BOOK CLUB: I am such a fangirl of Katie’s, and she is running her first live-cast book club event this Wednesday to discuss Elin Hilderbrand’s The Perfect Couple, which was just released as a Netflix series. You can buy tickets here — please join me?? I read the book awhile back but can’t wait to tune in to hear Katie’s thoughts, and here’s why: what Katie is doing for the beach read and specifically romance genres is important. I think we often dismiss female joy. It’s frou-frou, it’s trivial, it’s nothing. But there are reasons for the popularity of the genre, and romance publishing is a serious business. I recently heard (from the A Thing or Two podcast) that of the around 30 million romance readers in America, something like 65% read more than a book a week. I probably should have fact-checked that, but I’m recalling from memory and can’t find the podcast where they shared the stat. But, even directionally, the point is that romance readers are voracious readers.

+THIS WEEK’S BESTSELLERS: You all are loving this asymmetrical top. Date night, here we come! (Wear to watch “Twisters” and go for a martini after!). For this and all other Tuckernuck links below, use code YOUROCK for 20% off.

01. DATE NIGHT TOP // 02. PERFECT WEDDING GUEST DRESS // 03. FEATHERWEIGHT CASHMERE POLO // 04. WOVEN FLATS // 05. SHARP BLAZER (UNDER $200!) // 06. BARREL JEANS // 07. STRIPED DRESS // 08. CHICEST KITTEN HEEL BOOTS. // 09. EARLY MORNINGS TEE (PERFECT HYBRID OF A TEE AND A SWEATSHIRT) // 10. MY SECRET TO A SLEEK, SMOOTH BLOWOUT // 11. MICROWAVE POPCORN UPGRADE // 12. VERONICA BEARD FREYA COAT

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parker thatch charlie bag

NORMAL DAY: VERONICA BEARD MABEL BLAZER // SEZANE TANK // VELVET BY GRAHAM SPENCER BRYLIE PANTS (IF YOU’RE TALLER, TRY THESE — THE BRYLIES ARE PERFECT FOR PETITES) // CHANEL FLATS (SIMILAR HERE, LOOK FOR LESS HERE) // PARKER THATCH BAG

SEEING GLEN POWELL (I MEAN, “TWISTERS”): QUINCE SWEATER // GAP TEE // MOTHER JEANS

BEST SATURDAY MORNING: LAKE PAJAMAS SET // LAKE PAJAMAS ROBE

FINAL POOL DAYS OF SUMMER: ASPEN CENTER FOR ENVIRONMENTAL STUDIES HAT // HUNZA G SUIT // FRANK AND EILEEN LINEN SET // K JACQUES X DOEN SANDALS

ZOO ADVENTURE: LA LIGNE SWEATER // SEZANE TANK // SEZANE SKIRT // MARCH HARE WATCH // MZ WALLACE BACKPACK // ANCIENT GREEK JELLIES // DORSEY HEART ID NECKLACE

WEEKEND: TUCKERNUCK DENIM DRESS // HERMES SANDALS (LOOK FOR LESS) // ALTUZZARA TOTE

FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL / MEETINGS: KULE CARDIGAN // COS TEE* // VERONICA BEARD JEANS // HERMES SANDALS (LOOK FOR LESS // DORSEY LUCIEN EARRINGS // ALTUZZARA TOTE

*I feel I owe this tee an apology. I originally advised against its purchase but it really has found a home in my wardrobe. It is very cropped, and I’m short (5’0), but find myself gravitating towards it when I just want a scant front-tuck into a high-waisted pair of pants, or to throw something on over a pareo.

P.S. More of my favorite tees here.