A triple post day — wow! But had to share a couple of incredible labor day sales that have launched in advance of the long weekend, as items are already selling out. I will update this post with more great finds as they materialize in the next few days!

+20% off at Violet Grey with code CUSTOMERSONLY, which means the Westman Atelier foundation stick I raved about earlier this week is on rare discount.

+Macy’s has an incredible deal on these gorgeous scalloped-edged sheets from Martha Stewart. Get the Matouk look for less! I added a set to my cart because who doesn’t need a spare set of sheets?! I also fell in love with the frenchie print in these children’s sheets (only $20!!!) and added those to my cart, too. My children are still in cribs/toddler beds but I just know I’ll be happy to have these on hand in a few years. These botanical print ones also caught my eye ($20!) Amazing to have spare sheet sets like these on hand for such a good price.

+An extra 40% off sale at Rebecca Taylor, which means this absolutely stunning blue and white blouse is under $100 (originally $250), some of their denim is under $40 (!!!!), and this sweet LWD is $69.

+Joie is also running an extra 40% off their sale, which means this on-trend sweatshirt is $36 (originally close to $200) with free shipping! They also have some fantastic booties on sale — these stunners (orig close to $400) are only $100.

+Cecil & Lou has marked down all of their school collection to 40% off with free shipping. I shared my top picks here. These toddler masks are not on sale BUT they can be purchased with free shipping — I love the lower case cursive personalization!

+My favorite mineral sunscreen spray and mineral sunscreen stick for children is on sale for 30% off with code LABOR30. I tried tons of different brands and these were my favorite products for applying to wriggly little ones. And mineral sunscreen is expensive! Great chance to stock up. I also swear by these soothing facial wipes for micro — his skin is so sensitive around his mouth and regular wipes always cause irritation. I switched to these and the problem was gone. (They do have a strong scent — FYI.)

+Cutest melamine plates EVER on sale for 50% off. I always use sale occasions like these to stow away as gifts — love to bring friends baked goods on these plates. Would also make a cute house-warming or hostess gift to have on hand!

+30% off everything at Mango with code LAB20. I am crazy about this sweater (and I’m not usually a red gal), this on-trend mini (looks like La Ligne), and this pretty blouse.

+Bloomingdale’s is running a huge sale, including an extra 50% off certain sale items — meaning this ultra-chic and on-trend croc-detailed tote bag is only $31 when added to cart! Ordered. They also have certain styles of my favorite denim brand on sale, like these high-waist skinnies for only $90.

+25% off all in-stock items at Nicola Bathie using code laborday25. If you’ve been following this blog for any period of time, you know she makes my absolute favorite statement earrings. I especially love my cameo earrings and my flower pearl studs. Might have to use the promotion for these fun butterflies.

+Minnow Swim is running one of its two sales per year, offering up to 30% off its darling swimsuits for little ones. I always buy a few of these suits for mini each summer. My favorite is the rash guard style for little girls — it is simply the cutest thing I’ve ever seen with the bow in the back and the frill at the leg opening. I think I’ll snag that and these matching trunks for micro this year. This was my favorite print mini owned of their this summer. Just adorable!

+I wrote about how much I adore Aesop’s hand soap here, and it basically never goes on sale — you can get it for 26% off with code LATE26 here.

+Janie + Jack’s end of season sale is here, and they are offering an extra 20% off sale — this was one of my favorite easy one-pieces for Hill as a little baby (only $16 now!). So soft and comfy for cooler fall mornings. This is also the time of year I stock up on swim for next season — love these trunks ($13!) and this one-piece for mini. Finally, classic boat shoes for $23 and a scalloped sunhat for $10.

+Extra 25% off sale at one of my favorite children’s labels, Proper Peony, with code LABOR DAY. I ordered micro these pima play shorts (I LOVE their pima collection — this, also on sale, was one of my favorite everyday dresses for mini this summer, and it is only $24 now!). Mini has also owned many of their heirloom-quality embroidered dresses, and many of them are now on sale! I adore this dress, this strawberry print one (ordering), and this adorable jon jon.

+Skinstore has some great deals on great products. 25% off my favorite Molton Brown hand soap and body wash (both of these scents are heavenly, non-cloying, and great for both men and women). I’ve never used one of these, but many of you have asked about the NuFace facial toning device — a great time to buy if you’ve been in the market.

+60% off Bellabliss’s summer selection with code LASTDAYS. I have been eyeing this dress for mini all season — perfect to stow away for next summer. Also love these scalloped seersucker shorts (only $15.60 with code) and this was one of my favorite bubbles on Hill (with an enormous monogram) and these are one of my favorite pairs of shortalls he currently owns! Finally, if mini was little enough, I’d be all over this diaper set, which mini owned in a different colorway a few seasons back!

+Veronica Beard is offering an extra 20% its already steeply-discounted sale section with code LONGWEEKEND. I bought these flats, and more of my favorites are here.

+J.Crew is never not having a sale, and I’m anticipating they’ll be offering different promotions this weekend, but right now I’m just laser-focused on these pajamas (if you’ve never tried their dreamy pajamas, you are in for a treat — second-skin soft) and this SEA-esque dress.

+Banana is offering 40% off full-price purchases (discount automatically applied). I find their pieces have been a little stodgy lately, but I LOVE THIS PUFF-SLEEVED SWEATER SO MUCH. Such good colors! Adorable!

NOTE FROM THE EDITOR (Jen): In light of the fact that all of us with little children are navigating a strange return to the school year, today, I have invited my sister Elizabeth, an expert in early childhood literacy, to share some thoughts on supporting your little one’s reading skills during coronavirus. If you like this post, let me know — I will invite other guests to share expertise, too. And if you like hearing from my sister, you can follow here on Twitter for more literacy insights @lizsiteswriting

Everyone has been affected by this terrible pandemic in some way, and my heart goes out to those who have suffered tremendously.  One impact of the coronavirus has been a re-examination of how we educate our children. Many families have made hard choices or changes regarding how their children will learn this year. 

Several friends who know my background in early childhood literacy have asked what they can do to support their children’s literacy during this time. I reached out to Jen to ask whether some of the insights I have been sharing would be helpful to this community. Perhaps you or someone in your family is trying to homeschool, or is spending a lot of time supporting virtual learning.  Perhaps you are simply concerned that the many distracting factors in schools will result in a less-than-ideal learning situation. This post is intended to support your child’s literacy development, in conjunction with whatever other educational supports you may have.

If you have a young baby, you might revisit this post I wrote for Jen on the best books for babies, which includes tips like reading frequently and widely and performing other language-building activities.

If you have a toddler, you can continue to follow the same advice and make your home a print-rich environment.  You can also expose your child to the alphabet and promote oral language development via the alphabet song and active participation in nursery rhymes/songs (you can stream them from Alexa, for example).

If you have a preschooler/kindergartener/first grader*: According to Donald Bear et al’s Words Their Way, 7th Ed., an Emergent/Pre-Reader is a child who is learning the alphabet and the letter sounds, and may write letters, their name, or letter-like forms. A Beginning Reader is a child who has “concept of word” (see below) and is focused on making reading “happen” via practice in appropriately leveled-texts. A Beginning Reader might sound out words phonetically, even if they leave out letters, or make mistakes with vowels, for example. They might try to write the word Lego “LACO,” for example.

“Concept of word” is a critical piece for an Emergent/Pre-Reader. It refers to the child’s ability to accurately track print, such as in a familiar, memorized nursery rhyme.  The reason this is important is that it indicates the child’s understanding of many oral language concepts: that sentences are groups of words that mean one complete idea; that words are a collection of letters in syllabic chunks that have meaning; that letters match the phonetic sounds we hear and say.

There are many ways children have learned to read throughout history and in the world. Some children pick up on these concepts subconsciously fairly quickly and may even appear to “learn to read on their own” through significant time examining and listening to books.  However, most children will need or benefit from fairly explicit and on-going instruction, especially to learn to read at the age that our society desires currently (generally by first grade). 

Last month, I decided to offer a weekly virtual literacy session for several friends’ children, aged 3-5.  Here are my weekly instructional plans to hopefully inspire you, if you have an Emergent/Pre-Reader:

  1. Oral language: play a rhyming or syllabic game for children (such as clapping the syllables in their names and family members’ names)
  2. Alphabet: introduce a new letter (or two) and the sound. I encourage parents to make (or buy) cards with each UPPER and LOWER case letter as well as perhaps a picture reflecting the sound. In my sessions, I use a stuffed animal beginning with that sound to introduce the letter.
  3. Alphabet: I encourage families to go on a letter hunt around the house. Do you have alphabet blocks that you can use to designate a letter of the week? Magnetic letters? Where can you find the letter around the house? I also suggest a fun snack that begins with the letter of the week – make sure your child finds the letter on the packaging, where applicable!
  4. Writing: Model writing the letter, and help your child to write it in the air.  If you have a sand, rice, or other sensory bin (or these shallow trays, which Jen loves for setting up activities) to help your child form the letter, great. A baking pan makes a great sensory bin. Dry erase markers or truly any writing utensil will be great practice as well.
  5. Concept of word: Provide a nursery rhyme that hopefully also has many examples of the letter(s) of the week. For example, for Hh, I had parents practice playfully reciting Humpty Dumpty at home with their child, in the bath, or other various calm, fun moments. It is great for oral language development if a child learns to memorize the rhyme.  Then, in my session, parents print out copies of the rhyme for their child and the child points along as we “read” together.
  6. Concept of word: After reading together, I have children highlight or circle all the ‘Letters of the Week’ they can find in the rhyme. Going on a letter hunt like this helps bring awareness to the sounds in words. With time, you can encourage your child to find words, such as “Humpty” and your child will begin to identify it by the beginning sound.
  7. Concept of print: I end by reading a book that either correlates with the concept of word lesson or Letter of the Week, or hopefully both. I choose authors that are appropriate for early readers and usually have many books or a series to get the child excited to read even more!

Here are a few (by no means all) of my favorite book picks that might interest your young child:

  1. Mo Willems – Famous for his Elephant and Piggie series, as well as Don’t Let The Pigeon Drive The Bus!, Mo Willems is a brilliant, hilarious author who children just adore. 
  2. Donald Crews – I LOVE the talented Donald Crews, not the least because he is a diverse voice in a market overpopulated with white authors. Ten Black Dots, Truck, Rain, and Sail Away are just a few examples of his terrific work for an early reader.
  3. Brown Bear, Brown Bear (Bill Martin, Jr. and Eric Carle) – I used this for both the concept of word session and the read-aloud related to the letter B/b. This predictable, familiar book is famous in preschool classrooms because it is a perfect practice for tracking print. Bill Martin, Jr. also wrote Chicka Chicka Boom Boom (fun alphabet book), and Eric Carle wrote and illustrated numerous other lovely, classic preschool books such as The Very Hungry Caterpillar.
  4. The Quiet Book (Deborah Underwood and Renata Liwaska) – Deborah Underwood is one of my favorite authors, who has a wide range of books, including the hilarious Here Comes Teacher Cat series. 
  5. A Big Bed For Little Snow or A Big Mooncake for Little Star (Grace Lin) – I love this author/illustrator who also has a wide range of books and represents diversity in the market.
  6. Dr. Seuss – A word of caution: his books range very widely in terms of level. Some are very long and complex. Others are perfect for learning rhyme and language play. Hop On Pop, Green Eggs & Ham, The Foot Book, and Dr. Seuss’ ABC are some of my children’s favorites.
  7. If You Give A Mouse A Cookie series (Laura Numeroff and Felicia Bond) 
  8. Sheep in a Jeep series (Nancy Shaw and Margot Apple)
  9. Llama Llama, Red Pajama series (Anna Dewdney)
  10. Goodnight Moon (Margaret Wise Brown and Clement Hurd)
  11. Leo Lionni – His stories are often a bit more intricate than the others on this list, but his works are classic. I love Little Blue and Little Yellow, A Color of His Own, and Alexander and The Wind-Up Mouse.
  12. And Then It’s Spring (Julie Fogliano and Erin E. Stead) – just had to add this lovely, quiet picture book.
  13. Richard Scarry’s Cars And Trucks From A to Z — I was compelled to include the silly and wonderful Richard Scarry, and also wanted to point you toward alphabet books in general. There are so many kinds of alphabet books, and the more opportunities for letter identification, the better!

Lastly, I didn’t want to leave out second-graders and beyond: Once children have moved beyond the “Learning to Read” stage, they have entered the “Reading to Learn” stage. However, they still fall on a developmental curve and continue to need explicit phonetic/word pattern instruction as well as vocabulary and comprehension strategy, fluency, and writing instruction. 

One last tip: figure out what you like to read, and model enjoying reading.  Then support your child in pursuing their reading interests as well. Best of luck on your journey to support your little one’s literacy during these difficult times.

*Note that grade level expectations are approximate and every child is on a slightly different path. Using assessment data will be the best way to determine your child’s needs. Some are available on www.readinga-z.com, a partially-free, wonderful series of web sites/apps that might be worth the investment if you are homeschooling.

Post-Script: Notes on Supporting Literacy If Homeschooling.

If you are homeschooling (or if you want an in-depth understanding of your child’s learning), the first step is to conduct an assessment of what your child can truly do without any assistance, hints, or prompting. You might think your child knows the entire alphabet, but often times a 4 year old might still get b/d confused, for example (which is totally normal). One place to look for good assessment tools is www.readinga-z.com.*

For an Emergent/Pre-Reader, instruction should have a balance of activities:

  • Oral language (such as rhyme, sentence/word/syllable games, initial and final sounds)
  • Alphabet games 
  • Writing (such as letter formation and letter-sound associations)
  • Concept of word (such as supported finger-pointing to memorized rhymes/songs, repeated rereadings of familiar books with only a word or few words on each page)
  • Concept of print (such as listening to stories, retelling/acting out stories)

For a Beginning Reader, instruction should also have a balance:

  • Fluency (such as repeated reading of familiar texts, on-level-texts, building automatic word recognition)
  • Word work (such as sorting by beginning sounds, rhyme/word families, and short vowels, sight word practice)
  • Comprehension (such as listening to stories, predicting, retelling, cross-checking, vocab building)
  • Writing for sounds (such as supporting your child in sounding out words the best he or she can and writing the letters that match the sounds he or she hears, even if there are mistakes)

P.S. Slow-burn toys for children.

P.P.S. The sun still rises.

P.P.P.S. Everyday school clothing for toddler girls.

Image above via Linda Tol, wearing this SEA sweater.

One big trend I’m looking forward to this fall? Statement sweaters. Rhinestones, embroidery, exaggerated collars (ahem) — it’s all fair game this season, and I’m here for it. Below, some of my favorite finds to amp up your fall wardrobe:

THIS FLOWER-EMBELLISHED BEAUTY ($120!)

THIS DRAMATIC-SLEEVED SHRIMPS

THIS UNDER-$50 PEARL COLLAR FIND (ORDERED MYSELF)

MY PEARL-TRIM FAVE (ALSO OWN THIS)

THIS SEA-INSPIRED PILGRIM COLLAR STATEMENT (LOOK FOR EVEN LESS WITH THIS SWEATSHIRT STYLE — I ORDERED THIS!)

OR THE REAL DEAL SEA HERE (SEEN ABOVE ON LINDA TOL)

THIS EMBELLISHED BRETON FROM MARC JACOBS (ANOTHER BRETON STRIPE FOR FAR LESS HERE)

THIS DARLING CABLEKNIT (ORIG $395, NOW UNDER $100 WITH CODE LONGWEEKEND)

THIS STRAWBERRY PULLOVER (ON RIDIC SALE)

THIS FLORAL PHILOSOPHY DI LORENZO SERAFINI (THIS SIMILAR ONE ON SALE)

THESE STUNNING CUSTOMIZABLE STATEMENTS FROM LE LION

THIS SCALLOPED SWEATER (LOOK FOR LESS WITH THIS)

THIS RHINESTONE BUTTON H&M

GUCCI GUCCI GUCCI

THIS APPLIQUE CARDIGAN

For something a little less dramatic but still with considerable panache, I love this puff-sleeved Gap steal (under $50), this Anthro, this from Isabel Marant, and this ruffle collared H&M (or this similar Sandro).

P.S. More fall finds.

P.P.S. Chic fall boots, to whose list I would add these (which I now own!!! LOVE) and these.

*Image above from Westman Atelier.

I’m back with more honest reviews of recently-tested, heavily-hyped products. The TL;DR: out of everything on this list, you need this foundation stick if you are looking for matte, full coverage that is a dream to apply.

+Hourglass Eyebrow Gel. I love this product and have recommended it to two close friends in the past few weeks. To be honest, most mornings, I just don’t have the energy or time to use an eyebrow pencil. It feels so tedious to fill in all the little sparse spots and even things out. I find this eyebrow gel is a perfect alternative — the color fills things out while also giving the brow shape and definition with a few quick flicks of a wrist. Bonus: eyebrows do not feel stiff afterward like they do with ELF, which I have to say I also like because it is $2 and clear; perfect when using with a pencil. I’ll stick with this Hourglass stuff for everyday — it’s a one-stop shop for my daily makeup routine.

+Westman Atelier Foundation Stick. (You can buy this from multiple online boutiques, but Credo is the only one I could find that offered a 10% discount for new users with code CLEAN10 and a generous return policy, which was important given that I didn’t know for certain what shade I would be.) This stick is amazing — I would liken it to Cle de Peau concealer, but as a foundation. Like CDP, it glides on and melts into skin effortlessly so long as (and this is critical) skin is well-moisturized before application. I use my Artis brush to blend. It is matte as matte can be, so I often find myself wanting to soften things up with a lot of highlighting fluid afterward (I love this), but it stays put and offers exceptional coverage. At first, because of how matte it reads, I thought I would only use this when getting dolled up in the evening or when I have a breakout, and planned to continue to use a tinted moisturizer for everyday wear. I have found myself using it almost daily, though, much to my surprise. It really evens out and smooths skin and wears beautifully throughout the day. Bonus points: even the packaging of this foundation stick is cool (the cap is magnetic).

+Parade Underwear. In pursuit of comfortable nighttime unders, I kept seeing this pair highly recommended, nearly always reading that they were “insanely comfortable.” But they just weren’t my speed — I realized I prefer something with a slightly lower rise, and in a soft pima cotton, I think. (These ended up being the winner for me.)

+Hyper Serum. I was desperate to love this product (I admire the founder and have read countless rave reviews), which promises to lighten hyperpigmentation and clear skin, but it did not play well with my complexion. I broke out and was left with dry skin after using it for two weeks, and everything cleared up when I returned to my former regimen. However, I do think — as with most skincare products — that your skin may react differently to this than it did mine; perhaps my skin is too sensitive for it. (Similarly, so many people have raved about Necessaire products but I literally broke out in a rash after using their body wash and have avoided it since!) I will say that the product glides into skin effortlessly — it was easier to apply than my Mad Hippie serum (which I think requires more attentive blending with fingertips and leaves skin a bit tacky).

+Pantene Rescue Shots. These inexpensive deep conditioning treatment ampoules have worked wonders on my dry hair, which I think I have damaged from all of the blow-drying and the minimal hair cuts. My hair appeared so deeply hydrated and tangle free after use. Strongly recommend if you’re going through a rough (dry) patch yourself.

+Olay Ultimate Eye Cream. I was looking for something to help with my ultra-dark under-eye circles and this came highly recommended from so many people. Honestly, I did not see a big difference in the dark circles beneath my eyes after studying the area in the mirror for weeks on end after application. I think I am now resigning myself to the fact that there is probably nothing that can impact this genetically-born feature–so concealer it is. I did like the cream overall, though. It was hydrating and easy to apply and absorb — almost a whipped quality to it. For the price, a very good cream.

+Sunday Riley Luna Retinol Sleeping Oil. I received a very generously sized sample of this and have been using it for about two weeks and will order more. I have grown increasingly reluctant to add any new oils and serums to my regimen — I mean, how many does a single woman need?! I really love Vintner’s Daughter and Mad Hippie Vitamin C Serum and tend to alternate between them, and I’m skeptical that I need much else. However. I will say. I used this oil and noticed — without having read it on the label in advance — that my pores were basically nonexistent on my cheeks especially. I mean, it was like perfect baby skin! I checked the label and saw that this oil specifically shrinks pores (among other things, like reducing redness and smoothing wrinkles). For the pore treatment alone, I will continue to use this. I find that the VD and MH serums have more of a brightening/evening-out effect on my skintone overall, in case you’re wondering how this complements or differs from those items.

+Kosas Concealer. (<<The shade-finding tool on their site was really helpful, FYI, and I got the perfect shade without having used any products from the brand prior.) I thought this concealer was very good but not exceptional (i.e., it will not dethrone CDP). So many reviews cited its creaminess but its consistency doesn’t have a patch on Cle de Peau in my opinion, which — despite existing in stick form — truly glides on like a gel of some kind and then just melts into the skin. I had a little bit of trouble figuring out how to apply Kosas properly — it has a somewhat thin consistency but if applying with the built-in applicator, you can easily apply way too much (i.e., the thin consistency is deceptive: a little goes a long way). Where Kosas excels, however, is in coverage and staying power — it really blocks out the dark undereye circles and redness around my nose, and it lasts! I will be using this when I need to bring in ammo in breakouts and the like. I also appreciate the price tag, which is far more reasonable than Cle de Peau. All in, I’ll be keeping this in my cosmetics bag as an alternate for CDP when I need lasting coverage.

+Laura Mercier Signature Eye Shadow Palette. This is not new, but I use this eye shadow palette constantly. I don’t think I’ve been tempted by another eye shadow from any other brand in years — this palette has everything you need. The formula is excellent and the colors are so easy to wear on an everyday basis. I love the cashmere color especially (sort of a mauve-pink) and then the nude is great for brightening the eye when I look tired.

Thinking back across all the products I’ve reviewed so far in 2020, I do have to say that the standout for me has been these vitamin C-serum-infused cleansing wipes. I love them so much. They are inexpensive, effective, and they smell like fresh laundry to me. I also love that they show up at my doorstep as a part of my subscription to Billie, which — I would say — is my second favorite discovery thus far this year. I know, razors?! So weird — but I love not having to think about buying razor blades (you let them know how often you shave and they automatically send you replacement blades). It is also so much more affordable than Gillette, especially given the free shipping! Honestly, a no brainer. I can’t complete this paragraph without also one more time singing the praises of my Revlon One-Step. Maybe it ties for first place with the wipes. It is SO good and it has made keeping my hair presentable possible. If I had my druthers (and infinite resources), I would get my hair blown out every few days by a professional. I hate washing and blow-drying my hair — it is fine in texture, but I have a ton of it, and it takes forever to dry. The One-Step has made the process infinitely more palatable and easy to maneuver — I now scarcely mind it.

What are your holy grail new discoveries from 2020? Anything else you’re itching to try? (I love being your guinea pig!) I am currently eyeing more from the Westman Atelier line since I was so impressed with their foundation stick. I’m specifically eyeing their “Lit Up” Highlight stick and their blush sticks. I would also eventually like to try Augustinus Bader’s heavily-touted and crazy expensive cream, but I’m scared I might become addicted…

You can read more honest reviews of hyped products here, here, and here.

P.S. If you’re new here, welcome! I’d love to get to know you.

P.P.S. Remembrances of my grandfather.

P.P.P.S. Fly-fishing and writing.

Wow wow wow — Veronica Beard is offering an extra 20% its already steeply-discounted sale section with code LONGWEEKEND. (Let’s start celebrating Labor Day promotions early, shall we?) Top picks:

THESE DARLING $56 SLIDES

THIS STRIPED SHIRTDRESS (PERFECT FOR WORK)

THIS OUTRAGEOUSLY CHIC PUFFER (ORIG $750, NOW $120 WITH CODE!!!)

PERFECT EVERYDAY BOOTS AND FLATS (<<IN MY CART!!!) FOR A STEAL

STATEMENT CROC BOOTS TO NAIL THE CURRENT LEWK FOR UNDER $200

SHOWSTOPPING MOIRE TOP FOR AN EVENING OUT

P.S. Just ordered this collared sweatshirt for myself and this lace collared dress for mini.

P.P.S. My favorite lipstick colors.

Her many shades of laughter — the shriek-y kind, the belly kind, the silly performative kind, the anticipatory kind when she’s just waiting to be tickled.

Her name, a daily reminder of family and the bravery of our forebears.

Her cornsilk-fine hair, now so long as to fall midway down her back when it’s not in her preferred style: braids.

The humbling, all-consuming, knee-buckling privilege of knowing that she needs me.

Her shockingly high EQ.

The way she cups her hands around my face in tender moments.

Her inquisitiveness.

Her unexpected, precious compliments: “I love your beautiful dress, mama,” she will say out of the blue, nibbling at her sandwich.

Her occasional saltiness. Me: “What do you think of the halibut?” Her: [Chewing thoughtfully, then slow blinking.] “Horrifying.”

The feel of her hand in mine.

The way she cannot sit or lie next to me without pressing every possible part of her body against mine: her feet against my legs, her head against my shoulder, her palm against my arm.

The stubborn crossing of her arms and hunching of her shoulders when she’s drawn a line and will not budge, equal parts irritating and comical. (But where did she learn this pose?)

Her love of books.

Her attentiveness to detail — she owns easily a hundred or more books and when I ask her “What does Amelia Bedelia Goes to School look like?” as I skim the spines in its pursuit, she will reply, effortlessly and immediately: “Yellow with a little blue flower on it.”

Her love of Woody and Buzz Lightyear from Toy Story.

Her babyish mispronunciations, whose death I dread: “yogrette” for “yogurt,” “ozinge” for “orange,” “oppopus” for “octopus,” “pita-budda-jelly” for “peanut butter and jelly” (the “and” elided; the phrase strung together as if one word).

Her taste for apples and the way she twists them around in her still-baby-like hands in search of the perfect next nibble.

Her solicitude for her brother.

The way she calls her brother “Hillbill,” “bud bud,” and “little man.”

Her comfort in conversation with adults: she launches in, unflustered by the age gap.

The earnest way she will tell the doorman and the super where she is going and what she has been doing as we enter and exit our building. More to the point: her underlying, heart-rending assumption that everyone cares.

The soft and faraway look she gets in her eyes when she is tired and I am singing to her in the dark of her bedroom.

The fact that she insists I sing her “O Little Town of Bethlehem” most nights, even when not in the Christmas season.

Her incredible memory for song lyrics — she knows the words of many songs much better than Mr. Magpie or I.

Her obsession with art — painting, specifically — and the care with which she creates her masterpieces, face close to the paper.

The way she intones “oh my goooodneeeeess!” when opening a present: 100% me, living outside my body.

Her wriggly, writhing, uncoordinated dance moves.

Her voice chanting “I think I can, I think I can, I think I can” when racing to the bathroom — an inheritance from her grandmother. (My mother trained me to say this to myself as a toddler, and I paid it forward.)

The way she gleefully yells “mama!!!!!” when I emerge from the bedroom in the morning.

Her beautiful hazel eyes.

The thud of her feet sprinting around our apartment, a kinetic energy that does not stop from 6 a.m. in the morning until she falls asleep at 7 p.m. at night.

All of her —

All of her —

All of her.

Post-Scripts.

+My daughter has always felt like my other heartbeat.

+On the elegant but lopsided dance of motherhood.

+Eyeing these St. James striped tees for both of my children after spotting them on Caitlin’s!

+A sweet reader wrote to ask after gift ideas for her Kindergarten-bound niece, in order to “get her excited about school/congratulate her.” A few ideas…

FUN PERSONALIZED STICKERS TO PUT ON ALL HER BACK TO SCHOOL GEAR

A PERSONALIZED CRAYON BOX WITH A FRESH BOX OF CRAYOLA

MINI LOVES USBORNE STICKER BOOKS — MAYBE A BUNDLE OF THEM, INCLUDING THIS BACK-TO-SCHOOL ONE?

A PERSONALIZED TRACING PLACEMAT

A LITTLE BRACELET — I BOUGHT MINI THIS AS A GIFT FOR HER FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL THIS YEAR BECAUSE I WEAR A GOLD BANGLE DAILY TOO

THE KISSING HAND BOOK — ABSOLUTELY PRECIOUS STORY ABOUT A RACCOON WORRIED ABOUT MISSING HIS HOME/MOM AT SCHOOL

+Talbots just generously sent me this long quilted coat. Perfection for the transition to fall. I’ll be wearing mine with No. 6 clog boots in the pick-up line after school.

+Speaking of boots: these are an amazing everyday fall boot for a toddler. I think I will also be buying mini a pair of Ugg boots for winter. The commute to her school is a cold one in the winter months.

+All Saints has some really good handbags out right now — this on-trend snakeskin tote is crazy chic (and crazy discounted); this leather crossbody reminds me of the far more expensive Hermes Evelyne; and this woven tote reads like a St. Laurent or something.

+Gorgeous oblong cachepot.

+One of my favorite Target finds in a long while. (More Target scores here.)

+If you need a good cry today…this one always does it for me.

+If you need to hear it today: you are enough.

+These wheeled laundry baskets are…can I say this about laundry baskets?…impossibly chic.

+Exaggerated collars are the thing this fall, and this sweatshirt nails the look at a great price. (More pilgrim-chic picks here.)

+Gorgeous teapot. I’ve flagged this as an impossibly elegant gift for somebody.

+More gifts for girlfriends.

+Construction pajamas for a little boy. (Would make a cute gift, bundled with this bedtime book.)

+Emory absolutely loves this book. The illustrations (can’t tell if it’s cut paper or something a la Eric Carle?) are eye-catching, the language is lyrical, and the storyline is powerful.

+This adorable birthday jon jon is on sale and still available in size 12M and 24M (i.e., most common sizes for a boy on his 1st or 2nd birthday).

+These blockprint-esque jammies are so adorable!!! I love all of the pajamas in J. Crew’s “Dreamy” fabric/collection.

*Image above from Hill House Home.

I’ve had a few mothers reach out in search of chic, nursing-friendly everyday wear. I tried to keep my picks on the reasonable side of the cost spectrum (I recall being reluctant to invest in pieces that might have a short shelf-life), though all of these would work post-nursing, too!

I HAVE BEEN LIVING IN MY HHH NAP DRESS THIS SUMMER AND IT OCCURRED TO ME THAT THIS STYLE (SEEN ABOVE) WOULD BE EASY TO PULL DOWN (THE SMOCKING IS VERY STRETCHY)

I LIVED IN SHIRT DRESSES THAT BUTTONED DOWN THE FRONT (I FOUND THEM TO BE THE MOST DISCREET!) — I LIKE THIS, THIS IN THE CHAMBRAY, THIS (SUCH FUN PRINTS), AND THIS (WHICH I OWN)

THIS ($23!!! I OWN THIS IN YELLOW AND LOVE IT), THIS, OR THIS WOULD WORK WELL FOR SIMILAR REASONS TO THE HHH — GOD BLESS SMOCKING!

NURSING TANKS FOR LAYERING UNDER BUTTON-DOWNS (SEE BELOW) OR PAIRING WITH MY FAVORITE POSTPARTUM LEGGINGS AND A FUN CARDIGAN (OR SOMETHING LIGHTWEIGHT LIKE THIS)

I LOVE A CLASSIC WHITE OR CHAMBRAY BUTTON-DOWN LIKE THIS, THIS, OR THIS; TIMELESS AND CHIC WITH SKINNY JEANS/LEGGINGS AND SOME FUN ACCESSORIES

THIS POPLIN TOP ALMOST DOUBLES AS A NURSING COVER — HA! — BUT I LOVEEE IT! IMAGINE WITH WHITE SKINNIES AND BIG BLACK SHADES

THIS $30 STEAL (ESP LOVE IN THE BLACK) WOULD BE CONVENIENT — IT’S A SELF-TIE WRAP STYLE

BURU HAS AN ENTIRE “EASY ACCESS” SECTION FOR NURSING MOTHERS — I LOVE THIS DRESS

THIS HATCH JUMPSUIT IN THE BLACK IS INTRIGUING TO ME (NOTE: THE PIECES I BOUGHT FROM THEM RAN WAY BIG)…I CAN’T TELL FROM THE DESCRIPTION AT GAP, BUT THIS COULD ACHIEVE THE SAME EFFECT FOR A FRACTION OF THE PRICE (SO CHIC!)

IF YOU PREFER LAYERING A NURSING TANK WITH A TOP THAT CAN BE PULLED UP (LOTS OF MOMS HAVE SAID THIS FEELS THE MOST DISCREET TO THEM), SOMETHING LOOSE LIKE THIS OR THIS (LOVE THE FLORAL)

Separately, for nighttime, I adored these inexpensive Gap nursing nightgowns. I wore them while pregnant and then while nursing — so soft and comfortable. These Amazon ones are also getting RAVE reviews. I also loved my Lake Pajamas set once I decided it was time to retire my beloved Cosabella maternity pajamas — they were so soft and dreamy but they were pretty lose a few weeks after birth.

And, last but not least, these were my favorite nursing bras for daytime.

P.S. “Adventures” (euphemism) in nursing, part I and part II.

P.P.S. My diaper bag.

P.P.P.S. If you are weaning. (I want to give you a big hug.)

My post last week about quickly-selling-out Halloween pajamas (<<just updated because Hanna Andersson just released really cute prints for the occasion) for little ones left me thinking about fall in general. A few other fall finds for your home:

LOVE A SET OF CLASSIC ADIRONDACK CHAIRS AROUND A FIRE PIT, AS SEEN ABOVE…SWOON! (ACRES OF LAND ALSO A BONUS — HA)

PERFECT SNUGGLED UP BENEATH ONE OF THESE SWEATER KNIT BLANKETS WITH A GLASS OF RED WINE + YOUR QUARANTEAM

A BEAUTIFUL MAGNOLIA LEAF WREATH FOR YOUR DOOR (HERE IS THE PERFECT FALL WREATH HANGER, TOO)

SEASONALLY-APPROPRIATE MRS MEYERS HAND SOAP (MY FAVORITE REASONABLY-PRICED HAND SOAP FOR KITCHEN)

THESE LANTERNS WOULD BE PERFECT FOR A FRONT STOOP

ORDERING THESE WOVEN PUMPKINS FOR OUR CONSOLE (ALSO COMES IN A SMALLER SIZE; POTTERY BARN HAS SIMILAR ONES BUT ARE PRICIER)

IN YEARS PAST, I HAVE FOUND A WAY TO ADD MY CERAMIC QUAIL (USUALLY LIVE ON MY BOOKSHELVES) TO FALL TABLESCAPES

MY FAVORITE COLD WEATHER CANDLE

THESE ARE FUN PLACEMATS FOR FALL — ALSO LOVE THESE IN THE PINE COLOR

LOVE THIS RUSTIC-LOOKING LOG CARRIER, IF YOU’RE LUCKY ENOUGH TO HAVE A FIREPLACE…MY PARENTS HAVE A COPPER WOOD BUCKET SIMILAR TO THIS THEY USE FOR THEIRS, WHICH LOOKS REFINED

SPEAKING OF THE HEARTH: LOVE THIS VINTAGE EQUESTRIAN HEARTH SET

INTO THESE RUSTIC-STYLE SMOCK APRONS (I FIRST SAW THIS TRADITIONAL FRENCH STYLE FOR MUCH MORE ON VIVI ET MARGOT!)

UNUSUAL SERVEWARE FOR YOUR TABLE

PRETTY TAPERS, ESPECIALLY IN THE MOSS COLOR

THESE NAPKINS IN THE CLAY COLOR, OR THESE (SUPER SOFT; I OWN THEM — MY FAVORITE CASUAL NAPKINS, AND THEY ARE ON SALE!!!)

I LOVE TO SET A LITTLE SOMETHING LIKE THESE BALLOONS, THESE GHOSTS, OR THESE BATS UP IN OUR LIVING ROOM FOR EMORY TO DISCOVER WHEN SHE WAKES UP AS A SPECIAL HALLOWEEN SURPRISE

IN YEAR’S PAST, WE’VE HUNG THESE BAT SILHOUETTES IN THE WINDOWS ON HALLOWEEN MORNING…THESE DIE-CUT HAUNTED HOUSES ARE CUTE TOO

Also worth noting: Serena&Lily has marked down all of their chairs, sofas, and occasional tables. Great time to invest in a beautiful coffee table or sofa, or to snap up this little cocktail table — one of the all-time most popular items I’ve featured on le blog!

P.S. More finds to get you into the fall spirit and more recent home finds (all from Target).

P.P.S. Things that mattered to me at 18.

P.P.P.S. On still dating my husband

1 // Inspired by the designer look above: this major pearl headband ($15). I love the idea of wearing this with an airy white dress during these dog days of summer — a clever way to breathe new life into a wardrobe you may be growing tired of. In the fall, perfection with a black jeans, black sweater, and black booties. (P.S. You know I love anything with pearls.)

2 // This cheerful ditsy floral top. I especially like it in the white colorway, but it comes in many grandmillennial-approved patterns. I’d wear with high-waisted denim (these are my favorites; more cool jeans to try for fall here).

3 // This pink eyelet dress. (I think this could work with a small bump if you are expecting.) Love with simple flat sandals and a floral headband like this or this.

P.S. This Johanna Ortiz dress is the stuff of dreams.

*Image above via Markarian–swoon. You can buy a similar style from the same collection here for 50% off (the rest have sold out), or get the look for less with this, this, or this.

My Latest Snag: Last-Minute Items for Mini’s Back to School.

Mini head back to school this Thursday (after a phase-in period), and I feel 22 ways about it. For one thing, though it has been a long few months since her school closed in early March, I am dreading the silence of our apartment without her in it. I can barely imagine what a day will feel like without her always-sprinting feet, her shriek-y laugh, the way she performs a kind of recitative when playing with her toys (always singing), her sing-song “but mamaaaaa!” punctuating my mornings, noons, and nights. Mr. Magpie and I have frequently, over the past few months, bemoaned the fact that it feels like someone or something is always underfoot in our small apartment, and it is usually her, clawing her way for a better view, hanging onto my skirt, flopping her tiny little body onto the floor of the kitchen while we are preparing dinner. I balance these sentimentalities with the nodding reasoning that school will be so good for her.

I am also wincing at the imminent change to our sprawling summer schedule, to the sudden disection of my day into the frenzy of getting ready for school before 8 a.m., the process of taking of her to school, the reciprocal process of picking her up. It is life, it must happen, and it will all settle into place, but still, I find myself steeling myself for the upheaval that this week will bring.

And then there’s the whole COVID thing, of course, the burden under which we are all operating with grimacing concern.

A few last minute back-to-school purchases I thought I’d share…

THIS BALLOON TO INFLATE AND SET BY HER BREAKFAST THE FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL, JUST TO PUNCTUATE HOW EXCITED WE ARE FOR HER

THIS CUP FOR TAKING MILK TO SCHOOL FOR LUNCH

ALCOHOL WIPES TO KEEP HER SCHOOL-MANDATED FACE SHIELD CLEAN

WATERPROOF NAME LABELS FOR HER GEAR

A NEW QUILTED COAT FOR WHEN THE WEATHER TURNS COOL (I ALSO LOVE THIS LESS EXPENSIVE STYLE IN PINK, AND THIS ONE FOR BOYS)

GINGHAM CIENTAS

You’re Sooooo Popular: Affordable Everyday Bootie.

The most popular items on le blog this week:

+Still a few of this ultra-flattering one-piece (50% off!) left.

+A fantastic everyday bootie for $70. I own a nearly identical pair that I wore into the ground last winter.

+You all LOVED the epic sale on one of my favorite children’s clothing labels, CPC, and this was the most popular item (which I also bought for Hill!) This ends tonight. Hurry!

+This nearly-sold-out blockprint dress.

+Le best bra (on sale for a limited time). More great undergarments here. (Read comments for additional suggestions!)

+Absolutely beautiful, Zimmerman-esque dress at a great price.

+Adorable wicker pumpkins.

+Cute kids Halloween pajamas (note: I received mine last week and they run big). More suggestions here.

+My favorite dry shampoo. (Seriously MAGIC.)

+Hill’s adorable new fall pajamas.

+Pretty satin hairbows for a little one.

+Loeffler Randall sandals for $75. I own these in a different colorway and love.

Weekend Musings: How Do You Keep in Touch with Friends?

A Magpie reader put this question to me not long ago, and I haven’t stopped thinking about it since. There must be a more methodical way to keep in touch with my girlfriends. Currently, it’s haphazard and slapdash, only disciplined in the sense that I force myself to stop what I am doing and jet off a text or email whenever one of them crosses my mind, because if I don’t interrupt my day to do so, I’ll forget and then I’ll never remember to tell my friend that I cannot pass by the small, overstuffed antiques shop a few blocks from my home without thinking of her. She first introduced it to me, as she first introduced me to the group of friends who would become my closest here in Manhattan when I moved here three years ago. That is to say, that she is present in my daily life even when we cannot see one another.

How do you stay in touch?! Please share your secrets.

P.S. The friend mentioned above is incidentally really good at keeping in touch via snail mail.

P.P.S. Awhile ago, I resolved to just pick up the phone when it rings — this, too, helps with keeping in touch with friends.

P.P.P.S. On letting friendships go.

Post-Scripts: Faux Boxwoods.

+These faux boxwoods are on sale for about 50% off! So cute for a console or entryway or mantle or kitchen window or bookshelf…!

+A couple of really good finds from Bagsy, an online second-hand children’s boutique that features tons of finds from great brands either with tags on or gently used.

+Baggu’s new MET collection is so fun. These are great reusable grocery bags to toss in your purse as they fold up into virtually nothing. I also love that they are machine-washable!

+An amazing sale to shop this weekend.

+These kitten heel black booties were a total wardrobe MVP last year for me — I had them last year in a black suede and I wore them into the ground (literally – had to have the heel tip replaced). I like the smooth leather they’ve released this year, too. The profile of this bootie is so much more “me” than a lot of the chunkier styles that have been in vogue for the past few years. I especially liked them with skinny jeans or with maxi dresses and tights. They also come in an on-trend python.

+I received an amply-sized sample of Sunday Riley’s retinol sleeping oil and I have to say that I noticed my pores were virtually invisible after I woke up one morning about three or four days into use. I checked the bottle and was surprised to see it specifically lists that as one of its effects. I’ll share more on this in an upcoming honest review post, but initial results seem very promising.

+A reader recently asked for recommendations on everyday china. I cannot encourage plain white china for everyday enough. You never get bored of it and it shows food beautifully. It’s also highly versatile if you’re into setting a proper table with linens — they’ll go with any tablecloth/placemats/napkins without issue. My two favorites are Juliska’s Berry and Thread and Pottery Barn’s Emma. Both project a kind of down-to-earth, lived-in grace. I also absolutely adore my Aerin Lauder scalloped plates, but they’re not sold as a full china set (with bowls, etc).

+Loving this ribbed cashmere tee in the black. Very Jackie O.

+How pretty is this quilted botanical sham?!

+These moto leggings for little ones (on sale for $11!) are not even mini’s style but I had to get them for her. She does go to school downtown, after all. Ha!

+ADORE the scalloped edges on this affordable blouse.

+A pretty every day sweater with interest for fall.

+Positively smitten with this “house dress.” SO speaking my language!

+I have also received a lot of questions about how I care for my children’s clothing. I do spend a lot of time in the stain removal process, to be honest. I find the best thing to do is to remove the article of clothing as soon as it’s soiled and dab liquid dish soap (no really! dish soap! Palmolive specifically) directly on the spot with a small cloth before adding a few spritzes of Dreft and throwing immediately into the laundry. The sooner you get that item cleaned, the more likely it is to resolve itself. I’ve tried tons of detergents and I find Tide is really what you need when you’re dealing with stains. For most other loads of wash for the children, I use the Laundress, which I find to be very gentle on clothing (especially delicate/higher-end pieces) and beautifully scented (probably if I am honest the main reason I still use this product — nostalgia for their newborn days!!!) but not as tough on stains.

+Are we now entering the phase of COVID where mask chains are a thing? This one is cute. While we’re talking masks, here are some really cute ones.

+Have heard great things about these gel-based crayons!

+If your man is a fan of Polo undershirts (these are the only Mr. Magpie wears — tagless and ultra-soft), they are on sale here.

I spent 22 days inside my Manhattan apartment when I contracted coronavirus earlier this year. 22 days in under 2,000 square feet, and a subset of those days within the four walls of my bedroom. 22 days without sunshine or fresh air or the damp smell of the onset of rain or the feel of my sixty-pound airedale straining against her leash in pursuit of a phantom rodent that routinely haunts her on a particular stretch of W 84th street. I remember plastering my forehead to the window of our kitchen, angling my neck to take in the skyline, to watch the stray Manhattanites enjoying sun and afternoon reading or candlelight and al fresco dinners from the lovely balconies of the brownstones our building overlooks. To be honest, I was too sick or too worried to give much thought to the sensation of captivity at the time. The confinement was ancillary to much graver anxieties. But I think back now and wonder how we did it–“we” being Mr. Magpie and myself, as he carried more than half of the emotional burden of that period of my life, and nearly all of the responsibilities of parenting and running a household, and he did it while maintaining a full-time job and a sense of humor and the laidback way he flips a cap off a beer bottle in the evening, marking the end of the work day and the start of a more relaxing string of hours.

Oh, to have him–his sturdiness, his confidence, his extremely even keel–

I cannot think how I would have fared without him.

This, of course, was half the strain of that time (write it, Jen): the haunting vision I angrily brushed away as I fought the virus of me absent from my own life, or he absent from whatever shape my life might take in the world beyond.

To be clear, I had what I think would be considered a mild to moderate case. I did not receive treatment and did not go to the hospital. My doctor advised rest and fluids. But I was the sickest I have ever been in my life, and we knew so little about the virus in late March that I had no idea whether I was improving or not. Even though I was no longer wracked with body aches that made me feel as though I was being passed through a pasta machine, I lost my sense of smell and taste about a week into my symptoms–what was this? When would it end?! A well-meaning friend of ours, in a conversation after I had recovered, said: “I’ve heard it’s not too bad for most people. Like a mild flu or something.” He said it optimistically, I think — hoping that I would concur. I think that Mr. Magpie could see that I was having trouble finding words, my mouth partway open, groping for the right ones, because he said, affably, lightly:

“She was pretty banged up.”

And then changed the conversation.

It was around Easter that Mr. Magpie turned on the movie 1917. Until that point, I had avoided anything remotely emotional or intense in the entertainment category. I don’t even remember what scene we were watching, but I suddenly felt waves of unexpected and violent emotion washing over me, and I near-shouted —

“I can’t watch this!”

Mr. Magpie looked bewildered at first, and then turned off the TV and tilted his head and pleaded, quietly, for me to tell him what was wrong.

And it came out like a long cry.

And then, just as urgently, I had to say all the things I had felt when I was sick and that I had been scared to admit out loud, and that even now I cannot commit to paper (write it, Jen, I tell myself, but I have written them and then woken up in a cold sweat and deleted them — I cannot put them out yet, cannot commit to them, cannot relive them in published form). I told him even the foolish things, like my single-minded fixation on the nightmarish logistics of going to the hospital by myself if I needed to. (Would I take a cab? How would I make it through filling out the admission paperwork without dissolving into a puddle all by myself?)

He sat with me, and let me cry into his shirt, and I don’t think I will ever be able to finish the movie 1917 because it is positively riddled with all the feelings that tumbled out that night in our apartment.

For many weeks after I had recovered, treading the trim perimeter of my nightly walk with Tilly, I was lit up with gratitude. For the fresh air, for the sights of the city, even for Tilly’s irritating strain against the leash in search of those phantom (or not phantom, come to think of it…) rodents. Just before my first walk after confinement, Mr. Magpie sat me down and made me promise to look both ways before crossing the street. “Take it slow, Jennifer,” he said, the formality of my full name on his tongue jarring. And I knew what he meant: that I would be overwhelmed that first walk. And I was. The city felt enormous, and the same and not the same, and loud, and I was ecstatic and farklempt to be on the errand.

Time has softened the crispness of those emotions and I now need to remind myself to be grateful for my nightly stroll from time to time. And so it caught me off guard when my father said, just the other day: “I don’t know how you did it in that small apartment. I don’t know how you’re still doing it in that small apartment.” As we are still, for all intents and purposes, living in quarantine: ordering all groceries and wine and — well, everything — in, staying inside most of the time, not interacting with anyone outside the immediate family except for our nanny, my brother-in-law, and my sister. Mr. Magpie and I went out for a glass of wine once two or three weeks ago, and even that was a tedious and possibly-not-worth-it exercise in risk mitigation: we stopped by five or six potential watering holes before finding one with suitably spaced tables. While not ideal, like all of you, we’ve adapted to these conditions. We know, having both fought the virus in our own apartment, and having lived in New York in March and April of 2020, just what is at stake, and it is worth the inconvenience and slender grief we carry with us. But when my father said: “I don’t know how you did it,” I thought back to those 22 days of confinement, and I shuddered.

But I do know how we did it, and it begins with a prayer and ends with Mr. Magpie’s casual toss of a bottle cap at five o’clock in the evening.

It is faith and love and the putting of one foot in front of another and the steely insistence on celebrating the most diminutive of joys with the man I love the most because they are always worth the fanfare.

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This post is written specifically for a reader who was just diagnosed with coronavirus. M.O., I am thinking of you today.

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Post Scripts.

+More on living through coronavirus and the two things that brought me the most comfort during that time.

+The gorgeous colored glassware from Estelle is now sold individually! Two coupes would be such a sweet gift for a newly engaged friend.

+The message of this children’s book sounds wonderful.

+An absolutely adorable $60 dress, and an equally adorable and far more expensive heart-print dress, too.

+This cashmere top is on sale — and so cute for fall!

+I also adore this striped sweater (on sale, too) with white jeans in early fall.

+Darling white nightgown for a little one. Like Clara from the Nutcracker!

+Currently, you can get 25% off your first order at Olivela, meaning you can score these Mansur Gavriel flats at a rare discount.

+Only two sizes left in this sweet fall floral dress for a little one (ordered it already for mini). More adorable little girl finds here.

+In case you are running dry with toddler activities/distractions at this point and are heading into a year of distance learning / homeschooling, people rave about indoor trampolines as a way to help children burn off their energy and this one can be stowed with relative ease.

+Clever tool for children learning the upper case / lower case letters.

+This stomp rocket was a smash hit with mini (who is 3.5).

+This is a great bowl for, well, everything. I have a bunch of these and I find I reach for them constantly. Perfect size for soup, cereal, ice cream, or just mixing up the small portions of peas or pasta or rice that I prepare for the children at dinner time.

+Vans are not my style, but OMG these itty bitty ones on micro might have to happen.

+Chic fall finds.

+Delicious drama for $29.

+Grateful to Marlien Rentmeester for introducing me to the incredible Etsy vintage shop Fenix Vintage, full of fun finds like this embroidered floral midi and this outrageously fun blouse and this blue caftan, which reminds me a bit of my beloved Frances Valentine maxi.

+I do not need another white dress but ohhh mannnn I keep coming back to this perfect style from La Ligne.

+High end looks for less.

+Home finds from Target.

From now through this weekend, an extra 50% off sale items at Anthropologie. (The discount is automatically applied in cart.) This includes a select number of rugs (!!!), like this blue statement, which is very similar to the one I have in my master bedroom that many of you ask about, this swiss cross style (fun for a Scandi-style playroom), and this blush pink round (perfect for a little girl’s room or a feminine office — I mean, for ~$200?!) It’s so hard to find a good price on a statement rug!

There are also great fashion scores, and I’m ordering the first dress listed below:

RIDICULOUSLY STUNNING SHOSHANNA (ORIG $460, NOW $124)

FEMININE ONE-PIECE SWIMSUIT FROM FAITHFULL FOR AROUND $50

LOEFFLER RANDALL SANDALS FOR $74 (OMG IN THE GOLD – SUCH A GREAT AND VERSATILE HEEL)

THIS FROTHY WHITE MINI (REMINDS ME OF A LOVESHACKFANCY I EYED ALL SUMMER)

THIS CHINOISERIE-ESQUE MAXI

P.S. Still some items available from this outrageous sale on CPC Kids.