Photo above of street style starlet Therese Hellstrom. She is wearing a sweater from last-season Custommade but you can get the vibe for less with this ASOS steal or this apricot-colored cardigan from H&M.

Amidst the sea of black, sherpa-neutral, and olive greens I have been serving up, let me share a few fun pastel finds for fall:

THIS ADORABLE SANDRO SKIRT (ON SUPER SALE FOR $118)

THIS TO-DIE-FOR LADYLIKE CARDIGAN FROM MAJE — OR THIS SIMILAR SANDRO (40% OFF)

THIS FLASHY LSF STATEMENT PIECE

THIS WOOL MINI IN THE BEIGE COLORWAY

THESE PERFECT SKY BLUE BALLET FLATS

THIS FLOATY CREPE DE CHINE

THIS HEAVILY DISCOUNTED BROCK COLLECTION BLOUSE

THIS TWEED SHIFT

THIS $30 THERMAL TEE IN BALLET PINK

THIS PINK VELVET LELE HEADBAND — ON SALE!!!

THIS DRAMATIC ZARA CARDI

THIS CROCHET COLLAR SWEATER FROM TOPSHOP

P.S. More for lounging/bedtime, but this ultra-soft cardigan in the pastel pink has my heart eyes.

P.P.S. Still some great scores at Mango for 30% off.

*Image above of the georgeous Natasha Ndlovu. The understated elegance of an LWD and big shades — could she be any chicer?! Makes me want to revisit my post on tennis-inspired fashion

My Latest Snag: New Knits.

I made two knitwear investments this week that I am ecstatic about: this flounced cableknit sweater ($29! — can envision wearing it with my new jeans or a houndstooth skirt) and this bow-shouldered cashmere sweater tank. The latter is so impractical but I couldn’t resist the bows and everyone needs a special “going out” shirt to look forward to in the winter. I’m imagining it for some reason with a large black satin bow in my hair even though I’ve never worn anything like that before.

P.S. Speaking of knits, Target has the most darling knit rompers available for tiny baby girls, and they are all under $20 and selling fast. Get the La Coqueta look for a song! Also love this one (Thanksgiving?) and this one.

You’re Sooooo Popular: The Chic Fleece.

The most popular items on le blog this week:

+Sharp leather-trim fleece.

+My new jeans!

+Clogs are IN this season, and this is a particularly chic and minimalist pair (under $100). (These are also fun and on sale.)

+Sleek everyday boots.

+This casual $30 fleece I have been living in post-workout.

+Affordable chinoserie planters.

+Adorable and affordable toddler cardigan.

+Darling satin bows for a little lady.

+My favorite eye primer — I often wear this by itself, without eye shadow!

+Cute lined corduroys for little girls.

Weekend Musings: Advice from Octavia Butler.

I’ve had a couple of conversations with close friends working through challenging interactions with colleagues and family members in the past few weeks, and have had several occasions in those exchanges to share a quote I read earlier this year that has helped me gain perspective when I have felt hurt, misunderstood, or unfairly treated:

“If you understood how frequently people cope by projecting, you’d learn to take absolutely nothing personally.” — Octavia Butler

What I love about this quote is that it serves both self and other: it makes me feel better, but it is also rooted in empathy and the acknowledgment that other people are coping with their own, often invisible-to-me, troubles. Of course, the sentiment must not stand in for absolution when I have done the wrong thing or put my foot in my mouth, nor should it represent carte blanche forgiveness for unkindnesses at the hands of others. By try it on for size the next time you are on the receiving end of an uncharitable word. I think you’ll be surprised at how much perspective it affords.

Post-Scripts: Parenting Advice + Ballet Flats.

+Parenting advice I love.

+$13 ballet flats for a little one.

+This cute dress is now available in four colors — I still love the brown for fall with suede boots but the beige and blue are incredible, too.

+I’ve never been big into combat boots (that is, besides those Chanel ones that are sold out everywhere and that everyone looks SO good in) but OMG are these chic or what?! I love the idea of pairing them with a sweater jacket like this.

+Much love for my hometown of D.C.

+These Halloween jammies were just marked down to $30, with free shipping, in case you’ve been holding out for your little ones! (More Halloween pajamas here and more ideas on how to make this Halloween special here. You still have time to plan — but not much!)

+OK, this statement sweatshirt is beyond. At this rate, I will only be wearing sweatshirts from now through 2022. (Ahem.)

+For some reason, this scallop-trim sports bra is only $7.70 in my size! Ordered immediately.

+These silicone bibs come in great (non-garish) colors and prints.

+Doen vibes for $60 — actually, for less than that, since it’s 30% off through 10/4 with code SHOP30.

+Chic storage bins for bulky bags of chips/cereal.

+Kind of surprising myself here, but I’m into the dressy shorts that are all over the place right now — love these leather ones and these Tibis, too.

+What you’re shopping for.

+Loving this $59 ribbed knit sweater.

Image above via Simone Rocha.

I think I have been brainwashed by the bold beauty of the Bottega Veneta cassette bag (my ultimate lust list bag for this season), but I am falling hard for the chain embellishment on so many gorgeous finds this fall. Below, a few of my favorite pieces with serious hardware detailing:

NECKLACES FROM PERRINE TAVERNITI LIKE THIS OR THIS

THIS TWEED CHAIN MINI (WOULD PAIR WITH MY GUCCI TIGHTS FOR A LEWK)

THESE GUCCI FLATS (SWOON) OR THESE SIMILAR SIMONE ROCHAS

…OR THIS $35 LOOKALIKE PAIR (CHICCCC)

THIS AMAZING SHIRTDRESS (NAILS SO MANY COOL TRENDS, FROM THE GLEAMING GOLD HARDWARE OF THE BELT TO THE SMOCKING AT THE WRIST TO THE PILGRIM COLLAR)

THESE LOUD ZARA BOOTIES

THIS DRAMATIC BELT (WAKE UP ANY OL BLACK DRESS WITH IT) — OR THIS ONE!

THIS $29 CHAIN DETAIL SWEATER NAILS THE HIGH-END LOOK — DESIGNERS INCLUDING GIVENCHY, PORTS1961, + ALEXANDER WANG HAVE ISSUED VERY SIMILAR PIECES

P.S. Chic and affordable gift wrap you need in your life.

P.P.S. Affordable finds for little girls and little boys.

*Image above via Lele Sadoughi; illustration by Studio Nue.

Run — Lele Sadoughi headbands are on sale for 55-60% off at Nordstrom Rack. This plaid is the perfect fall accessory (Halloween colors!) but I am majorly into this cranberry red padded corduroy style (could be your low-effort way to transform a casual sweater and jeans into something festive for Thanksgiving). Last, velvet is always fun for the holiday season, and their pearled beauties are always in vogue in my book! Happy shopping.

Also can’t-miss: my beloved (and pricy) Cle de Peau concealer is currently on sale for 15% off. Not a huge discount, but this stuff n-e-v-e-r goes on sale, and $62 feels more palatable than $73. If you’ve never tried this concealer: I am willing to bet a lot of money that it will be the best you’ve ever tested. It glides on and conceals a whole manner of undereye sins. The absolute best. They also have a bunch of other highly popular beauty products marked down to 15% off, including Clarins’ double serum, Jo Malone scents, and my beloved facial cotton.

P.S. If you like the pearl sunglass (or mask!) chains from Lele Sadoughi, consider this $9 Amazon variation.

P.P.S. It’s sweatshirt season.

I have been surprised by the number of recent inquiries about dresses to wear to weddings — a reminder that love finds a way, even in the face of a global pandemic. Some of you are attending ultra-small, family-only celebrations; others are socially distancing during backyard gatherings; and some of us are getting dolled up for watching via Zoom.

Regardless, you’d be surprised at how good you will feel putting on a formal dress and some heels. A remembrance of things past…

Below, my top picks for wedding guest dresses (or dresses for any special occasion this winter!):

THIS CRYSTAL-EMBELLISHED VELVET SELF-PORTRAIT, WHICH HAS AN ALESSANDRA RICH VIBE (!!!) AND I DIG THE NECKLINE

THIS TEXTURED KNIT DRESS (ON SUPER SALE) WOULD BE SO ELEGANT WITH PEARL ACCESSORIES

THIS SPLASHY STAUD

THIS STUNNING NAVY ZIMMERMANN (ON SALE — I OWN IN A GOLD/YELLOW COLOR AND THIS DRESS IS SOOOO GOOD ON)

THIS ON-TREND DARK FLORAL (SLEEVES!)

THIS SIR DRESS IS NUTS — LOVE THE BACK — AND ALSO LOVE IT IN THE AUTUMN FLORAL COLORWAY

GO ALL OUT IN ULLA

THIS PLEATED HEM LBD WHICH IS ON SALE FOR $29?! AMAZING WITH A GREAT HEEL AND SOME FANTASTIC EARRINGS LIKE THESE OR THESE

WOW THIS DOTTED MESH DRESS (UNDER $100)

FOR SOMETHING A LITTLE LESS FORMAL, LOVE THIS PATTERNED DRESS (UNDER $100) WITH BURGUNDY HEELS AND THIS LADYLIKE PINK SHOSHANNA (ON SALE FOR $162)

LOVE THE FALL COLOR OF THIS SP

Fun heels for a formal outfit: these by The Row (on super sale, have coveted for like two seasons, and also available in a solid black), these LRs (also on sale and also available in a higher height — the champagne colorway is such a great, versatile but dressy neutral), these satin or velvet slipper mules are just SO CHIC I CAN’T, my longtime and all-time favorite evening sandal, super fun disco ball shoes, and these feathered friends.

I shared some super fun pearl accessories here that might be the perfect accent to your look, too.

P.S. If you’re the bride, I update this post regularly with my latest bridal finds. Newest addition: this darling mini, which would be so amazing as a getaway dress or bachelorette dress.

P.P.S. Amazon fashion finds you can’t miss and great Target scores.

P.P.P.S. How do you read?

First, had to share this crazy chic sweater I just bought — only $29. And if you use code 2H75Y4, you can get 30% off one item in your cart.

Second, Tuckernuck is running its friends and family sale, with 20% off everything using code RINGRING. A few stand-outs:

THIS DRESS — PERFECT FOR POST-PARTUM AND NURSING AND THEN WEARABLE WELL BEYOND

THESE CHIC OTKS — THEY LOOK VERY HIGH END AND ARE WATERPROOF!

STRIPED MAXI — I ALWAYS GET QUESTIONS ABOUT WHAT TO WEAR AS A MOM CHASING LITTLE ONES; THESE COTTON DRESSES ARE AMAZING WORN WITH VEJAS/SUPERGAS! EASY TO CLEAN, COMFORTABLE, ETC

P.S. The Mango sale is still going on! So many chic finds for 30% off.

I have been in major fleece/sherpa shopping mode. I think it’s partly the trendiness of the sherpa shacket and partly my return to a regular fitness regimen, but either way: all signs point to soft, warm outerwear, preferably in boxy shapes and neutral shades..

Fleece and Sherpa Outerwear for Casual Outfits.

LE SHACKET

THIS TIBI PULLOVER IS SELLING OUT EVERYWHERE

THIS STUNNING SHEARLING AND SUEDE STATEMENT

THIS SHARP LEATHER-TRIM STYLE

THIS ON-TREND FLEECE OVERSHIRT

THIS PERENNIALLY POPULAR ANINE BING (I BELIEVE THE ONE SEEN ABOVE)

THIS CORDUROY TRIMMED STYLE

Fleece and Sherpa Outerwear for Athleisure.

One of my all-time favorite articles of clothing is this Patagonia pullover, which I own in the “Raw Linen” color. I’ve had it for over a decade and I absolutely love to wear it over athletic gear or pajamas when cold — the quality is incredible despite infinite launderings and it is crazy soft. I also just ordered this inexpensive zip sherpa fleece jacket ($30!) in the cute “tan” color and it is super soft as well! I had wondered if I might be able to wear it while jogging but it’s pretty thick — the Patagonia has a little less heft to it, so I can get away with jogging in that one without feeling like a teddy bear. But I’m not mad at the $30 fleece anyhow — perfect for throwing on post-workout while running errands or even just hanging at home. I feel like it will be a perfect color compliment to athletic gear in olive green (<<still my favorite pair of leggings ever and I own in the olive green color) and navy in particular. I also love…

THIS SHAWL COLLAR BUTTON-UP STYLE

THIS JACKET, WHICH COMES IN THE BEST COLORS

THIS ON-SALE SNAP UP PULLOVER

THIS HALF-ZIP IN FIRE ENGINE RED

THIS FUNNEL NECK STYLE

P.S. Speaking of fitness, Lululemon has some great pieces in their sale section right now. They never offer insane discounts, but I’ll take a few dollars off anyhow — I snagged one of these loose-fit tanks (you can tie it in the back, which looks cute) and this long-sleeved tee. I also keep going back and considering a second Define jacket. I usually prefer loose-fit tops while jogging but I do like that jacket — it fits super-snugly, almost like a sports bra, and just contours to your body so it feels like you aren’t wearing anything, but the pockets are handy for phone and keys.

Fleece and Sherpa Outerwear for Children.

THIS VEST IN THE BEIGE (MICRO OWNS — RUNS BIG)

THIS ADORABLE FLEECE (ALSO LOVE THIS SIMILAR STYLE IN PINK)

THIS SWEET BEAR SUIT

THIS BOMBER FOR A LITTLE BOY

RIGHT NOW, MINI OWNS THIS IN A DIFFERENT COLORWAY AND MICRO OWNS THIS

THIS ON-TREND FLEECE OVERSHIRT

THIS COVERALL, WHICH I BOUGHT MICRO IN THE IVORY TO LAYER OVER THESE COZY WAFFLE THERMAL ONE-PIECES

And for men — this Filson style is ruggedly attractive.

P.S. Chic mirrors for home.

P.P.S. My favorite undergarments.

P.P.P.S. Honest reviews of hyped products.

The other morning, I had inveigled micro into playing with his toys in his crib — an increasingly challenging feat as he only ever wants to be sprinting, unfettered, from one end of the apartment to the other — while I quickly changed into my exercise clothes, hurrying through the selection of spandex and jamming my feet into my socks with haste. As I dashed back out the bedroom door, I paused at the monitor and realized that my son was still happily engaged with his toys. I hovered for a minute in indecision and then, with a feeling of strange disorientation, sat down on the couch. “Maybe I can just sit here for a sec and check my emails? Scroll through Instagram?” At the same time: “This is your one-on-one time with your son! Go to him! Play with him! His nanny will be here in nine minutes and then you will only occasionally cross paths with him until five, when all hell breaks loose and you are wrangling a tired, hungry three year old and a tired, hungry one year old and the likelihood of a quiet moment to work on a puzzle with your baby is nil.”

And so what might have been a quiet moment to myself disappeared into the familiar frenzy of mom guilt, and I heaved myself off the sofa to sit with my boy on the floor of his bedroom.

Why do we do this?

I feel as though I am permanently lodged between the mantras “babies don’t keep” and “moms deserve self-care, too.” And the conditions under which we have been living during this pandemic have deepened, or reified, my sensitivities to both.

I remember one time telling my mother, in a week of chaos (I believe this was around when I was moving apartments, very sick, adjusting mini to her first year of school, and nursing my newborn son), that I’d had to “clear my schedule and remind myself that my number one job is caring for my children.” My mom had said: “No, honey. Your number one job is caring for yourself.” The earnestness in her voice and the fact that I have always borne the impression that she has put herself last (meaning that, even if she has always been caring fully for herself, there has also always been room to keep us nurtured and tended to) were revelations. But I still hurry through my showers and wallow in self-reproach if I am on my phone while my children are playing around me or too tired to want to play with mini’s Calico Critters alongside her. I always feel as though I should be giving them more of myself.

Two weeks ago, Mr. Magpie and I went out on our first proper date night since early March. It was the first night in seven months that I had not sat at the dining room table, force-feeding my children dinners they do not want, reminding them to keep their bottoms in their seats or their broccoli on their high chair trays, cajoling them into pajamas, returning them to bed after unauthorized excursions, fetching urgently-needed water cups, saying prayers, singing with varying degrees of enthusiasm “O Little Town of Bethlehem” (“the one from when I was little,” as mini calls this song–as if she is not little anymore) not once but twice in the exhausted hush of the seven p.m. hour. The minute Mr. Magpie and I closed the apartment door behind us on our way out to dinner, we danced, recklessly and joyously, in the elevator bank. “We’re freeeeeeeeeeee, baby!” Mr. Magpie said. We laughed at ourselves, giddy and ecstatic and footloose.

Of course, I checked my phone no less than four times at the dinner table, wondering whether our nanny would have questions about their bedtime routine or run into trouble with our occasionally stubborn three-year-old. Of course, we talked at length about our children over glasses of wine and outrageously delicious cacio e pepe and fennel-flecked sausage lasagnette at Il Buco Alimentaire.

But I was surprised by my relief. I was surprised that I did not for a single moment feel guilty about the excursion and in fact felt a pang of disappointment as we headed back uptown. I was surprised that the next morning, I felt like a better mom: eager to see the children, more willing than usual to get down on the floor of the nursery and play with dinosaur figurines.

My mom guilt kept edging in on my true-born feelings of restoration: “Shouldn’t you feel bad you feel so good right now?”

UGH! Leave me alone!

But there it was: the truth: that I need a real break every now and then. That work is not a break. That errands are not a break. That sitting in our living room after the children are asleep is not even a full break, because there is always the chance that once of them will wake or that I will sidetrack into picking up toys or worrying that I did not turn on the night light. But getting outside, going to dinner, turning my parenting knob all the way off (or, at least, on super-low) is, and I need that space every now and then.

Now just how to get that mom guilt off my back…

Who can relate?

Post Scripts.

+This dress in the brown is absolutely adorable! Possible Thanksgiving dinner contender.

+Love this knit sweater jacket — can’t decide whether to go with black or camel. I am dismayed by how much I’m drawn to black this year! I feel like I’m becoming a true New Yorker without meaning to.

+Baby gear I wish I’d bought.

+These wide leg cropped pants came (they are currently marked down to like $15 in the color I got — “ivory frost”) and are SO cute! I’ll be pairing with finer knit sweaters like this and this for a flattering silhouette.

+Speaking of chic sweaters: I absolutely love this. The buttons, the sleeve, the color, the fabric. So good.

+Fall Vejas!

+I was reluctant at first about the polo sweater styles I’ve been seeing everywhere — I thought they might be a little slouchy and masculine for me — but this cashmere style may have changed my mind.

+Love this cheery little bucket bag.

+Melamine bowls in a cheery blue and white print – these are great options for children’s snacks/cereal/ice cream.

+Trust me when I say you need this during sweater weather. I’m obsessed.

+Love this fun silver tray even just for decorating the top of a sideboard or serving cocktails and snacks.

+A woman of serious backbone.

+This is a condiment caddy but my favorite elegant way to serve up an arrangement of snacks while enjoying cocktail hour — fill each with a different treat, like marcona almonds, truffle potato chips, and sesame sticks.

+These wood-topped glass storage bins are CRAZY chic.

+These Gucci logo sweaters are so loud and fun.

+The best bags for fall.

+Getting a lot of mileage out of this chic headband this fall.

I love a good bargain find as much as the next lass, but there are always a few high-end investment pieces I’m salivating over. Below, my luxury lust list for this fall season:

CASHMERE ROBE

JENNIFER BEHR BRAIDED VELVET HEADBAND

MAX MARA MADAME COAT OR MANUELA COAT (SEEN ABOVE)

GUCCI LOGO SOCKS

PARIS TEXAS SNAKESKIN OR CROC BOOTS (INVESTED IN A PAIR OF THESE ALREADY)

DRAMATIC ZIMMERMANN SWEATER

CASHMERE MULE SLIPPER

BOTTEGA BAG

SO SAD THESE HOUNDSTOOTH MULES HAVE SOLD OUT IN MY SIZE

MARQUES ALMEIDA TURTLENECK

NICHOLAS KIRKWOOD BOOTS

P.S. Three pieces that have a seriously luxe look for under $130: this pullover, these velvet flats, and this longline cardigan.

P.P.S. Aren’t we lucky to be children?

P.P.P.S. My favorite desk accessories.

I am not an athleisure gal, but — thanks to Isabel Marant and the influence true street style has had on high end fashion — I have over the past few seasons come to love a good sweatshirt worked into my wardrobe. I’m not yet venturing into the pairing of sweatshirts with glittery skirts a la Giovanna above, but — with a great pair of jeans and some smart shoes? Yes pls. Three sweatshirts I own and have already gotten a decent amount of wear out of as we lean into fall:

THIS FLEECE RAGLAN STYLE IN THE OAT COLOR

THIS PUFF-SLEEVED STYLE IN THE ECRU

THIS EXAGGERATED COLLAR STYLE

Any of these would look amazing with on-trend denim (more options here, and don’t forget about the J. Brand coupon code!).

A few other sweatshirts I am loving right now:

OBSESSED WITH THIS TURTLENECK SWEATSHIRT

THIS DRAMATIC ULLA

THIS DROP SHOULDER STYLE (SIMILAR HERE FOR LESS — LOVE IN THE OYSTER BEIGE COLOR)

THE SHAPE AND COLOR OF THIS FADED BLACK SWEATSHIRT FEELS VERY ISABEL MARANT FOR $53

ISABEL MARANT

THIS SCULPTED SWEATSHIRT IN THE UNEXPECTED PUTTY COLOR (ON SALE!)

THIS $32 HENLEY STYLE IN A GREAT GREEN COLOR — JUST BOUGHT MYSELF BUT WILL PROBABLY MAINLY USE FOR EXERCISE

ALSO LOVE THIS TUNIC STYLE SWEATSHIRT FOR POST-WORKOUT

Finally, not really a sweatshirt, but how fetching is this waffle hoodie?! I need this for cold weather lounging at home.

P.S. The best bags for fall.

P.P.S. Chic athletic wear.

P.P.P.S. This was a very tough post for me to write. I’m so glad I did, because it was therapeutic and I have read and re-read your comments so many times and find myself in total and complete awe of the many incredibly — unreasonably! — kind comments on it. I love you, Magpies.

The scene above reminds me of a crisp Saturday morning in Georgetown. I only wish I could meet my mom at Patisserie Poupon for a latte and pastry and then a manicure at Vicky’s across the street — hoping both remain in existence for years to come so I can fulfill that daydream at some point…

My Latest Snag: J. Brand Jules Jeans.

I used my 40% off promo code to snag this chic pair of high-rise, straight-leg jeans (a departure from my usual denim routine) in such an unusual and fun fall color. I’m now I’m so excited to pair them with cream/ivory sweaters and tops.

I’m also excited about my latest headband acquisition.

You’re Sooooo Popular: The Velvet Ballet Flat.

The most popular items on le blog this week:

+You all LOVE this velvet ballet flat. Such a good price and looks so high-end. I especially love the unexpected mustard yellow color!

+A refined fleece jacket for every day. Love. J. Crew nailed it with this design — the leather piping is so sharp and unexpected.

+My new jeans — I love that many of us will be twinning in our cool girl denim.

+My absolute favorite, ride-or-die bronzer. Have been using this for a decade I think?

+Ultra-chic quilted transitional coat for under $100.

+Adorable $20 vest for a little boy.

+On-trend quilted shacket.

+Not too late to order personalized Halloween baskets for your little ones!

+Cute seasonally-appropriate rug for a kitchen.

+This houndstooth cardigan is in my cart.

Weekend Musings: A Prayer.

I’ve written about this a couple of times, but my mother, sister, and I have been in a digital prayer circle since the start of quarantine. I don’t think we’ll ever stop now — it’s been one of the most spiriting parts of my day for months now. The basic gist is that one of us (usually my mother) selects a prayer or novena that we commit to saying every day for nine or ten consecutive days (depending on the terms of the novena — they are usually meant to be prayed every day for nine days). We text one another the praying hands emoji whenever we pause to say the prayer, which is usually first thing in the morning, but sometimes little children or wonky routines get in the way and one of us will send a belated emoji at 3:44 in the afternoon or 9:02 p.m. at night, and it’s the loveliest way to snap back into a prayerful headspace when I least expect it and often most need it. The text chain has also created a space to advance intercessions on behalf of friends and loved ones enduring difficult times, which has the added benefit of reminding me to keep things in perspective. This daily practice has also made me feel deeply connected to my sister and mother during a time in my life where I am isolated from family. I write that with particular torment today, as we have just made the decision not to drive down and visit my parents and Mr. Magpie’s after all. With case counts again rising and Virginia now on New York’s list of restricted states (meaning that traveling to/from VA would require us to complete 14 days in complete quarantine), it wasn’t in the cards. We also remain wholly skittish about the possibility of transmitting the virus to one of our aging parents, especially with mini back in school. Hopefully I will see them at some point in early 2021.

At any rate, the prayer my mother selected for us most recently was *just* what I needed to hear when I was elbowing through the heartache of thinking that I am narrowing in on a full year without hugging my mother, and I wanted to share it here:

Lord, help me to remember

that nothing is going to happen to me today

that You and I together can’t handle.

Amen.

I shared that prayer on Instastory earlier this week and was overwhelmed by the number of Magpies who replied: “I needed to hear that.” One of you — enduring particular pain, no doubt — wrote: “This just made me cry this morning in a good way. Sorry for this corny message from a stranger but thank you so much for the much needed reminder.”

Deep breaths, Magpies. One foot in front of the other. And if you’d like to join me this week, why don’t we plan on saying the prayer above at 9 A.M. E.S.T. every day through next Sunday, October 4th? I’ll set a calendar reminder for myself and be thinking of you. Feel free to share particular intercessions with me via comment on this post, email, or direct message.

And if you aren’t comfortable with prayer but still want the community, take a pause at 9 A.M. and know I’ll be thinking of you, too. We got this.

P.S. A post on a particularly powerful novena and a Bible verse I said about two hundred thousand times during micro’s birth.

Post-Scripts: A Cute Nursery Lamp.

+This little bunny lamp is absolutely adorable for a nursery, especially in the gray.

+Just pre-ordered this dress for mini.

+This belted white top is perfect for work or with jeans for a polished look.

+In love with this needlepoint pillow.

+Super pretty fine-knit sweater for pairing with skirts.

+Eyeing these tie-waist olive green cords — such a good color!

+These chic suede mules were restocked!

+Would love to pair this chic houndstooth skirt with a sweater like this.

+More great sweaters for fall.

+Guess I’m in a houndstooth mood, because this vest is calling my name and I’m not usually a vest person. But wouldn’t it be cute with an all-black outfit?

+Two recent Magpie reader recs: this foot cream (rest in piece, LRP foot cream) and these pouches for “decanting” (HA — love that you used that word!) and organizing children’s puzzle pieces and small toy parts. Very excited to try both.

+Serena and Lily-esque counter stools for less.

+This dress is precious.

+A girlfriend of mine asking for “traditional but not stuffy long sleeved dresses in girls size 6/7 for fall family photos.” She mentioned that she’s been having trouble finding options along these lines in older girl sizes, as traditional styles seem to end at size 4/5. My suggestions…

QUESTION EVERYTHING — THEY DO SUCH GREAT DITSY FLORALS

BELLABLISS — THEY HAVE SOME FUN LONG-SLEEVED OPTIONS (THIS MIGHT BE TOO FUSSY FOR HER TASTE BUT I LOVE IT)

BUSY BEES – LOVE THIS PLAID AND THIS HOUNDSTOOTH (<<THIS IS SUCH A GREAT DRESS FOR EVERYDAY; IT’S IN SOFT COTTON PIMA BUT LOVE THE PETER PAN COLLAR)

RACHEL RILEY — I KNOW SHE SAID LONG SLEEVED, BUT IS THIS NOT THE PERFECT CHRISTMAS DRESS?

CPC — THIS CORDUROY DRESS!

+Fall clothes for toddler boys.

+What are your favorite toddler products?