Everything about this book ($85) sends me into a feminine mood.
Makes me daydream about a silken blush dress (Tibi, $695 — also love this style) with bow-toe heels ($238 — also consider these bow-ankle heels):
These earrings make the look ($425), and some other accessories would also fit the mood, including:
+this jewelry kit (Leontine Linens, $55+);
+feather jacket ($2,020);
+cocktail napkins ($44 for 4);
+julep cup ($45);
+D. Porthault pillow ($225);
+Pearl earrings (David Yurman, $395);
+Lace bra ($52);
+Giselle pajamas ($116).
Lastly, a glorious cashmere sweater or two (on sale at J. Crew for $109+ — and these badboys are monogrammable!):
So ladylike.