Earlier this year, a reader asked after my fall 2020 bucket list, and I am proud to say I managed to tick everything off the list, from apple picking with the children at Fishkill Farms to enjoying one of the most memorable meals of my life at the Stone Barns at Blue Hill. (I almost literally rubbed elbows with chef Dan Barber while en route to the bathroom there and did not realize it. Shoot! I wish I had matched the face to the name — I love an opportunity to applaud a job well done. When I was younger, my mother used to stop women on the street to tell them that they had “great hair,” or “looked wonderful in that cheery pink color,” and I was routinely mortified. Now I go out of my way in emulation of her generosity. Nothing feels better than an unexpected and deserved compliment.) We also managed to undertake some autumn baking, carve jack o’lanterns, visit Storm King Art Center while the leaves were changing, enjoy pumpkin waffles and Halloween movies for dinner one night, send out Halloween cards to loved ones, hold a “Halloween costume dry run” that turned into a dance party in our living room, stop by a winery for a bottle of red on a patio overlooking fall foliage, buy some new Halloween decor, put out an Oktoberfest dinner spread (with sausage, homemade soft pretzels, saurkraut, etc.), and make multiple trips to designated bits of the UWS with beautifully decorated brownstones. In short, we leaned into the fall festivities this year, moreso than usual. My sister, who has been our companion on several of our outside-of-Manhattan fall excursions, noted that one silver lining of our pandemic-constrained lives has been an urge to get out there and do things (that are safe/practical for social distancing) that require planning and effort and that therefore occasionally, in other years, have not feel worth the fanfare.

“You know, under normal circumstances, we might have just gone to dinner a few times instead,” she commented as we swooned over the burgundy and marigold and pumpkin-colored trees at Blue Hill, and I had to agree. Would we have jumped through the hoops to procure the reservation and agreed to the extravagant price tag were it not for how few and far between such indulgences have felt this year?

Now, as I look to winter 2020, I’m mildly bummed to think that we won’t be able to take in the Thanksgiving Day Parade on CPW or take mini skating in Central Park or at Rockefeller Center, the latter of which I’ve been daydreaming of since last winter, when mini still seemed too young. (I don’t think renting ice skates is a COVID-friendly reality…?) But that’s OK. I am excited about my burgeoning holiday bucket list anyhow:

+taking a long walk through Central Park on Thanksgiving Day with mugs of mulled wine;

+driving outside the city to select a Christmas Tree;

+visiting the Empire State Building (which I’ve never been to before, but now might be the best time to go — few tourists and timed tickets!);

+making snowpeople and snow angels with mini (she is already excited about the prospect of snow and I hear we may have a snowier winter than usual);

+trimming the tree while sipping egg nog from an enormous punch bowl;

+watching all the Christmas movies;

+making my Grandmother Carm’s Christmas Horns (<<recipe in this post);

+and — if it seems safe enough? if it’s being held this year? — possibly going to see the train show at the New York Botanical Gardens.

What about for you? How has COVID-19 changed your 2020 bucket list? Are there any silver linings for you?

Post-Scripts: Little Scores to Brighten Winter 2020.

+These plastic snowmen molds are absolutely amazing. My MIL sent one to mini last year and she loved it. You can find different shapes, too, like this penguin. Fun way to make a snow day that much more special this winter.

+I mentioned a punch bowl for egg nog — we actually have this genius glass cake dome, which can be inverted to become a punch bowl.

+I like the idea of drinking nog out of these.

+Super random, but does anyone else love these peppermint puff candies?

+Amazing Target find — I had to add this to my cart! More great holiday scores from Target here.

+Polarn O. Pyret makes the absolute best winter/snow gear for children. The quality is amazing — I actually have purchased a number of items from their clothing collection and cannot speak highly enough about their attention to detail and the longevity of wear. WTTW: they run really tall (probably for the tall Scandi children they normally outfit). This snowsuit is such an incredible deal (usually like $120) and would probably fit a 1.5 year old. Mini owns this bib style (also ridiculously discounted on Amazon!). And I think I’ve written at least a dozen times about how much I loved their infant snowsuits — I bought for Hill in a few sizes so that I could put him in it and strap him to me in the Baby Bjorn while picking up Emory from school when it was really cold out last winter.

+I bought mini these $13 thermals for snowdays this year! (Read reviews!)

+I just bought myself this New Balance running jacket, on sale for as low as $34 in select colors/sizes, and these touchscreen-friendly gloves (reviews!) to encourage me to stick with my running habit as the mercury drops.

+These fireside lounge socks look like heaven, though if you’ve not yet bought a pair of Darn Tough socks for winter…you’re missing out. The footbed is cushioned and the sock is SO warm. Heavenly for layering in boots.

+This year, I’m in the market for a simple cashmere beanie like this (and matching mittens!) to pair with all my coats, both casual and dressy.

+These L.L. Bean hats for children come in some great colors — adore the “silver moon” colorway for mini.

+Eyeing these shearling-trim Sperry boots for myself this year — SO GOOD. I already have a pair of Sorel snowboots but…!?

+An investment, but a Lionel train around a Christmas tree is a classic. We have inherited the one that belonged to Mr. Magpie’s parents and it is unbelievable.

+Pearl cableknit sweater to add interest to your Netflix + Chill winter wardrobe. Mango is killing it with the knitwear this season — also eyeing this cardigan, which feels very Ulla.

+This felt tree is in my cart — perfect Saturday morning activity for my children. They love this kind of thing! (BTW – yes, you could totally make this on your own, but have you tried cutting felt recently?! It is hard! Even with good scissors! I made a little felt pizza activity for mini and spent like thirty minutes hacking at felt to make mushrooms, pepperoni, etc. My arm was tired! I’ll gladly pay $12 for a professional to do it for me. Haha!

+And while we’re on that subject, more indoor activities for toddlers.

+And while we’re on the topic of staying indoors, if you’re looking to get out of a meal rut in your home, crack open a bottle of sparkling wine, sit around the coffee table with plenty of paper towels, and try this indoor shrimp BBQ recipe! So festive and delicious.

+More chic early holiday finds.

P.S. For those who have recently been diagnosed with COVID-19.

P.P.S. A prayer for tough times (scroll down).

Is anyone else’s front stoop starting to look like the photo above? Between all of the epic sales happening lately and shopping for holiday gifts, I think the UPS guy will spend half his day at our building. Anyhow, Shopbop is running a brief 40% off fall sale that ends tomorrow. I had to share a couple of standouts…

THIS WAFFLE PULLOVER AND MATCHING LEGGINGS SET IS CALLING MY NAME…PERFECT COLOR, COZIEST MATERIAL!

THIS SMOCKED SEA TOP IN THE IVORY IS SO CHIC — I WOULD WEAR IT UNDER JOVERALLS

CUTE FALL MINI

LACE PUFF-SLEEVED TOP ($62!)

YOU ALREADY KNOW MY THOUGHTS ON JBRAND’S PHOTOREADY DENIM…LA CREME DE LA CREME

P.S. Recent Amazon finds, the cutest laundry bin for a nursery, and what to say when I don’t know what to say.

*Image above via Dondolo. I have all the heart eyes for the dress the mother is wearing in the portrait above!

I can’t tell you how many inquiries I’ve received asking for advice on what to wear for family portraits, each with their own nuance. I shared some tartan/plaid family looks here, but am adding a couple of other options below that might suit your circumstances! My biggest piece of advice is to start with one piece you love, whether it’s a dress you’ve been eyeing forever or a special occasion piece your daughter owns and then build out from there, and know that not everyone has to be matching! Some of you can just have a little pop of the principal color/texture/vibe, i.e., just a pair of velvet smoking shoes if the children are in velvet outfits, etc.

If You Want a Fall Palette.

If you’re, say, shooting amidst fall foliage and don’t want straight up “HOLIDAY TARTAN” for the photo, I would go with this Sea dress* (I’ll be wearing this on Thanksgiving!) with children wearing pieces from Luca and Luca (also what my children will be wearing on Thanksgiving — ha!) They have such great fall colors in muted browns, burgundies, etc, that will all work beautifully together without looking matchy-matchy. For example, mini is wearing this (with knee socks or ribbed tights and Mary Janes like these or these) and micro is wearing this shirt and these dungarees with knee socks and saddle shoes. If that feels like too much competition with your dress, put yourself in a chic textured dress like this suede style (SO OBSESSED) or this sweater dress with some great suede boots.

For your husband, a shawl collar sweater in a warm camel color with his favorite corduroys and a white button-down, or have him test out wearing a fair isle in a pattern that compliments the family’s color palette. (And if that feels too busy, try one of these fantastic Pendleton sweaters in an olive green/brown/tan color.)

*Other similar boho/fall options for you: more or less anything from Doen, this $28 paisley maroon confection (j’adore), or this breezy Zimmermann (50% off).

If You’re Shooting in Warm Weather.

I’m nearly always drawn to blue and white, so that was my first thought. And right now, I love the pretty floral dresses for women from Dondolo, so might anchor the look around one of them, like this one (seen above). Splurgey, but this beyond precious Pukatuka dress or bubble for little girls (alternately, Luli & Me never disappoints), and this romper or these shorts for boys (or this from Luli). Husband can wear either seersucker pants or linen trousers and a white button-down.

*Dondolo has a lot of other great options in different palettes and lightweight fabrics from their recent collaboration with Pencil & Paper Co worth considering, too! Or build the entire vibe around this stunning dress, which would work well with nearly any floral pattern on little ones.

If You Want Shades of Ivory/White.

I love a winter white moment, and am currently drooling over this tweed coat mini dress for myself. This brocade is also exceptional, and I think Charlotte York would approve of this versatile, classy, and flattering dress.

For your little one, I’m smitten with this ivory lace dress, this bubble, this herringbone dress, this sweater-coat, this cashmere coverall, La Coqueta knit set, and this dramatic lace collar onesie (swoon!)

If You Want Velvet.

I’m so into velvet at the moment and have specifically been eyeing the green velvet from Luli & Me (this for girls) and the red velvet from Sal e Pimenta (this for boys). I might wear an ivory dress (options above) and finish with velvet/suede pumps or a velvet headband to tie in or go all out in this droolworthy GOAT dress, and have husband in a velvet bow tie or velvet smoking shoes paired with his favorite suit in gray.

*There are also some seriously cute velvet pieces in this Janie & Jack collection.

If all of these seem too complex to coordinate/you want something more casual, have everyone in jeans and a camel sweater/blouse/top, or make camel the unifying color. So easy to find pieces in that colorway this season! For example, you could layer this over any solid-colored piece your little lass already owns (or pair with jeans), your boy could wear these “brandy”-colored cords with an ivory cableknit sweater, and you can invest in that cashmere turtleneck you *need.* (Haha).

P.S. I actually want every single thing on this gift list for myself.

P.P.S. So enjoyed the insightful and provocative comments on this post about whether we gender our strengths.

P.P.P.S. The nightgown dress, but make it fall.

I’ve been listening to David Chang’s memoir, Eat a Peach, and it’s nothing like I expected it to be. Where I anticipated the slick and smug persona that has become synonymous with his celebrity, I have found instead startling vulnerability and the unmistakable ring of honesty. (There is also some showmanship and self-roister, but it is refreshingly self-aware.) In his book, Chang grapples with the conditions of his success as a restauranteur, his lifelong mental health journey, and what I can only describe as raw, unstilted philosophizing about the nuts and bolts of his profession. These musings are recherche in the sense that Chang is well-read, often citing classical authors from The Canon and beyond, and also deeply conversant in the philosophies and perspectives of many of the most highly-respected figures of our times in the realm of culinary arts–but he is also a free thinker, somehow untrammeled by the trappings of tradition. Hearing him talk about cooking and menu design and plate composition and restaurant concepting almost affords the impression that he has discovered it all on his own, though it is clear he is a studied professional. There is something about his tinkering inquisitiveness (i.e., “this flavor is too assertive, what if we tried x instead?” and “our customers find this too hot, but we still need the szechuan peppercorns to numb the tongue”) and his confidence in his own tastes (“no one likes umeboshi except for when drinking”) and his fearless cross-pollination of ideas (noodle bars, in America, before they were a thing — but in a category of cuisine he determinedly labeled “American” rather than “Asian” or, as was the now-rightly-denigrated term of art when he started his career, “ethnic”) that solidifies the fact that this is a man who truly thinks for himself. It’s not so much outside-the-box thinking (though this is also probably a fair assessment of his creativity) but the kind of ego-centricity that, at its worst, disrespects the culinary history of which he is a part and, at its best, demonstrates a kind of authenticity that is rare and precious.

I also last week watched an episode of Jon Favreau’s show Chef in which he and his co-star Roy Choi make flatbread with Pizzeria Blanco co-founder Chris Bianco and Tartine co-founder Chad Robertson. In it, Bianco displays a somewhat similar (though more approachable) variation on Chang’s M.O. when he says that he’s not sure how to classify what he’s making — flatbread, pizza, focaccia — and that he doesn’t much bother with labels anyhow: he cares about what tastes good and the provenance of his ingredients. He implies that he has been head-down working on making something delicious rather than positioning his work within a culinary framework. He later says, shruggingly, “All cooking is appropriation.”

I’m fascinated by the casual, almost flippant, anti-establishment ethos of both these artists — and they truly are, in my opinion, artists. They are familiar with the canon and yet they somehow appear to be operating outside of it, or imagining that they are, or inviting us to envision that they are capable of such outlander status. “That’s tradition over there, and that’s cool,” they seem to be saying, “But I’m just doing what feels interesting and fun over here.” Is it disingenuous? Is it pretentious? Or is it the exact opposite — radically authentic?

I have always felt that much of art is pastiche and allusion, the patchwork of influences that talented craftspeople are able to combine and transform into magical new iterations, driven by the force of their rare intellect and aesthetic impulse. It is alchemy. But references are the key and bulkiest ingredient. “No man is an island” (John Donne), and all that.

In my own narrow experience, I find that my writing materially improves the more I read. That is, my creativity is borne of the work of others: I stand on their shoulders and perch on the branches of trees they have planted.

But what share is theirs and what is mine? How much credit do we give? And what is the purpose of such — how to call it? — attribution or bean counting or divination? — anyhow?

It’s hard to say how Chang or Bianco would respond to a direct line of questioning along these lines, or whether they would bristle and reply: “Who cares? Don’t think so much.” (I could see that reply as well.) But these are the kinds of intractable rhetorical questions that their bright and startling comments dredge up, and they feel like the stuff of artistic integrity.

Any thoughts on this conversation on a Wednesday morning? Has anyone read the Chang book or watched the Favreau show? Free-wheeling commentary encouraged — a lot to chew on here.

Post-Scripts.

+What are you reading this fall? I just finished Shari LaPena’s latest thriller and I can’t remember the last time I stayed up until midnight reading a book. I had to finish it! I didn’t think it was quite as good as some of her previous novels (the conceit of marital infidelity and misgiving is starting to feel a bit old), but she is a master of suspense and specifically of sowing the seeds of doubt. You can trust nobody in a La Pena novel. It makes for fun reading. Strongly recommend if you want something you can’t put down!

+I’m currently reading The Lions of Fifth Avenue on the recommendation of multiple Magpies. Stay tuned for a full review.

+I am working on a gift guide for gentlemen that will be coming out soon, but wanted to let you know now that Mr. Magpie absolutely raves about his Apple AirPods Pro — there are a ton of enhancements over the original design (which I own and love), like noise cancellation, earpiece controls (i.e., you can tap the airpod in your ear for various features), and more. At the time of editing this post (10/27), they are marked down to 20% off so I had to share in case you want to buy now and save a little money!

+This $68 cardigan is a dead ringer for this $850 Zimmermann.

+Speaking of dramatic knitwear, this tres popular Vita Grace style was just re-stocked!

+I polled my Magpie Instagram followers to ask for recommendations for masks to wear while exercising. The top recommendations were these by Athleta (NOT the ones on their site marketed specifically for exercising — many readers said those are in fact horrible and suffocating!) and the disposable surgical ones on the grounds that the wire makes them easy to mold to your face and sort of cup around your nose/mouth so that the material doesn’t keep getting “sucked in,” which has been my major issue using fabric masks while running. I tested running with the latter because I already had some at home and I found it so scratchy on my face! Am I a baby or what? Contemplating ordering the Athleta ones unless anyone has any other suggestions to throw on the table?

+Some of my favorite face masks for everyday.

+Speaking of masks, mask-ne (mask-induced acne) is a thing now. One benefit to adding this retinoid to my regimen: it also combats acne. (I will write a full review on my experience with it in a few weeks!) Also on the unseemly topic of breakouts: my dermatologist recommends this inexpensive body wash post-exercise. Also going to test and will report back.

+Into these fair isle plates for a holiday tabletop situation.

+I’ve loved Self-Portrait for years and years now — several of my favorite dresses are theirs. Currently dying over this velvet midi for the holidays and this satin bow style, too. (The eyelash neckline!)

+Sophisticated plaid midi skirt. I’d pair with a dramatic/on-trend black sweater to keep the look fresh.

+Two additions to my pastels-for-fall roundup: this LSF (imagine with light-wash denim and clogs) and this $35 cable knit.

+Such pretty fall dresses for little girls here and here.

+October Amazon finds.

+If you are a new mom and need some encouragement, read the incredibly warm, compassionate, and encouraging comments here.

+First day of school vibes

+So into the statement vest this season, and this is now my top pick. CHIC.

+I saw a chic pea coming back from a run in Central Park wearing all black exercise gear and this running hat and…shamelessly bought it to copy her.

+Lake Pajamas has some super cute Christmas jammies for little ones available for preorder here. (A couple of other darling Christmas pajama finds here.)

+As always, in case you need to hear it, you are enough.

If you’ve been waiting for the right opportunity to buy your Thanksgiving dress, today might be the day thanks to Anthropologie’s 30% off dress sale. I’m specifically ogling:

THIS DRESS IN THE NUTMEG COLOR (CUTE WITH SUEDE BOOTS OR PUMPS)

THIS DROOLWORTHY CLEOBELLA

THIS DOEN-ESQUE RUFFLED MINI

Not for Thanksgiving, but this disco ball dress is so amazing for NYE…who cares if you aren’t going out?! Mr. Magpie and I have stayed in for the occasion for the past several years and we still get dolled up.

They’ve also included some fun shoes in the promotion: these chic velvet ballet flats (now $70), these velvet bow-topped beauties, and these covetable Loeffler Randall boots (wowza).

And speaking of festive wear: this sequined duster is SO amazing for the holidays. Throw on over your favorite leggings for NYE, or over a velvet dress for the perfect blingy layer. LOVE.

P.S. Are you a city mouse or a country mouse?

*Image above via Elleme featuring its incredible shearling bag.

I’m loving all of the interesting winter textures this season, from on-trend sherpa to timeless velvet. Below, a few of my favorite finds to add dimension to your winter wardrobe:

VELVET + SNAKESKIN BELT

SHERPA-TRIM SNEAKERS

FAUX SUEDE DRESS (INCREDIBLE — WANT TO WEAR WITH MY SNAKESKIN PARIS TEXAS BOOTS)

THIS SHEARLING HANDBAG!!!!

CORDUROY HEADBAND

LEATHER TOP OR DRESS (WOWZA)

SHEARLING BELT BAG

FEATHER TRIM TOP (!!!)

SHERPA EARMUFFS — GUCCI (#EXTRA) OR LAND’S END

VELVET STATEMENT TOP — LOVE THIS SELF-PORTRAIT AND ALSO THIS $22 STEAL FROM THE BRAND THAT CREATED THE AMAZON NIGHTGOWN DRESS

CHIC WOOL-BLEND TURBAN (SAW THIS ON THERESE HELSTROM AND SWOONED)

QUILTED MID-CALF BOOTS

PEARL BARRETTES (REMIND ME OF SOMETHING BY DROOL-WORTHY JEWELRY DESIGNER SOPHIE BILLE BRAHE)

SATIN HEADBAND

VELVET HAIRBOW

DEAD OVER THIS VELVET DRESS FOR CHRISTMAS WITH ENORMOUS SPARKLY EARRINGS

KNIT CLUTCH

LEATHER AND SHEARLING VEST

TAFFETA TRIM TURTLENECK

SHEARLING SLIPPERS — LOVE THESE AND THESE FOR AROUND THE APARTMENT

LUSTING AFTER THIS TWEED COAT MINI DRESS

SHEARLING TRIM SPERRY BOOTS

P.S. A lot of fantastic fall/winter textures in this roundup of statement coats, too. Update: This brushed plaid style from Old Navy and this nubby plaid from H&M are reminiscent of the plaid Isabel Marant coat we’re all heart eyes over.

P.P.S. More fall accessories here.

P.P.P.S. Now eyeing this pair of corduroys in the fun green color as an addition to my non-denim rotation. Interesting modern silhouette (the crop flare has been so big for the last season or two)!

*Image above via Britt Bromley. Amazing floor-to-ceiling David Hicks wallpapering and a reminder to have fun (both in decorating and in life).

**Unrelated but Bellabliss is running its end-of-season summer sale — 65% off with code SHOPNOW. My top tip for saving money on good quality children’s clothing is buying at closeout price for the year ahead. I love these scalloped shorts for girls ($13 with code!), this bubble and these shortalls for a baby boy (micro owned both of these — adorable!), and this precious bloomer set for a baby girl.

Mini slept for a long time with a pink floral baby quilt we’d bought at Land of Nod (RIP) and then all of the sudden I noticed that her toes stuck out an inch or two beneath the bottom hem. I started layering her with blankets at bedtime, aware that the solution felt a little ragged, but wanting to make sure those little tootsies were covered. Then, recently, after one of only two nighttime accidents she’s had in her whole life, I dragged out a spare queen-sized duvet (no cover on it) in the middle of the night and she loved it and has refused to sleep with anything else since. So we have an enormous queen-sized duvet devouring her tiny toddler bed (converted from her crib), and I have been in the market for a better solution. I think for now I will buy her a twin sized duvet even though it’s technically too big for the bed and just roll it up at the foot of the bed in the morning so it’s at least a little more appropriately-sized (and can be repurposed in the future), and here are a few of my top contenders:

SCHWEITZER LINEN’S LOVABLE 21 PATTERN

PEHR’S SWAN LAKE

PBK SIMPLE PINK BORDER STRIPE, BUT MAYBE SWAP OUT THE SHAM FOR THIS ONE, THIS ONE, OR THIS ONE

BISCUIT TRUVY OR JENNY PRINTS

Will add a monogram boudoir pillow like this or this to match.

Though we won’t be ready for a transition to a big girl bed or room for awhile, the entire thought exercise led me wandering down “big girl room” inspiration lane, so I thought I’d share a few other finds fit for a princess:

RATTAN DESK

SCALLOPED LAMPSHADE

I HAVE ALWAYS LOVED MATOUK’S PIQUE LANAI COLLECTION — WOULD BE SO CHIC IN A BIG GIRL ROOM

SET OF PATTERNED LAMPS

DRAMATIC HEADBOARD LIKE THIS, THIS, OR THIS

LATTICE-PRINT ARMCHAIR

HAPPY NIGHTSTANDS

BOW MIRROR

ADORE THIS BED REST PILLOW – I HAD ONE OF THESE GROWING UP!

FOR THE BATHROOM — THIS SCALLOPED SHOWER CURTAIN!!!!

LEANING BOOKCASES OR THIS ELEGANT SHELVED SET OR THIS WOVEN COLUMN DRAWER SET

FLORAL LETTER BANNER

BOW FRAMES

DRESSER

BOW KNOBS

FUN RUG

P.S. Recent nursery finds, if your children are younger, and bedtime books I love for little children.

P.P.S. Boll & Branch has some amazing baby finds — love this crib sheet set and OMG this hat and mittens set.

P.P.P.S. Just put down the baby!

First, everybody’s favorite Aesop hand soap is currently on sale for a rare 15% off (it is one of my absolute favorite scented hand soaps), as is their incredible hand balm. I bought the latter the day before I went in for my c-section with micro as a random treat to myself and it is unbelievably moisturizing and beautifully scented — like an herbal citrus woodsy heaven. (I promise you won’t be able to stop smelling your hands.) Both of these would make luxe gifts / stocking stuffers!

Second, another early Black Friday: up to 50% off some absolute gems at Madewell, including…

THIS CHIC SWEATER (J’ADORE THE SLEEVE)

CLOG BOOTS

DARK WASH DENIM WITH A DISTRESSED KNEE — I CAN’T HELP MYSELF! I STILL LOVE THIS TREND, MUCH TO MY MOTHER’S CHAGRIN

THESE HIGHLY REVIEWED PANTS FOR THOSE OF US SEEKING TO DIG OUR WAY OUT OF LE DENIM RUT

P.S. Chic footwear for fall and what you’re shopping for this month.

P.P.S. All of TBBC’s Christmas jammies are now live (hurry — these do sell out) and Burt’s Bees also has some cute, affordable holiday styles that just launched and are going quickly, like these penguins and these gingerbread men.

Below, my top picks for children roughly between the ages of 2-5, though some might work for younger children or slightly older ones. I’ve organized by price-point as I imagine many of us have budgets or at least a general sense of what we want to spend depending on our relationship with the recipient. I will have separate posts for babies and older children soon!

Big-Ticket Gifts for Toddlers and Young Children ($100+).

C&B NOD CHAIR OR PBK HARPER CHAIR — PERFECT FOR CREATING A READING NOOK FOR A LITTLE ONE

TEAMSON KIDS PLAY KITCHEN

OSMO STARTER SET (PEOPLE LOVE THIS — READ REVIEWS)

WOODEN NAME STOOL (MY MOTHER HAS GIVEN THESE TO ALL HER GRANDCHILDREN — SO USEFUL AND WELL-LOVED IN OUR HOME)

RADIO FLYER CLASSIC RED WAGON

POLISH ROCKING HORSE (SHIPPING IS PRICEY BUT ISN’T IT GORGEOUS?!)

OUR BIG GIFT FOR MINI THIS YEAR WILL BE A BALANCE BIKE — I’M DYING OVER THIS ONE FROM BANWOOD, ALTHOUGH THIS VERY SIMILAR STYLE IS HALF THE PRICE (AND THERE ARE OTHERS IN THE NEXT CATEGORY DOWN FOR LESS)

SPACE SHIP TENT

MAILEG HOUSE

Gifts for Toddlers and Young Children (Under $100).

ROSALINA BABY DOLLS (THIS BRAND SELLS OUT)

YBIKE BALANCE BIKE (APPROPRIATE FOR CHILDREN AS YOUNG AS ONE!), OR RADIO FLYER BALANCE BIKE (FOR 1.5+), OR THIS CUTE SCHWINN

BRUDER TRUCKS (THIS GERMAN BRAND MAKES EXCEPTIONALLY REALISTIC VEHICLES)

JANOD DRUM

PLAYSKOOL TRANSFORMERS

SENSORY KITS FROM HOME WITH ELIZABETH

WAY TO PLAY STREET SET AND WOODEN CARS

MAILEG MICE (MINI HAS BEEN COLLECTING THESE SINCE BEFORE SHE WAS BORN — WE ADD TO HER COLLECTION EVERY HOLIDAY AND I ADORE THIS ONE IN PARTICULAR)

CRANE AND TRUCK SET (I CAN TELL THAT THE REMOTE CONTROL FUNCTIONALITY WOULD BE A HUGE HIT IN OUR HOUSE)

MAGNATAB (HILL ESPECIALLY LOVES THIS — OFTEN PLAYS WITH IT)

SIT AND SPIN

KIWI CO STEM SUBSCRIPTION KITS

DUPLOS (<<MINI WOULD LOVE THIS ONE! SHE’S VERY INTO SUPERHEROES RIGHT NOW)

LINCOLN LOGS

SUPER SMALLS PLAY JEWELRY

Smaller Gifts for Toddlers and Young Children (Under $25).

JANOD DIY TRUCK (ARE YOU KIDDING? ANY TODDLER WILL FLIP OVER THE SCREWS AND TOOLS — A MUST-HAVE FOR HILL)

OOLY BRUSH MARKERS OR OOLY CHUNKIES PAINT STICKS (THE LATTER KEEP SELLING OUT EVERYWHERE…I PAID A PREMIUM TO GET THEM! THEY ARE VERY POPULAR) WITH A 3D COLORING KIT

SPIDERMAN DRESS UP

BALLERINA JEWELRY BOX (I HAD THIS EXACT STYLE WHEN I WAS LITTLE — I MUST BUY IT FOR MINI!)

TIMEX TODDLER WATCH (MINI HAS ALREADY ASKED FOR A WATCH BECAUSE A CLASSMATE HAS ONE)

PAPER DOLLS

COLOR-CHANGING UMBRELLA (CHILDREN ARE OBSESSED WITH UMBRELLAS, FYI)

MELISSA & DOUG HORSE STABLE (SOMETHING ABOUT THIS MAKES MY CHILDHOOD HEART SWELL…DID ANYONE ELSE READ THE THOROUGHBRED SERIES?

P.S. Some more of my absolute favorite toys for children.

P.P.S. Tips on promoting literacy at home during this pandemic.

P.P.P.S. I can’t read this without tearing up: “When I pluck you out of your crib after a nap, you settle into my arms and rest your head on my shoulder, and we sway in the still-dark quiet of the nursery for a few minutes before easing open the blinds and hushing the sound machine, deferring the real world and its routines and cacophonies in favor of a quiet embrace, just the two of us. I have wiped away many happy tears in this posture over the past few weeks, your cheek against mine, your chubby fingers clutching my shirt, the world outside your door immaterial.”

For the past few years, I have absolutely lived in jeans between the months of September and April, and every year, I vow to dig myself out of the rut. There is more to my fashion life than denim! I tell myself. This year, I’m actually doing it. It’s required ordering and returning a lot of options but it has made getting dressed in the morning even more fun. Below, my favorite finds, all of them under $125 and several under $58:

+These wide-leg cropped pants (seen above on Monica de la Villardiere — I own in the ivory frost color she’s wearing, too, and you can see me in them here) are so chic and currently $25. I have been wearing them with pointed toe flats or mules and slim-fit/layering knits. I’m intrigued by her styling with pointed toe suede boots, too!

+These cropped flares are technically described as “jeans” but I bought them in the ecru color, so I don’t think it counts…? I plan on pairing with chunky knits like this.

+I joined the waitlist for these corduroy pants in the dark olive colorway, though I’m intrigued by the tan, too. I have no idea if the shape/dimensions will work on me, but I love the way they are styled with ballet flats and a striped button-down in the olive color — preppy with a twist. Just different!

+I may also order this pair of corduroy pants (in the oregano color), which has been one of the most popular items I’ve featured on the blog this fall, and just see which pair are more flattering. I love the green! Would be really fun for an informal holiday gathering (Thanksgiving, Christmas, whatever) with an ivory sweater, or paired with blush pink as seen in the photo. And if both of the above-two fits are too “out there” for you, these classic skinny-fit corduroys are chic, especially in the dusty pink color.

+For at-home, but I saw these wide-leg knit pants (in camel) and thought I might be able to rock them with a coordinating camel textured knit sweater — this would be #goalz, and this is adorable, too.

+These in the sage have caught my attention. Would look so cute with this dramatic collar top. I also like the pants in the black paired with a white tee (tucked in!) and dressy sneakers or fun flats.

+Last but not least — and these I am thinking of for Saturday morning walks with the family through Central Park — so many of you have raved about the Lululemon Align Jogger! I adore the align leggings so I’m intrigued by these! (I should also note that this similar $16 pair has nearly 22,000 five star reviews on Amazon…)

P.S. Musings on sorrow and notes on one of the best books I’ve read in 2020.

My Latest Snag: Last-Minute Halloween Surprises.

I went above and beyond this year attempting to make Halloween special, as mini has been very into the holiday this year and I don’t quite know how to respond when she talks about saying “trick or treat to everyone.” (She has already told me what she wants to be for next Halloween: Spiderman. Ha!) She lost her mind when I surprised her with a second pair of Halloween pajamas (these — and, now is a good time to buy a pair or two for next year, while they are only $22 plus free shipping with code FAMILY) and went wild when she came out of her bedroom to find these bats all over the windows (the spider version is still in stock and can be delivered by Halloween!) I was surprised that micro was very into the bats as well! Multiple times a day, he runs over to them, points at them, and says: “Ooooohhhhh!” The final few additions to my Halloween surprise train:

PLASTIC SPIDERS TO TOP CUPCAKES (I’M GOING TO FROST THEM WITH CHOCOLATE WITH MINI AND THEN PIPE ON WHITE TO CREATE A WEB DESIGN)

HALLOWEEN CUPCAKE LINERS

A NEW HALLOWEEN BOOK

And, for Hill, I bought him this Batman Little People set after realizing I have all these little goodies (bath bomb, sticker books, slippers — all details here) for mini but only a book for him. Ah, second children. Anyway, he will love opening and closing the car and he’s always clutching a few Little People in his hands! Still available for delivery in time for the holiday if you order in the next day or two…

P.S. These gingham halloween treat bags (I bought Hill the orange one) are now on sale — in case you want to buy for next year!

You’re Sooooo Popular: A Sporty Tote.

The most popular items on le blog this week:

+This sporty tote — on sale!

+The Revlon one step — still on sale at Prime Day price for $29!

+These tweed combat-style boots.

+These precious children’s chairs (20% off with code LOVEHOME).

+Oversized cashmere waffle-knit sweater.

+Le clog.

+Chic python flat — will go with everything and j’adore the pointed toe. ($129!)

+Corduroy baseball hat.

+The best dry shampoo.

Weekend Musings: On Being a “Bodega Santa.”

I loved this post on Cup of Jo about being your loved one’s “Bodega Santa” — that is, “a member of your household who goes to the bodega for something you need and comes back with a variety of random/unnecessary treats.” I have to say, I am the queen of buying “random and unnecessary treats.” While “words of affirmation” is definitely my own love language (some well-timed praise from Mr. Magpie can entirely transform my week), I for sure communicate love to other people by showering them with gifts and treats, and during this pandemic, that has meant a freezer that is never without ice cream bars. Klondikes, Turkey Hill ice cream sandwiches, Haagen Dazs squares, Wegman’s house-brand chocolate peanut butter sundae bars, Snickers ice cream bars — you name it, I’ve bought it, much to the delight of Mr. Magpie, who would never purchase such indulgences for himself but will optimistically root around in the freezer after dinner.

What about you? When was the last time you played bodega santa in your household?

Post-Scripts: The Ulla Sweater.

+Can’t stop daydreaming about this loud Ulla Johnson sweater.

+These dramatic pearl earrings are so up my alley.

+Fun tartan puffer vest. I’d pair with black everything else and some edgy combat boots.

+More tartan greatness for holiday activities/festivities.

+Cute striped children’s tee for $5.50!

+This nightstand just makes me happy for some reason.

+So many great holiday finds at Target this year. They are already selling out of stuff if you can believe it (?!) I waited too long on the stocking holders I wanted from them (no longer available to ship), but went with this similar set instead.

+Is this dress amazing (on sale)?! Ahhh! A few of you have asked for family portrait dresses in warmer climates and this would be so epic.

+Adore this heart cable knit crewneck sweater for a little one.

+Fun striped pillows to refresh your living room or breakfast nook — love the gold colorway especially.

+Adore these fun letter patches to apply to just about any bag or even a cosmetic pouch like this.

+Attractive and inexpensive storage tower for a laundry room, children’s room, playroom, even a large bathroom (for towels).

+These dolls are so darling!

+This quilted headband immediately made its way into my cart.

+Sweet gift enclosures.

An early Black Friday sale: 50% off almost everything at J. Crew (60% off their sale selection!) with code FRIDAY. I’m mainly interested in stocking up on in-season staples for my children:

WAFFLE KNIT TEES AND LINED CORDS FOR HILL

FIELD JACKET FOR $44 (HE HAS ONE FOR THIS SEASON – BOUGHT ONE FOR NEXT YEAR)

CUTEST CABLE-KNIT CREWNECK FOR MINI

CARDIGANS FOR MINI IN IVORY AND NAVY ($20!)

HAD TO SNAG THESE TARTAN-PATCH CORDS FOR MINI

CORDUROY CAP

But if you need a little pick-me-up for yourself, I love this fall headband and this sweater jacket.

Also! Extra 40% off sale clothing at Anthro. This is in my cart…you know i love a good stripe. Easy weekday look with black skinnies and my clog boots. Would look beyond amazing under this sweater cardigan jacket dream, also on sale (at Nordstrom).

P.S. Little girl finds for under $30.