Femme.

Everything about this book ($85) sends me into a feminine mood.

Makes me daydream about a silken blush dress (Tibi, $695 — also love this style) with bow-toe heels ($238 — also consider these bow-ankle heels):

These earrings make the look ($425), and some other accessories would also fit the mood, including:

+this jewelry kit (Leontine Linens, $55+);

+feather jacket ($2,020);

+cocktail napkins ($44 for 4);

+julep cup ($45);

+D. Porthault pillow ($225);

+Pearl earrings (David Yurman, $395);

+Lace bra ($52);

+Giselle pajamas ($116).

Lastly, a glorious cashmere sweater or two (on sale at J. Crew for $109+ — and these badboys are monogrammable!):

So ladylike.